You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom: So Embrace the Chaos, Get Over the Guilt, and Be True to You

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09 Sep
A much-needed voice of encouragement for every woman who had a baby and lost her mind

Sometimes, motherhood feels never-ending. A child is born, chaos ensues, and it seems like life will never return to normal.

In You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom, award-winning journalist and Instagram star Leslie Anne Bruce acknowledges that, yes, motherhood is a total mind f*ck-but then she offers the self-empowerment lessons new mothers need to get through the psychic upheaval and emerge stronger than ever. After childbirth, a woman's body, her relationships, and her very sense of self are tested like never before. Bruce encourages readers to look past the sugarcoated truisms about the miracles of child-rearing in order to embrace the real joys of motherhood, spit-up stains and all.

Loaded with unfettered support from a mom who has been through it all, You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom offers a lifeline of encouragement, inspiration, and community for the new mama who got a baby, lost her mind, and desperately wants to find herself again.

Reviews (166)

I laughed, I cried, I threw a shoe at my husband's head

I was going to write this review about how I wished this book had been written before my two munchkins (ages 5 and 1) were born. It's true that I would have been so much better equipped to manage the "crippling" loss of identity, the heartbreak of leaving my baby for the first time upon returning to work, and the all-encompassing nature of breastfeeding. However, after finishing the book, I will tell you that this book is for ALL MOMS! It doesn't matter if you're pregnant, in the 4th trimester, or well into the toddler years. This book will touch a nerve, make you laugh, make you cry, and have you cheering until the very last page. One of my very favorite take-aways is the reminder that I'm allowed to be my own woman AND a mom. Another of my favorite "ah-ha" moments is that you're allowed to have two conflicting feelings, and one does not beget the other. I'll be gifting this book to all of my amazing mom friends this holiday season!

Therapy for my former self-I wish this book had existed 10 years ago ♥️

After I gave birth to my son I legit called the hospital and begged them to re-admit me. Everything in my body felt wrong and yet I was supposed to take care of/nourish/keep alive another human in my condition? It seemed like everyone else was doing it with such ease so why was I drowning in it all? If only I had Leslie’s book back then to level with me and show me how normal these feelings were. I could have been less of a Stage 5 Clinger with the nurse hotline and I wouldn’t have felt so alone and overwhelmed those first few years. I’m SO grateful that “You’re a F* Awesome Mom” exists now, it’s like therapy for my former self. Planning on gifting it for soon-to-be mama friends as well as seasoned mamas. No matter what stage you are at, this book exposes motherhood as the great uniter and equalizer that it should always be and brings us together like old friends to reflect, laugh and remind each other that even on our worst days we are F* Awesome.

There’s a baby bible, but this is the mama bible. MUST HAVE

This book seriously helped me interpret everything I have been feeling and could not explain! It also helped me see that what I’m feeling is ok and that I’m not alone. Huge deal! You’ll laugh. You’ll cry. You’ll change because of this book. I was able to finally vocalize how I’m feeling with having a toddler and newborn and honestly believe if this book would’ve been written when my son was born. It literally would’ve saved me from the postpartum depression I dealt with. If you want a book that will talk about what everyone has been afraid to talk about (the not so fun parts that people are shamed for voicing) in a blunt and realistic fashion, this book is for you! Every mom should have this book. The what to expect books help you understand your baby, and this book helps you understand yourself. Just buy it!

A lot of honesty and permission for grace

This book has been so healing for me. I have three little boys who are 8, 4, and 18months. And with my first two I suffered some serious postpartum depression and with my third a fun new one I had never heard of : postpartum panic disorder. In this book, Leslie share some (very) personal stories alongside some serious facts about early motherhood that just aren’t shared with new mamas at all, if ever. She personalizes them. Makes them more then just data being tossed at you to chew on. Thanks to her willingness to share the hurts and heartbreaks and what felt like insanity of the first few months of her postpartum journey, and have been able to let go and forgive myself for many things I had held in to. Used to berate myself. To judge my own worthiness as a mother. This book is a new mama, and the experienced mamas, best friend for understanding those first exciting, terrifying, trying months of motherhood.

A MUST READ for new mamas!!

As a new mom, this book was everything I needed to hear!! The author did such an amazing job telling it like it is- no sugar coating- just real and raw thoughts and feelings. Reading this book made me realize that I'm not alone and this parenting thing is challenging for other people, too. As an OCD planner I read alllll the baby books while I was pregnant, but never did these books once address the transformation that YOU would be going through when you become a mother. Although I think this book applies to all walks of life- I think if you are like me- a 30 something who carefully planned out your life ( i.e. go to college, have a successful career, get married, travel the world, buy a house & then have a baby) you might find that adjusting to this new mama life will rock your world, too. As the author writes in the book (and it makes SO much sense!) you spent the last three decades figuring out who you are as a person and establishing yourself in the world. And then all of a sudden your world drastically changes within minutes and you soon realize you have to mourn that person you once were and try to figure out who this new person is. For me, this was difficult to verbalize and even understand how I felt, so reading this book truly helped me decipher my thoughts & feelings and be able to better deal with them and communicate them to my husband, family and friends. After I read it, I immediately gifted it to all of my new mama friends. Highly, highly recommend!!!!!

Favorite parenting book I’ve ever read

This book will now be my go-to baby shower gift for every new and seasoned Mom expecting. Leslie shares her experience and insight in the most relatable way. The book made me laugh out loud almost every chapter which I absolutely needed when dealing with the tunnel of life that is having a newborn. Her book release couldn’t have come at a better time. There are so many things to stress about as a mother, Leslie’s voice on it all is the perspective we all need.

Fun read, will definitely pass along to other mamas!

Fun read with honest opinions and personal stories that are relatable! The book can be redundant at times and some of the points, which I understand are personal and subjective, I disagreed with. For example, her opinions on supplementation and stating that the baby was “starving” in the second day of life, rather than cluster feeding, just because her milk hadn’t come in yet, which is normal. Overall, an entertaining read that makes new mamas realize they are not alone! Whatever the woman’s opinions, fears, and strengths this is an empowering book that makes one realize that no one is alone in this!

A funny, honest book about motherhood!

This book is AMAZING! There is nothing else like it on the market. This is a book for MOMS! Every mom and soon to be mom needs this book. You will not regret buying this book and making time to read it. I wish this book existed when I had my daughter 6 years ago. Leslie's book is refreshingly honest about the transition to motherhood. The author covers the transition to motherhood with true stories, raw emotion and humor. At the beginning of the book Leslie explains that we as moms cannot truly prepare a pregnant woman for the crazy transition they are about go through. Now we do not have to! Do yourself a favor and buy them this book. Her honesty about the challenges she faced as a new mom is so easy to relate to. As you read her book you feel more normal. I have been laughing out loud and even reading parts to my husband. I hope you enjoy it as much as did!

The lifeline every mom needs to have

Perfect baby shower gift for any mom! I'm so glad I had this book to read while I was pregnant with my first baby and now she's here I will go for round two. Not only is it honest and sometimes raw but hilarious and loving. Leslie doesnt hold anything back and talks to you like you hope your friends would. Honestly I wish some of my friends had told me what to really expect the way Leslie writes in this book. And most importantly knowing these things means you know YOU ARE NOT ALONE/INSANE/UNHEARD. For a new mom that is a lifejacket like no other in the sea of sleepless nights and neverending days of denied naps. If you are not a new mom...this book will still speak to you because you will always be a mom.

The most honestly accurate parenting book!

