You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom: So Embrace the Chaos, Get Over the Guilt, and Be True to You

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09 Sep
A much-needed voice of encouragement for every woman who had a baby and lost her mind

Sometimes, motherhood feels never-ending. A child is born, chaos ensues, and it seems like life will never return to normal.

In You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom, award-winning journalist and Instagram star Leslie Anne Bruce acknowledges that, yes, motherhood is a total mind f*ck-but then she offers the self-empowerment lessons new mothers need to get through the psychic upheaval and emerge stronger than ever. After childbirth, a woman's body, her relationships, and her very sense of self are tested like never before. Bruce encourages readers to look past the sugarcoated truisms about the miracles of child-rearing in order to embrace the real joys of motherhood, spit-up stains and all.

Loaded with unfettered support from a mom who has been through it all, You Are a F*cking Awesome Mom offers a lifeline of encouragement, inspiration, and community for the new mama who got a baby, lost her mind, and desperately wants to find herself again.

Reviews (166)

I laughed, I cried, I threw a shoe at my husband's head

I was going to write this review about how I wished this book had been written before my two munchkins (ages 5 and 1) were born. It's true that I would have been so much better equipped to manage the "crippling" loss of identity, the heartbreak of leaving my baby for the first time upon returning to work, and the all-encompassing nature of breastfeeding. However, after finishing the book, I will tell you that this book is for ALL MOMS! It doesn't matter if you're pregnant, in the 4th trimester, or well into the toddler years. This book will touch a nerve, make you laugh, make you cry, and have you cheering until the very last page. One of my very favorite take-aways is the reminder that I'm allowed to be my own woman AND a mom. Another of my favorite "ah-ha" moments is that you're allowed to have two conflicting feelings, and one does not beget the other. I'll be gifting this book to all of my amazing mom friends this holiday season!

Therapy for my former self-I wish this book had existed 10 years ago ♥️

After I gave birth to my son I legit called the hospital and begged them to re-admit me. Everything in my body felt wrong and yet I was supposed to take care of/nourish/keep alive another human in my condition? It seemed like everyone else was doing it with such ease so why was I drowning in it all? If only I had Leslie’s book back then to level with me and show me how normal these feelings were. I could have been less of a Stage 5 Clinger with the nurse hotline and I wouldn’t have felt so alone and overwhelmed those first few years. I’m SO grateful that “You’re a F* Awesome Mom” exists now, it’s like therapy for my former self. Planning on gifting it for soon-to-be mama friends as well as seasoned mamas. No matter what stage you are at, this book exposes motherhood as the great uniter and equalizer that it should always be and brings us together like old friends to reflect, laugh and remind each other that even on our worst days we are F* Awesome.

There’s a baby bible, but this is the mama bible. MUST HAVE

This book seriously helped me interpret everything I have been feeling and could not explain! It also helped me see that what I’m feeling is ok and that I’m not alone. Huge deal! You’ll laugh. You’ll cry. You’ll change because of this book. I was able to finally vocalize how I’m feeling with having a toddler and newborn and honestly believe if this book would’ve been written when my son was born. It literally would’ve saved me from the postpartum depression I dealt with. If you want a book that will talk about what everyone has been afraid to talk about (the not so fun parts that people are shamed for voicing) in a blunt and realistic fashion, this book is for you! Every mom should have this book. The what to expect books help you understand your baby, and this book helps you understand yourself. Just buy it!

A lot of honesty and permission for grace

This book has been so healing for me. I have three little boys who are 8, 4, and 18months. And with my first two I suffered some serious postpartum depression and with my third a fun new one I had never heard of : postpartum panic disorder. In this book, Leslie share some (very) personal stories alongside some serious facts about early motherhood that just aren’t shared with new mamas at all, if ever. She personalizes them. Makes them more then just data being tossed at you to chew on. Thanks to her willingness to share the hurts and heartbreaks and what felt like insanity of the first few months of her postpartum journey, and have been able to let go and forgive myself for many things I had held in to. Used to berate myself. To judge my own worthiness as a mother. This book is a new mama, and the experienced mamas, best friend for understanding those first exciting, terrifying, trying months of motherhood.

A MUST READ for new mamas!!