Calling any and all moms that are searching for a very honest and enjoyable parenting book. Look no further than this one. I am the proud mom Of a 3 year old and a 6 week preemie and I am Beyond thankful I saw Lauren Conrad’s post recommending this book. Leslie’s experience is sooo similar to mine with my first, and I still relate to it in the throes with my newborn. It helps to feel like you’re in it with someone and this book made me feel less alone, and helped me put into eloquent words what I am feeling. Buy it and read it and buy it for all your pregnant friends! I wish Leslie was in my mom tribe!

I laughed, I cried, I threw a shoe at my husband's head

I was going to write this review about how I wished this book had been written before my two munchkins (ages 5 and 1) were born. It's true that I would have been so much better equipped to manage the "crippling" loss of identity, the heartbreak of leaving my baby for the first time upon returning to work, and the all-encompassing nature of breastfeeding. However, after finishing the book, I will tell you that this book is for ALL MOMS! It doesn't matter if you're pregnant, in the 4th trimester, or well into the toddler years. This book will touch a nerve, make you laugh, make you cry, and have you cheering until the very last page. One of my very favorite take-aways is the reminder that I'm allowed to be my own woman AND a mom. Another of my favorite "ah-ha" moments is that you're allowed to have two conflicting feelings, and one does not beget the other. I'll be gifting this book to all of my amazing mom friends this holiday season!

Therapy for my former self-I wish this book had existed 10 years ago ♥️

After I gave birth to my son I legit called the hospital and begged them to re-admit me. Everything in my body felt wrong and yet I was supposed to take care of/nourish/keep alive another human in my condition? It seemed like everyone else was doing it with such ease so why was I drowning in it all? If only I had Leslie’s book back then to level with me and show me how normal these feelings were. I could have been less of a Stage 5 Clinger with the nurse hotline and I wouldn’t have felt so alone and overwhelmed those first few years. I’m SO grateful that “You’re a F* Awesome Mom” exists now, it’s like therapy for my former self. Planning on gifting it for soon-to-be mama friends as well as seasoned mamas. No matter what stage you are at, this book exposes motherhood as the great uniter and equalizer that it should always be and brings us together like old friends to reflect, laugh and remind each other that even on our worst days we are F* Awesome.

There’s a baby bible, but this is the mama bible. MUST HAVE

This book seriously helped me interpret everything I have been feeling and could not explain! It also helped me see that what I’m feeling is ok and that I’m not alone. Huge deal! You’ll laugh. You’ll cry. You’ll change because of this book. I was able to finally vocalize how I’m feeling with having a toddler and newborn and honestly believe if this book would’ve been written when my son was born. It literally would’ve saved me from the postpartum depression I dealt with. If you want a book that will talk about what everyone has been afraid to talk about (the not so fun parts that people are shamed for voicing) in a blunt and realistic fashion, this book is for you! Every mom should have this book. The what to expect books help you understand your baby, and this book helps you understand yourself. Just buy it!

A lot of honesty and permission for grace

This book has been so healing for me. I have three little boys who are 8, 4, and 18months. And with my first two I suffered some serious postpartum depression and with my third a fun new one I had never heard of : postpartum panic disorder. In this book, Leslie share some (very) personal stories alongside some serious facts about early motherhood that just aren’t shared with new mamas at all, if ever. She personalizes them. Makes them more then just data being tossed at you to chew on. Thanks to her willingness to share the hurts and heartbreaks and what felt like insanity of the first few months of her postpartum journey, and have been able to let go and forgive myself for many things I had held in to. Used to berate myself. To judge my own worthiness as a mother. This book is a new mama, and the experienced mamas, best friend for understanding those first exciting, terrifying, trying months of motherhood.

A MUST READ for new mamas!!

As a new mom, this book was everything I needed to hear!! The author did such an amazing job telling it like it is- no sugar coating- just real and raw thoughts and feelings. Reading this book made me realize that I'm not alone and this parenting thing is challenging for other people, too. As an OCD planner I read alllll the baby books while I was pregnant, but never did these books once address the transformation that YOU would be going through when you become a mother. Although I think this book applies to all walks of life- I think if you are like me- a 30 something who carefully planned out your life ( i.e. go to college, have a successful career, get married, travel the world, buy a house & then have a baby) you might find that adjusting to this new mama life will rock your world, too. As the author writes in the book (and it makes SO much sense!) you spent the last three decades figuring out who you are as a person and establishing yourself in the world. And then all of a sudden your world drastically changes within minutes and you soon realize you have to mourn that person you once were and try to figure out who this new person is. For me, this was difficult to verbalize and even understand how I felt, so reading this book truly helped me decipher my thoughts & feelings and be able to better deal with them and communicate them to my husband, family and friends. After I read it, I immediately gifted it to all of my new mama friends. Highly, highly recommend!!!!!

Favorite parenting book I’ve ever read

This book will now be my go-to baby shower gift for every new and seasoned Mom expecting. Leslie shares her experience and insight in the most relatable way. The book made me laugh out loud almost every chapter which I absolutely needed when dealing with the tunnel of life that is having a newborn. Her book release couldn’t have come at a better time. There are so many things to stress about as a mother, Leslie’s voice on it all is the perspective we all need.

Fun read, will definitely pass along to other mamas!

Fun read with honest opinions and personal stories that are relatable! The book can be redundant at times and some of the points, which I understand are personal and subjective, I disagreed with. For example, her opinions on supplementation and stating that the baby was “starving” in the second day of life, rather than cluster feeding, just because her milk hadn’t come in yet, which is normal. Overall, an entertaining read that makes new mamas realize they are not alone! Whatever the woman’s opinions, fears, and strengths this is an empowering book that makes one realize that no one is alone in this!

A funny, honest book about motherhood!

This book is AMAZING! There is nothing else like it on the market. This is a book for MOMS! Every mom and soon to be mom needs this book. You will not regret buying this book and making time to read it. I wish this book existed when I had my daughter 6 years ago. Leslie's book is refreshingly honest about the transition to motherhood. The author covers the transition to motherhood with true stories, raw emotion and humor. At the beginning of the book Leslie explains that we as moms cannot truly prepare a pregnant woman for the crazy transition they are about go through. Now we do not have to! Do yourself a favor and buy them this book. Her honesty about the challenges she faced as a new mom is so easy to relate to. As you read her book you feel more normal. I have been laughing out loud and even reading parts to my husband. I hope you enjoy it as much as did!

The lifeline every mom needs to have

Perfect baby shower gift for any mom! I'm so glad I had this book to read while I was pregnant with my first baby and now she's here I will go for round two. Not only is it honest and sometimes raw but hilarious and loving. Leslie doesnt hold anything back and talks to you like you hope your friends would. Honestly I wish some of my friends had told me what to really expect the way Leslie writes in this book. And most importantly knowing these things means you know YOU ARE NOT ALONE/INSANE/UNHEARD. For a new mom that is a lifejacket like no other in the sea of sleepless nights and neverending days of denied naps. If you are not a new mom...this book will still speak to you because you will always be a mom.

The most honestly accurate parenting book!

Calling any and all moms that are searching for a very honest and enjoyable parenting book. Look no further than this one. I am the proud mom Of a 3 year old and a 6 week preemie and I am Beyond thankful I saw Lauren Conrad’s post recommending this book. Leslie’s experience is sooo similar to mine with my first, and I still relate to it in the throes with my newborn. It helps to feel like you’re in it with someone and this book made me feel less alone, and helped me put into eloquent words what I am feeling. Buy it and read it and buy it for all your pregnant friends! I wish Leslie was in my mom tribe!

You need this book - It. Is. Amazing.

This book is just SO good. I'm a new mom and have gobbled up what seems like EVERY parenting book I could find, desperately trying to prepare myself for motherhood. In case you wondered - THAT did not prepare me. THIS BOOK would have prepared me. Sure, motherhood is beautiful and what a miracle it is to make life and all that, but most of the time it is NOT beautiful or a miracle. Most of the time it's just hard and Leslie somehow finds a way to tell you that while also making you feel like you are 100% capable of raising a well-adjusted human. For months I felt very alone on my journey into being a mom, but within the first few pages of Leslie's book I felt like I found a friend. An actual real person who GOT IT. Someone who would pour out a glass of wine with me and sit on the couch to hear the real talk of my day, and then fervently remind me that I've got this. I am now buying 10 more copies for my pregnant friends, new mom friends, and upcoming baby showers. It is that good. TL;DR: You need this book. Just buy it already. You absolutely will not regret it.

Exactly what I needed.

It took about 15 pages before I was literally in tears because for the first time since becoming a mom - I felt understood. I seriously was holding some real shame around some of the feelings I was having as a new mom. It’s so nice to know I’m not alone!! This book is a must freaking have. It’s going to be read again and probably will be repurchased the next time a friend is expecting. Seriously I cannot stress enough how much of an absolute MUST READ this book is. I only wish I’d found it a year ago. Five stars isn’t enough 😩❤️

Every new mom needs this book!

I've enjoyed following Leslie on social media due to her humor and transparency. I was very excited to read this book, and I knew I'd love it, but it blew me away in ways I wasn't prepared for. Motherhood, especially in those early days, is so hard. Yes, it's beautiful and amazing, but it's also damn hard, and there are many days you feel like a failure. I wish I had more people in my life prepare me for that. I did not. Many times I felt very alone in my feelings of weakness, guilt, etc. Reading someone else say how hard it is, and share those tough feelings, was just what I needed, and what so many moms need. I would recommend every new or soon to be mom read this book! Leslie tells those hard truths beautifully, and also at times hilariously! I laughed, cried, and yelled aloud in agreement while reading this book. I'm thankful I read it!

I would recommend this to any new mom

I really enjoyed reading this book. AND IM NOT A READER. You really Don’t learn much about mom duties and what not, from it. You more so learn how to cope with being a mom and it’s mental and physical ups and downs. Hers are extreme but it’s good to know and see how she worked through it. And she’s pretty funny Too! Out of all the books I read before giving birth, this was the only One I would read at night and have to force myself to stop reading and go to sleep. I ate it up.

EVERY MOM, NEW OR SEASONED, SHOULD READ THIS BOOK

THIS BOOK. I can’t say enough good things about it. Read this when my first was 9 months old (she’s almost 2 now!)and I literally felt like I was at my group therapy sessions for new moms. Leslie’s experiences and words really resonated with me in a way that I had never experienced. Do we love our children? Of course - not even a question. Do we love our husbands? Duh - I can’t and won’t even begin to imagine trying to raise our children by myself (massive shout out to single moms and dads, you are the REAL heroes). But when we’re not even able to take care of ourselves, it makes it almost impossible to take care of anyone else. And this book made me feel heard and like I wasn’t alone. The amount of times I audibly said YES and took a pic of an excerpt and sent it to my other new mom friends is too many to count. The amount of aggressive head nodding in agreement as I took in every single word. Constant. I’m expecting my second child and I’m about to read this book again - that’s how amazing it is. Also, I replied to one Leslie’s hilarious stories on Instagram and she messaged me back! We had a real conversation! She’s literally just one of us moms trying to keep it all together. You’re going to LOVE this book. After you buy it for yourself, buy 5 more and give them to your mom friends. Chances are, they’ll buy 5 more for their friends too. Leslie, you rock.

This book comforted me as a new mom!

Since giving birth to my son in May 2019, my world turned upside down. I felt like I was the only person going through what I went through from the highs to the lowest of lows to desperately missing my “former life” to wondering if I made the right decision to being completely blindsided by feelings of love and adoration. This book is everything, when your friends sugarcoat it or lie to you about what it’s really like, this book will tell you the truth. Finally, someone’s being real about motherhood and validating all of us in the process!

Organic and fresh

As a new mom, it’s nice to know you're not alone grappling with all of these feelings--sometimes delightful, sometimes overwhelming, and sometimes (quite frankly) a little bit scary. She says the things you are apprehensive about saying out loud and normalizes them with an anecdote or a joke; she makes you realize that all of these emotions are ok and they must mean you are doing something right. Her wit, humor and honesty span cover to cover. If you’re reading this book, chances are you love your kids, you have the patience of a saint (because you’re a mom), and appreciate a carefully curated and strategically placed f bomb. She seems like the kind of mom we would all welcome and be lucky to have in our “mama tribe.”

My New Go-To Gift for ALL My Mama Friends

I've followed Leslie Bruce's writing for awhile now so when this book came out, I eagerly pre-ordered it. It not only lived up to my hopeful expectations but exceeded them. I believe that us mamas just really want to be heard and this book listened to my heart and thoughts and hugged me back. Leslie hears all mamas out there, especially the new mothers, and reassures us that we're all OK, that we aren't alone. And gosh, don't we all need that, especially during the emotional and oh so hard early years of parenting!? I felt comforted, took a deep breath and laughed. This is, without a doubt, my new go-to gift for all the mamas in my life and I get excited every time I gift it :) Thank you Leslie, keep those wise words coming and I'll keep reading (and cheers-ing with a glass of vino right with you!)!

Motherhood MUST READ!

I think every mom needs to read this book. I love how she gives advice to “expecting moms” and how everything is relatable for someone like me with 2 toddlers. Motherhood is tough and knowing that I’m not the only one going through the growing pains is comforting.

Must read for moms, moms to be and those that wish to support them.

This book is a must read for any mom, mom to be or partner supporting the mom in their life. The author gives an honest account of what motherhood is really like. We were brought up being told we can do it all but for centuries the “village” has always helped mothers. We look weak if we ask for help but lack the support that previous generations have. This book speaks to the absolute joy, isolation and struggles that new mothers face. It is so refreshing to read a book that focuses on the mom’s well being after birth as that is so commonly forgotten. I am so happy I came across this book and it will be my new go-to baby shower present for my expectant friends.

Awesome fast read for new moms

So much of being a new mom is uncertainty - are you doing things right? Is your baby okay? Are YOU okay? I found this book immensely helpful (and hilarious) during long nights up feeding and pumping when I felt like no one else was listening - or cared. It gave me confidence and a chuckle when I needed it most, and made me feel like even on my worst days, my baby barely noticed the difference - so I could just chill out. This is an awesome gift for a baby shower, new mom, or even seasoned parents starting over with another newborn at home. Leslie's no-nonsense advice and honest experience is refreshing and funny, and I'll probably read it all over again when #2 arrives!

Must-have mom read

I started reading this book after my son was born. It was relatable, hilarious, and honest. I bought one for my friend for when her son was born. It was much needed during time of mom guilt and finding myself as a new human being. Leslie also did a podcast ep with Lauren Conrad (how I first heard about her book coming out) and it was fantastic.

FUNNY & HONEST Book for Mama's!

I was introduced to Leslie Anne Bruce by a fellow mama friend and instantly loved her! Her blog, Unpacified was hilarious and honest and saying everything I was thinking but sometimes ashamed to say out loud as a new mom. I was instant fan and began to follow her on social media. When news of the book broke and pre-order was available, I jumped on the opportunity immediately. If you enjoy funny and genuine women and are a fellow mom or mom to be then YOU. NEED. THIS. BOOK. BUY IT!

A life changing true story of motherhood

I am a mom of two under the age of two and the mom guilt has been weighing heavily on me - as well as the wife and employee guilt. I felt I was never enough for any one in particular because I had become a mother and that was now who I was. So this book's title and tagline drew me in. And I am so thankful that it did. The authors brutal honesty was refreshing. It opened my eyes again, and by being honest about my own difficulties to myself and my husband, I have been able to find my way back to happiness. I recommend this book to anyone who will listen. It helped heal me and for that I am eternally grateful to the author. It could not have been easy being so open and honest but I hope she knows how much it means to those who are ready to listen.

By far the best purchase for myself and new moms

I can't tell you the last time I actually read a book. However, after receiving this book, I was hysterical laughing before the first chapter. Yep! The Intro and even dedication had me flipping through the pages I couldnt wait for the next chapter; who knew I even had time to read! As a mom, we find excuses for everything, including a moment to read- but this book helps normalize your crazy, empathize your agony and not sugar coat what we are going through. More importantly than a lifeline of compassion, it was informative. If you say you don't have time, all the more reason to buy this book for yourself, your best friend and any other mom out there you know. Its an A+++

Hilarious & a Must Read for Moms!

Leslie does an exceptional job of giving mothers a voice to such a complex change in our roles and lives. I struggled to find the right words to express how I was feeling during both my first and second pregnancy and it was as if she read my mind on so many dimensions I was experiencing. Her encouraging tone, humor, and knowledgeable words validate every mom’s experience. Such a wonderful book for anyone who is a mother or is going to become one.

Must read for all first time moms

Becoming a mom is scary and it’s amazing how little is actually out there to give it to you straight. Really that’s all the support we need, for someone to prepare us about how we shift as women and how our identity changes so quickly. This book is the best “pregnancy” book out there.Because you’re not just having a baby, you’re becoming a whole new person and nothing can prepare you for that, but this booked helped me understand that a little bit more. It taught me to have patience with myself and it gave me hope that I would meet other moms out there that didn’t pretend to have it all together, because none of us do. Definitely recommend

Real mom life and real topics

As a mom of three who just suffered a miscarriage a few months ago and went through severe PPD with my third pregnancy, I think this is a GREAT heads up to new moms. I might just start giving it as a shower gift. I love how the author doesn't take things too serious but also touches base on very serious topics that women need to hear about. And I love that she's a mom who can drop the Fbomb. Great all around read!

Don't let the curses scare you: New moms NEED this book.

It's as if Leslie was reading my mind in new motherhood - why was the identity shift so hard? She helpfully explains that our generation of mothers is having a harder time adjusting to losing their pre-baby identity and independence because we're waiting longer to have kids and are having full careers before becoming moms. Once the baby arrives, we have to rebuild to figure out our new identity and new independence balancing it all. This book helps you realize that you're not alone: new motherhood is just that HARD. THE most helpful book for this generation of moms - your mental health will thank you.

Wish I would have had this with my first

I am a mama of 3 (6 years, 3 years, and 2 mos) and I wish I would have had this book when my first was born. As a woman who loves her career motherhood has been a challenging journey for me. I had so many “ah ha” moments while reading it even though I’ve been doing this motherhood thing for 6 years!! I will be gifting this book at every baby shower I attend from now on. Thank you for creating this bible for new moms.

Honest and supportive book for any mom to read!

Thank you for sharing your honest feedback. I Read the book so fast bc I couldn’t put it down (which isn’t easy w a 4 year old and 2 year old!) My sister in law said I had to read it before my 3rd baby arrives any day and I’m soooooo glad I did! I wish this kind of honest support was around for my first. I think it’s worth reading no matter what stage of parenting you are facing. Thank you for sharing and congrats on the book! I sent the book suggestion out to my friends and said this should be required reading for all moms!! Now you need to make one for dads! 😉

First time mom @ 34 years old.

I bought this book after seeing Leslie’s feed on Instagram. I wish I had it prior to giving birth and that my friends had shared with me what actually would happen during the birthing process. It wasn’t until afterwards that one friend validated what I was going through. Motherhood is a gift, but as a thirty something who was fiercely independent, my 7lbs child nearly broke my spirit and made me question everything. My husband secretly read the first two chapters and I didn’t realize it until I was on the train reading the book. He told me that he felt as if all new parents should read this book. Thank you for writing this!

A must-read for parents of all kinds!

As a new first-time-mom and someone who has struggled with PPD, Leslie’s book has been a huge sigh of relief, physically and comically. I just wish I had read it sooner! Thank you Leslie for your honesty and vulnerability. Moms, especially new ones like myself, could benefit from so much more of that. If you’re planning to have kids, expecting, or already momming it up, do yourself a favor and GET THIS BOOK!

Everyone needs this book

Whether you are thinking about becoming a mama, mama to be, current mama, or friends with a mama, you need this book. Bruce is honest and brave with what she shares about motherhood. As a brand new mom weathering through this time, reading her words resonated in every possible way and made me feel like my inner thoughts were being heard. It was both entertaining and therapeutic to read. I am so glad I had this as my motherhood guide book to know I am as the title so very well puts it! Already sent it to my future mama friends.

Honest and hilarious

I love this book so much I have already bought a few copies to send to friends! If you are a mom who is struggling with the shift from only having to wipe your own butt to being responsible for the wellbeing of a small child, you need this book!

Ehh

Ehhh the first few chapters I was into it and than I got to a point and she just keeps repeating herself. And I was literally forcing myself to read it but I couldn’t. I think I got to chapter 6. Its been sitting in my drawer ever since. I wish I could return this but I think my 30 days is up already.

Leslie Bruce is an Awesome Mom

This book was everything I needed to read as a new mother... especially as a new mother of two under 3 yrs old. I cried within the first few pages, finally feeling seen and validated for my experience of overwhelming love and overwhelming well... whelm. It’s hard! It’s amazing and magical and it’s hard, and Leslie reminds us that that’s ok and we shouldn’t make it any harder for ourselves be pretending it’s easy. This book is real, and funny, and really funny.

This book will relate to a new mom SO MUCH

Being a mom who suffered tremendously from postpartum, this book has really put motherhood in perspective for me. My boyfriend and father of our child bought it for me while I was in a deep funk and it truly helped bring me back to reality. It made me feel like I wasn't alone and I am not the only person who sometimes struggles with feel like a bad parent. There are moments of laughter, moments of self reflection and moments where you feel this book is directed right at you. Highly recommend this book to any mother or mother to be.

Everyone lies.... except Leslie Bruce

I read this book last night and couldn’t put it down. Love it! Love how honest it was and how she went there (like Leslie always does! Check out her blog unpacified for even more truth bombs about motherhood.) Only wish I had it before my girls or during my 4th trimester. The biggest takeaway from the book is that you are not alone in ur day to day struggles and that there aren’t perfect moms, just perfectly cropped pictures. I felt like a superhero & a rockstar mom when I finished reading it because I’m a good enough mom just by being present with my girls. Can’t wait for more!

Every new mom needs a copy of this book

I wish I had this book when I was struggling (I mean really really struggling) with postpartum depression. Even if you’re just struggling with feeling like a bad mom, this book will let you know that you’re not alone with those feelings.

ALL MAMAS SHOULD READ THIS

Leslie knows how to make you feel like you have the world of moms behind you, even if you felt alone an hour ago. Momming is HARD and her book connected with me so hard that I flew through it. All of us feel the same way and it’s nice to hear when we all think our thoughts are the first ones while trying to deal with a baby. Give yourself a break, pour a fancy drink, and read her book. You’ll feel lifetimes better about your choices as a mother. She’s got some good tips too!

If you’re a momma you need to READ THIS BOOK!!

I’m a new mom and I have NEVER related to anyone or anything more than I have to Leslie & her brilliant view on her own experience as a mother. I have hysterically laughed and have felt lifted up from her positive reinforcement that i am doing my best, I am not perfect & the way I feel at times is normal! I have related so much to some of the hardships that she discusses on the journey from premotherhood-pregnancy-motherhood. I am so thankful I found this book. Leslie is a brilliant writer & great human being!

Must-read for career-driven new moms

I don’t think I could’ve survived my maternity leave without this book! Leslie’s stories and breakthroughs were so relatable helped me realize what I was going through was OK, and that there is light on the other side of the newborn phase. It also helped me see that I will be a good mom. We read all these books on pregnancy and preparing for baby, but nothing for preparing us for motherhood...until this book.

ALL Mamas must read!

This book is such a great reminder that we are not alone in our mama struggles! It's not this picture perfect "rainbows and butterflies" kind of journey...it's messy, it's tear-filled, and it's HARD! My only regret is I didn't have this book for when I was on maternity leave with my daughter (who is now 2)....I think I'll be a little more wise the 2nd time around with baby #2 (whenever that happens). THANK YOU LESLIE for writing what we ALL needed to hear! xo

Great gift idea

If you are like I was and drowning in the chaos of becoming a mom this book is for you. It is relatable and makes you feel as if you are normal during a very new time. I will buy for any new moms.

Funny, honest transition to motherhood story

The honest voice that Leslie Anne Bruce writes about motherhood with was just what I needed. She is funny, and open, and not afraid to share the struggle of the transition to motherhood. I needed someone to tell me it was normal for your marriage to struggle after baby, and normal to feel an identity battle, and normal to not love your postpartum body. I read this book more than a year after having my firstborn, and it helped give me the connection I was seeking as a first-time mom. This book is now on my must-gift list for new moms.

Pretty good book!

Began to read this book but I happened to get terrible news and couldn’t finish reading it. But I would recommend to anyone who is pregnant or already have children!

Tells it like it is!

This book. This is the raw, real truth for first-time moms when your ass gets thrown upside by the rollercoaster that comes with having a newborn. It’s refreshingly honest, and I wish I had read this before my first baby...I’m certain I wouldn’t have had nearly the anxiety and mom-guilt I was feeling had I known how normal it was. I applaud you, Leslie! Two of my good friends are having babies in the next few months, and both will be gifted this book.

Just. Buy. It. Thank. Me. Later.

Need a book that tells you all of the things? Grab this one. Easy read! I laughed until I cried and finally was able to feel like.... Well, a writer that ACTUALLY gets it. This is a book all about the sh*t they don't tell you in motherhood. Buy it, then share it with your mama friends. Every mom needs to read this!

DEAR MAMAS, READ THIS BOOK!

ATTN MAMAS: YOU NEED THIS BOOK IN YOUR LIFE! It is the perfect mix between absolute realness, humor & feel-good! There are so many truth bombs in this book and it’s so refreshing for Leslie to speak of the hard times and truths. So comforting and makes us mamas feel like we’re not alone! I feel like Leslie & I are BFF after reading this book!!! I will be gifting this book to friends/family members during their pregnancies!

Finally a book for us Moms, not a book about our kids!

I honestly can’t put into words what this book has done for my mental health as a mom! It is so honest, brought me to tears at times and made me belly laugh at times!! The way that she writes the chapters made me feel like she was my best friend, it made me feel like I knew her and she knew me. Such a relatable read for any mom out there. Highly recommend!!

The reassurance all mothers need! A must-read!!

Truly a must-have, must-read for new moms and even the seasoned moms! The struggle of being a mom is a real, raw, and often times a completely isolating journey. Leslie writes in such a way that you want to raise your hands up and scream "yaaaassssss she gets me!" every chapter of the book! I felt a sense of normalcy and reassurance (among all the spit up and blown out diapers) after reading her book that I wasn't epically crapping the bed as a new mom, which is just what I needed!!

Must read for first time moms!!!

As a new mom to a almost 7 week old baby, this book is just what I needed! I'm a first time mom and let me tell you, it's been a struggle. I've been so emotional and thought I was the only one feeling this way and going through though times. Leslie made me see that everything I'm feeling is completely normal and that I am indeed, a effing awesome mom! If you're a new mom like me, get this book right now! It'll give you the strenght you need to get through this phase.

Keep this book with you!

Couldn’t put it down. Leslie’s writing is brilliant. I wish I had a chance to hear these things when my kids were first born. She brings the reader immediate support. Really, we all need to keep a copy of this book close by, because you can open up to any page and relate, laugh out loud and feel like your best friend’s got you (and she’s smart, insightful, real and funnnnnnny). A must have book for anyone, but really - add this to your cart! You will be more than satisfied.

Great book great gift for new Moms

My daughter couldn't put this down (well she tried, but with a baby lol ) she really loved it. Made her feel like a good mom and lose the guilt!

Should be required reading for ALL new moms!!!

Should be required reading for ALL new moms!!! Seriously, I wish I had this book 3 years ago! Such great information, and freaking hilarious to read. Raw, true, and very encouraging!! Highly recommend!

This is the only mama book you need!

I wish I had this book the first time around during pregnancy/post-partum. I could relate to almost every single thing in this book. There were so many truths that nobody actually talks about and it’s comforting knowing I’m not alone in my motherhood journey. If I only had to have one mama book, this would be it! I will 100% be gifting this to all my pregnant friends and family.

Amazing Book!

This book is spot on! It made me laugh, tear up, and realize I’m not alone in this crazy world called motherhood! I can’t recommend this enough! Leslie Anne Bruce is an amazing writer and mother’s everywhere should take the time to enjoy this book! (Especially with a glass of wine!)

Honestly true to the core

Thanks for reminding me I’m not a terrible mom. Telling me that it’s ok to do me for a bit. That I’m appreciated and I’m not the only one who has gone crazy. Raw. Real. Relatable. New moms, read this book and know you’re not alone.

The perfect book for new moms to read

Reading this book has helped me SO much - the transition into becoming a mom was nothing like the picture I built up in my head and this book helped me understand why and helped me feel so much better about it. Her honesty is unbelievable and so appreciated. It is so well written and easy to relate to. A must read for any new mom out there struggling in ways they never anticipated before becoming a mom.

Amazing book

Great book, I laughed, cried a d felt less alone in their new journey of motherhood (even though my kids are 7 and 2 years old).

I felt so seen

I was told I may never be able to conceive but here I am with a toddler now. I read this book a few months after having my daughter. I figured since she was my little miracle and because I was older when I had her that I would be better prepared and more patient. Hahaha...I know, right? Motherhood is tough and Leslie reminds you that you are not alone in the struggle AND she does it with humor. Loved this book!

Literally Laughing Out Loud- I just peed =0

This is the real deal my friends. I want to get a stack of these bad boys to hand deliver to each and every gyno's office across the world. That would be the best $12 I could have spent on advice ANYWHERE! I am actually highlighting my favorite quotes...it's that good. Brutally honest, snarky, hilarious, vulnerable, and real AF...If only I had this book 4 years ago... Grab your wine and GO BUY IT NOW!!! XO

Refreshingly Honest Look at Motherhood

I just had my second baby, but I have really struggled with motherhood and losing myself in this new world since my first child was born a couple years ago. This book offers a refreshingly honest take on being a mama and showed me that I am not alone in how I felt and sometimes still feel. It’s hard being a mom and we all need a reminder sometimes of just how awesome we are.

I wish I could have bought this instead of “What To Expect When You’re Expecting”

Wow Wow Wow If you don’t buy this book you’re missing out! This should be of every baby shower gift list. Leslie says it like it is. For any mom who had no idea what advice to give other moms-to-be, Leslie has the answer! There’s just too much to say about this book so all I will say is...Buy it!!!

Honest encouragement for all mothers

Leslie writes like the bestfriend we all need as new mothers. This book is honest, kind and a kick in the butt we can all use to climb out of the mommy vortex and start living again. If you’re wondering why momming is harder for you than your own mother read this book. If you’re supporting someone who just became a mom read this book. And if you’re the husband to a new mom maybe buy her this book and take the baby for an hour so she can read it.

A must read for all expectant and new moms!

I am only a chapter in but already know what an impact this book will have. Bruce doesn't hold back - she says what we all are thinking but some of us are afraid to verbalize. It is a MUST read for all expectant and new moms. It breaks down the walls of isolation of new motherhood and accurately paints a picture of what those first days/weeks/months look like. With her unique, dry sense of humor and personal antidotes any new mom can relate. You will laugh out loud, you will cry & you will love it!

Get this book!

All moms need this book!! I wish I had it sooner but so glad I read it when I did. Whether you’re pregnant, a new mom, new-ish mom, or pro mom - it’s a must read. I feel so much better after reading this. Honest, real, and hilarious. Cheapest therapy ever!! Also, dads should read this too! (Really it’s the least they can do)

All moms need to read!

This book is so important for moms to read. It’s funny, informative, and full of truth! I just wish I had read it sooner. I would have felt better about my postpartum depression knowing other moms went through the same experience. I hope Leslie writes another book soon!

A must read for all mommas or women wanting to have kids!

LOVE THIS BOOK. It’s real, raw and relatable. Must read for any mom or soon to be mom!

Hilarious and reassuring

My neighbor recommended this and it was a refreshing perspective for two very tired, new parents.

Must have for all new moms!

This book has helped me to feel a little less alone, a little less crazy, a little less anxious, a little less guilty, and whole lot more “normal.” Whatever that is. Thank you so much! Gifting this to all new moms! Must must must have.

Must read for any new mom!

This book really hits on everything you feel post baby but no one talks about. I think every new mama needs to read this book! This book hits you with reality all while being witty and giving every new mama permission not to be perfect. I not only purchased this book for myself but instantly ordered another copy for a other new mama in my life. So thankful for this book!

10/10 Must Read!

10/10 must read for any new mom. I laughed. I cried. I related to the author chapter after chapter. Currently rereading because I benefited so much from her postpartum wisdom.

Love this book!

This book is amazing. I laughed, cried, laughed some more and finally felt like someone understood me and the early post partum days. Will buy for my friends who have babies.

Best mama book!!

I felt like Leslie was reading my mind and all my inner feelings when I read this book. It spoke to me so much as a mom of a 10 month old. I wish I had this to read during my first few weeks as a mom. I would have done some things differently given her advice. I highly recommend this book for mamas out there. I felt like Leslie was the mama friend I so desperately needed during my new journey as a mom.

Said what I was thinking, extremely validating!

Borrowed from a friend to read when I was newly postpartum, LOVED it so much!!! So, I bought one for my friend who is expecting and am buying another so I have my own copy to mark all up, highlight, etc. perfect gift for women at any stage of motherhood!!! Hoping for a follow up book!

the book you didn’t know you needed, but you do

Everyone (Mamas AND Papas) should read this book. It’s a deeply honest, laugh inducing, tear producing, soul baring, *sprinkled* with sarcasm and “huh, yup I felt that way/did that thing too” moments. An incredibly relatable and refreshing take on wtf becoming a mother ACTUALLY does to your mind, body and soul. Not for the faint of heart, because Leslie drops some serious truth bombs, but let’s be honest, you can handle it because becoming a Mama is the opposite of being faint of heart.

Hilarious and filled with first-time-mom truths

Leslie hilariously walks you through the transition from pre-mom life to post-mom life. Great gift for a mom-to-be or if you already have kids and just need a good laugh and someone to relate with! Loved it!!

Great book

Every new mom, not-so-new mom should read this. Helped me see things in a better perspective. Both touching, heart warming and real.

Amazing book!!

I loved everything about this book! I think that every mom or soon-to-be mom should read it over and over. As a new mom with a tough little one this book brought me so much more confidence. She says what I believe everything is thinking but doesn’t have the courage to say. Wonderful book. A must read if you ask me.

Good book

I am currently going through postpartum depression. Many things resonated with me plus I got a laugh or two out of it.

A Great Outlook on Motherhood

I am really enjoying this book so far. I have already recommended it to one of my close friends who is pregnant with her first. I really like how honest this book is, especially in the age of instagram moms. I wish I had read this book before giving birth to my first. Highly recommend!

A must read for all moms!!

Leslie is funny and so honest about motherhood, it’s a book you won’t want to put down. This is the perfect book to buy for all your mom friends and to take as a gift to the next baby shower you attend. Two thumbs up for this amazing writer and book. Can’t wait to see what Leslie comes up with next!!

Perfect mix of humor and knowledge

I loved this book! I bought one for myself shortly after my first baby was born. I found it funny, relatable and insightful. Because I enjoyed it so much I ended up purchasing two more copies for friends who were pregnant. It’s a fun gift to give especially with the humorous title!

The ONLY parenting book you need to read

This is THE parenting book that I recommend to my friends who either have kids or want to have kids. It is a giant truth bomb, with tons of humor sprinkled throughout. Leslie validates all the parenting feels and successes and failures. I’ve never related with a book more! YOU. MUST. READ. THIS.

Definitely Recommend

I bought this book after having my second baby, who is now eight months old. This is not just for new Moms. It made me laugh out loud and realize the struggles I had are not so uncommon. I loved it and will recommend it to my other Mom friends.

Get the REAL down low on Motherhood with this hilarious book!

Love this freaking awesome book! Leslie is SO REAL and truly makes you feel NOT ALONE. knowing that other moms and her have been through the same challenges and don’t always Loooooove motherhood validates my emotions so much. The book is HILARIOUS, well written and oh SO relevant. I highly recommend this book wherever you are in your motherhood journey!

You need this mama

Only on chapter 3 and this has me laughing and crying like a lunatic. She’s so relatable. I already want to share this with so many other mamas

Love this

This book is a must have if you are a mom or if you are gifting for a mom❤️

Just what I needed!

All new moms, expecting moms or women that want to be moms one day should read this book. It reminds you that you are not alone and that motherhood while hard is totally rewarding. So funny and true!

No IG filters here

Mom needs to hear those six words every day. In world full of filters, Leslie keeps it real. I have never cried and laughed so hard in just one chapter. If you feel alone in your journey of motherhood, this is your book. You will soon know that you, in fact are not alone.

A must read for ALL moms!

This. Book. Is. Awesome. I laughed. I cried. I laughed again. A must read for all moms! From the moment I opened it I felt like I could have written it myself. Finally something who “got” me.

It’s like the postpartum support you were never offered

Seriously made me feel so much better about the way i felt about becoming a mom. It’s hard enough as is, but then you look at Instagram and think everyone else is taking it so much easier! I think every mom (especially new mom) needs to read this.

Great for any mama navigating life post baby!

LOVED this book! It was like a breath of fresh air to read stories very relatable and realistic to what life is really like after kids. Leslie tells all and she tells it well. This book is a true gem!

Should be required reading for all mamas!

This book is SO important for mamas to read! I laughed and cried throughout the entire thing. It’s honest, funny, and most importantly let’s you know that you’re not alone at a time in your life that be pretty isolating. Buy this book, you won’t regret it!

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I’m going to buy this book for every first time mom I know. It was such a good read for me!

Mama MUST READ

If you’re a Mom there is no way you can’t relate to this book in some way! Indulge in a little self care and take some time to read this... right now : )

Highly recommend for mamas to be

Loved this book! Very helpful for new mamas in not feeling alone once baby comes. All the things people don’t really tell you about the transition into motherhood. 🙌🏻🙌🏻

MUST READ

THE best MOST validating book any new mom, not so new mom, or mom-to-be could possibly read. Thank you for finally giving all of us an honest depiction of the extreme highs and lows of motherhood, and making it clear that we’re not alone!

New Mama Must Have Read!

This book is a must have for new Mama’s! Leslie keeps is soooo real and makes us new moms realize we are perfectly fine NOT having it all figured out! Thank you Leslie for being my “Mama Guru” and my sanity when I am having a meltdown!!!!

100% yes. Get this book, gift this book!

100% yes. Get this! I found/read this later than I would have liked to, and since make it a must-gift to any new (and less new) mama friend going through it. It’s therapy in a book. THANK YOU LESLIE!!!!

EVERY MOM MUST READ

This book is AMAZING for any mom in any stage of motherhood!! She’s so raw and honest about what it’s like tackling this wonderful and messy transition to being a mom. And more importantly, she makes you feel like you’re not ALONE!

You Are A Great Mom

Leslie is FUNNY, honest, and a delightful sidekick on this parenting journey. She is rooting for you! Thank you Leslie for breathing some lightness into this very hard and very important work we do as mothers.

Must read for first time moms

Finally! A honest book about motherhood that will make any mom feel like she’s not alone. Highly recommend fir first time moms (like me) who need a laugh and a reminder that you’re doing a great job

How do you give more than 5 stars? Great book!

I’m not a mom - but needed this book to gift to all my mom friends & read myself bc Leslie is just plain funny af (not to mention smart and an amazing mom).

Real Life insight for ALL Moms

Genuinely, one of the best books I’ve ever read. It’s the real deal, and frankly doesn’t sugarcoat the beauties and uglies of being a mom, ESPECIALLY A FIRST TIME MOM. Thankful/Grateful for this insight.

Obsessed

I have never related to a book so much before, this book got me through 4 evenings of night time nursing sessions! Loved this book for shedding some light on the reality of struggles during the newborn phase and on!

A mama must read!

A must read for any mom out there! I related to every chapter and it helped to alleviate any mom guilt for not loving every second of parenting. Lots of truth and honesty in every page. Loved it!

The real “what to expect” with baby

This is an amazing book that keeps it real, no matter what, and is a fresh perspective on motherhood and all the struggles that come with it these days. Very relatable and funny!

Best mom book ever

I never read for pleasure. I finished this in less than two hours. I cried. I laughed. This is a must read for any mom, especially new moms and those with young children.

Perfect gift

It was a gift and the mom loved it! Recommend it

Every mom needs this book!

Leslie Bruce nails it. Reading this book is like having coffee...or wine...with your best mom friend. She keeps it real but hugs you through the hard truths. Buy this book for any mom or mom-to-be in your life!!

Great Read

As a mother of a new baby this book is a perfect read! I cried, laughed and said “this is so me” at least 300 times while reading it! Such a good read and recommended for any mom!

Order this book now!!

Best book about parenting/motherhood I have read!! Definitely sharing this with every expecting, new and seasoned mama I know. I laughed, cried and felt like someone understood exactly what I went through. This book touched my soul!

Amazing book about all the things a new mom goes through

This book spoke to me on so many levels. It’s an amazingly accurate portrayal of what a new mom goes through. I would recommend this to any new mom.

Best motherhood book I’ve read

Seriously the best book I have read about being a mother. Every. Mother. Needs. To. Read. This. Book. 10 out of 10 would recommend!!!

Read this book ASAP if you are a new mom!

It’s like she is in my brain. I laughed, I cried. I cried because I finally felt seen. This will be my gift to every new mom I know.

Love this book!!

This book is incredible! It gives such a raw and real insight into a new mother’s experience!

Buy it!!

It’s like Leslie got inside my head and wrote everything I was feeling down! Such an amazing and relatable book!

You will feel “seen”

LOVED this book! I felt seen for the the first time as a mother through Leslie Bruce’s witty and honest words about surviving motherhood.

Hilarious book!

LOVED THIS BOOK! Leslie has such a funny and refreshingly honest take on becoming a mom. This is a must read for all mamas!

Hey mama - You need this book!

This book is amazing. Finally a mom book that tells it like it is (not all perfect, magical moments) Leslie is hilarious and super real. While reading this book all I said was “omg I’m not alone”. Such a good read!!!

You won't be disappointed!

My future baby shower gift to all!!! This is perfect for all mommy's!

Perfect pick me

Get. This. Book. The perfect pick me up for moms!

Read this ASAP

Buy for all your mom friends!!

A must read for new moms

This book came recommended to me by two other new moms and I’m SO happy I made the time to read it. As a new mom to a 6-week old I feel like my world has been turned upside down. I feel like everyone only talks about how “magical” and “wonderful” pregnancy and motherhood are and never tell you about all the hard times you’ll go through. This book is spot on in its honestly and let’s you know that you’re not going crazy, admitting motherhood is hard doesn’t make you a bad mom and you’re not alone in your feelings. Such a good read and even made me laugh out loud. You won’t regret reading it even just for a mental break. Highly recommend.

You need this more than that dumb baby book

I got this as a Christmas gift and holy crap I wish I would have read this instead of all those stupid baby books that tell you “this is normal, except for when it isn’t but that’s common so don’t worry about it unless you should worry about it.” This gives you the for real for real about what really happens to new moms- in frank, excruciating details that I desperately wish I would have had the first four months of motherhood- maybe I would have had an easier time if I knew what was actually normal. Buy this for every baby shower, gift this for Mother’s Day, keep copies in your diaper bag to hand over to that sleep deprived momma in the diaper aisle at Target. And take Leslie’s lessons and be heckin kind to yourself, you just pushed a baby outta your hoohaa.

This is a MUST read for any NEW mom!!!!!!

This book was absolutely fantastic. I first listened to it in my car, while driving around (ironically to see new moms, because I am a NP/IBCLC and do postpartum home visits)... and it kept me wildly entertained, while also grounding me keeping things REAL. Every story she shares are incredibly relatable and almost a glimpse into my into my own life, as a mother of two small kids. Thank you for your raw honesty, and opening up important conversations that we need to be having now more than ever: the importance of asking for help, that we shouldn't be expected to do this alone, and that there are no magical, unicorn moms!!! We are all in this together, don't get caught up on the social media and thinking everyone else has it together. They don't, we are all the same. Thank you, thank you for this book!

Great for First time mamas

I follow Leslie on Instagram. I’ve always loved how she keeps it real when it comes to her kids. She started mentioning how she was in the process of writing a book for moms. I was excited and then became pregnant. I was counting down the days for it to come out. Lucky it was before I gave birth. This book is AMAZING for First time moms. It tells you all the stuff other people don’t and its funny. Leslie is an incredible story teller. After reading her book it made me feel like I wasn’t going crazy and Was able to validate everything I felt. I will be buying this for all my FTM friends. It’s a must read and I highly recommend, you won’t be disappointed! Can’t wait for her next book.

Spot on and real!

Leslie friggin crushed it with this book! I was able to take away at least one nugget of advice from each chapter - she covers everything. Leslie speaks about topics that most of us moms have probably thought at one point but for whatever reason, hold back from saying them out loud to friends, family, spouses, ourselves because of judgements of being loco. But the world of a new mom is kind of loco so her words empowered me to embrace this new normal, knowing that I’m not alone in my feelings. So funny, so thoughtful. I’d recommend this book to all of my seasoned mom-friends and new-mom friends. She’s got us all covered!

Must buy for new moms

Love this book! Every new mom or mom to be needs to read this book. It made me feel so much better about any hardships I had. I related to many of her situations/thoughts/feelings and ended up buying this for a friend too.

Stay close to the bathroom, Seasoned Mommas, Leslie's honesty is RAD!

Holy balls! This was a book I never knew I needed as a mom. I wish I had it for my first born but was still able to relate years after my 4th was born. I may not have lost my sanity had this book been gifted to me earlier in my motherhood journey. Do your expecting girlfriends, mom friends a favor and drop this off to them. Warn the season moms and make sure they have a bathroom handy. Loved this book!

The BEST post-partum, modern-day mom book

This book is so funny, so refreshing, and so honest. My husband bought it for me when I was having a hard time (physically and emotionally) after my C-Section and as a first-time mom. It's absolutely hilarious, and the author says things many of us are afraid to because we feel like we're supposed to "love every minute" of motherhood. It's okay to love your baby but struggle, too, and it's better for everyone involved to speak out and normalize these experiences instead of pretending everything is perfect. Great book for today's busy moms! Seriously a life saver.

Mommin’ ain’t easy

This book helped me navigate through the wild, crazy and daunting newborn phase combined with major postpartum anxiety. Moms, you. need. this. book. A huge thank you to Leslie for putting it all out there — the good, bad and ugly. Mommin’ ain’t easy, but it’s nice to know you aren’t alone in the process.

A MUST READ for Expectant Moms, New Moms and even Experienced Moms

This book was amazing and brilliant. It talks about the pre-baby checklist that should be and that pregnancy is more than just about growing a baby inside of you. It's a must-read for expectant moms, new moms and really, even experienced moms as it can help you understand and come to terms with feelings and experiences because it points out some real truths that aren't really talked about anywhere else.

My New Go-To Baby Shower Gift

You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom has succeeded where many motherhood books have failed: It sheds light on the doubts and the dirty hair and the internet searches for the cost of a boob job after having a baby. Think less, "Here are the essential vitamins your 2-month old needs," and more "I was teetering on the brink of insanity because I experienced sleep deprivation so severe it could’ve broken most hardened criminals." Providing raw, practical advice for new moms, You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom is a must read.

My sister said this author "spoke to her soul"

I bought this for my sister about a month after she had her first baby. She couldn't speak highly enough of it. Everything about it. She flagged many passages to read to me and to her husband. She was brought to tears by it numerous times (in a good way) because of how much she related to it and how much it has helped her with this new and amazing journey she is on. Definitely recommend!!

The most honest (and hilarious) book about motherhood!

This book spoke to my very soul. I felt like I could have written it myself, as many of her experiences as a mom were shared candidly and honestly. Motherhood is not easy or glamorous, and Leslie Anne Bruce’s book helps to dissect and shed light (and humor) on many aspects of motherhood that we don’t realize are a part of the gig. I highly recommend this book to new moms, soon-to-be-moms, or even seasoned mamas, such as myself.

Must Read for Moms

As a brand new mom, this book is a godsend. I read it while sitting beside my 2-week old, while breastfeeding and while wondering what the heck I did and when it gets easier. Leslie made me feel like I wasn’t alone and reminded me that millions of other women had the same feelings I am having. Reading this book felt like having a vent session with your girlfriends. I instantly felt better with every new chapter. This is the only “parenting” book I’ve read and I can’t recommend it enough!

I cannot put this book down!!!

This book is refreshingly real! I can’t put it down. With a toddler and another kiddo soon to make his debut, this book is an excellent reminder that self care is an extremely important piece of the postpartum equation. I also really appreciate her sense of humor. Happy reading!

The BEST book for new moms, hands down!!

This book was an absolute lifesaver for me after having my first baby. Every emotion, feeling and thought I experienced was perfectly captured in this book. Leslie Bruce speaks so honestly about postpartum: the good, the bad and the gross, and the struggles and pressures that moms these days face in our society. I have since purchased this book for every one of my friends who is expecting, and they can't get enough of her humor and honesty. It's a MUST read!!!!

Hysterical, honest post baby book perfect for every new mom!

Finally A funny, honest, entertaining and informative read about the transition into motherhood. I read this after my third and it reminded me that even after two babies the postpartum time is so sensitive and we must remember we as mothers are people too. I loved the personal anecdotes mixed with expert advice, observations on the way motherhood is changing due to our lives beforehand and of course the humour! Bravo! A must have gift for every baby shower.

Accurate, honest motherhood

This book has helped me feel better to know I'm not alone in the motherhood struggle. Especially since I've been dealing with Post-partum anxiety this with my second child and can be very hard on myself some days. This is the stuff no one tells you when you're pregnant. This is the stuff you actually need to know so you're more prepared for true motherhood and not the rainbows and sunshine unicorn magic everyone usually makes it seems like you're in for.

A must read mama book!

Absolutely love this book! It is so raw, real and completely relatable. I would highly recommend to every mom no matter what stage of motherhood they are in. The stories are so genuine and authentic, and at times can really remind you of your own thoughts and feelings at one point in time. Leslie provides humor and wit throughout which makes the book one you don’t want to put down. I felt truly empowered after reading!

This book is a must for any new momma!

The best book I have read in a long time! Leslie Anne Bruce makes you laugh, she makes you cry, but most of all she makes you feel not so alone. Her words are honest and she gets you without even knowing you! I’m in love with this book and will be giving it to all my mommy friends!! Future Mommys and Mommys with kids of any age, read this book and feel understood!! The mom guilt is real but we are in this together!!

Must read!✨

I wish I could have read this book while I was pregnant. My daughter is almost three years now and it was still such a great relief to know I wasn’t the only one who felt the way I did about that first year of motherhood. It is a must read! 💓💓💓

This was an amazing gift!

My little guy is 2.5 years old and my only regret is I wish I had read this book earlier!! I was totally unprepared for the emotional rollercoaster of becoming a mom. I had no idea what was coming for me! I thought all the items on my baby registry is what would prepare me for transitioning into motherhood, god was I wrong! This book is so raw and real, it’s a must for all moms!

WOW

RUN AND READ THIS BOOK. If you are a mom, pregnant, thinking about being a mom! This book hit me in all the right places. It’s like she knew just what I was going through in the exact moment I was going through it. This is a REAL motherhood book, it will resonate with you, and it will make you feel understood. I would read it 100 more times and I just may actually!

EXACTLY what I needed to hear!

I just finished this book, It was so amazing and it was EXACTLY what I needed to read/hear. I have an 11 week old and the book spoke to me on every level. It was so well-written and had the perfect amount of advice, humor, and overall was just what I needed. Thank you SO much-I have recommended it to every single one of my mom friends 👍🥰

You need to buy this book!

I have searched and searched for a parenting/motherhood book that I can actually relate to. And finally- there is one! Leslie writes with such an incredibly funny/real/honest/refreshing voice. I dog-eared so many pages thinking, "Yay I'm not the only one who felt this way!" Such a great gift for moms (and dads) everywhere.

All the things I’ve thought but never said out loud

This book is everything I’ve ever thought about motherhood, but never found the words to say out loud! Leslie nails the transition to motherhood that no one talks about in the most light and funny way possible. This is my go-to gift for new moms! Thank you thank you!

Do yourself a favor moms!!

Do yourself a favor moms. Get this book. Couldn’t put this book down. It was the therapy I never knew I needed. Hilarious, so relatable and made me want to go wake my kid up from her nap just to squeeze her and tell her how much I love her! Can’t say enough good things about it.

A must for every new or expecting mom

I read this book while wading through my first weeks of new motherhood. I was sobbing by page 3 because I felt so validated to have someone put to words all the amazing, terrible and messy things I was feeling. Highly recommend to any soon to be or new moms (or dads!).

I felt like I wasn’t alone anymore

Motherhood is a crash course for sure and this book makes you feel normal for how crazy you feel - I wish I read this book sooner! To know other moms feel like you do is priceless - I folded down pages so I can go back and re-read them, Leslie nailed it!

A must read for all mamas!!

This book is a must read for all mamas! As a mama of two, I wish that I had read this before having my first. Leslie opens up about the struggles and joys of becoming a mother, and is refreshingly honest about the identity shift women go through. I have never felt so understood! :) You will laugh, cry and laugh again. I highly recommend for all mamas!

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