As a new mom, this book was everything I needed to hear!! The author did such an amazing job telling it like it is- no sugar coating- just real and raw thoughts and feelings. Reading this book made me realize that I'm not alone and this parenting thing is challenging for other people, too. As an OCD planner I read alllll the baby books while I was pregnant, but never did these books once address the transformation that YOU would be going through when you become a mother. Although I think this book applies to all walks of life- I think if you are like me- a 30 something who carefully planned out your life ( i.e. go to college, have a successful career, get married, travel the world, buy a house & then have a baby) you might find that adjusting to this new mama life will rock your world, too. As the author writes in the book (and it makes SO much sense!) you spent the last three decades figuring out who you are as a person and establishing yourself in the world. And then all of a sudden your world drastically changes within minutes and you soon realize you have to mourn that person you once were and try to figure out who this new person is. For me, this was difficult to verbalize and even understand how I felt, so reading this book truly helped me decipher my thoughts & feelings and be able to better deal with them and communicate them to my husband, family and friends. After I read it, I immediately gifted it to all of my new mama friends. Highly, highly recommend!!!!!

Favorite parenting book I’ve ever read

This book will now be my go-to baby shower gift for every new and seasoned Mom expecting. Leslie shares her experience and insight in the most relatable way. The book made me laugh out loud almost every chapter which I absolutely needed when dealing with the tunnel of life that is having a newborn. Her book release couldn’t have come at a better time. There are so many things to stress about as a mother, Leslie’s voice on it all is the perspective we all need.

Fun read, will definitely pass along to other mamas!

Fun read with honest opinions and personal stories that are relatable! The book can be redundant at times and some of the points, which I understand are personal and subjective, I disagreed with. For example, her opinions on supplementation and stating that the baby was “starving” in the second day of life, rather than cluster feeding, just because her milk hadn’t come in yet, which is normal. Overall, an entertaining read that makes new mamas realize they are not alone! Whatever the woman’s opinions, fears, and strengths this is an empowering book that makes one realize that no one is alone in this!

A funny, honest book about motherhood!

This book is AMAZING! There is nothing else like it on the market. This is a book for MOMS! Every mom and soon to be mom needs this book. You will not regret buying this book and making time to read it. I wish this book existed when I had my daughter 6 years ago. Leslie's book is refreshingly honest about the transition to motherhood. The author covers the transition to motherhood with true stories, raw emotion and humor. At the beginning of the book Leslie explains that we as moms cannot truly prepare a pregnant woman for the crazy transition they are about go through. Now we do not have to! Do yourself a favor and buy them this book. Her honesty about the challenges she faced as a new mom is so easy to relate to. As you read her book you feel more normal. I have been laughing out loud and even reading parts to my husband. I hope you enjoy it as much as did!

The lifeline every mom needs to have

Perfect baby shower gift for any mom! I'm so glad I had this book to read while I was pregnant with my first baby and now she's here I will go for round two. Not only is it honest and sometimes raw but hilarious and loving. Leslie doesnt hold anything back and talks to you like you hope your friends would. Honestly I wish some of my friends had told me what to really expect the way Leslie writes in this book. And most importantly knowing these things means you know YOU ARE NOT ALONE/INSANE/UNHEARD. For a new mom that is a lifejacket like no other in the sea of sleepless nights and neverending days of denied naps. If you are not a new mom...this book will still speak to you because you will always be a mom.

The most honestly accurate parenting book!

Calling any and all moms that are searching for a very honest and enjoyable parenting book. Look no further than this one. I am the proud mom Of a 3 year old and a 6 week preemie and I am Beyond thankful I saw Lauren Conrad’s post recommending this book. Leslie’s experience is sooo similar to mine with my first, and I still relate to it in the throes with my newborn. It helps to feel like you’re in it with someone and this book made me feel less alone, and helped me put into eloquent words what I am feeling. Buy it and read it and buy it for all your pregnant friends! I wish Leslie was in my mom tribe!

I laughed, I cried, I threw a shoe at my husband's head

I was going to write this review about how I wished this book had been written before my two munchkins (ages 5 and 1) were born. It's true that I would have been so much better equipped to manage the "crippling" loss of identity, the heartbreak of leaving my baby for the first time upon returning to work, and the all-encompassing nature of breastfeeding. However, after finishing the book, I will tell you that this book is for ALL MOMS! It doesn't matter if you're pregnant, in the 4th trimester, or well into the toddler years. This book will touch a nerve, make you laugh, make you cry, and have you cheering until the very last page. One of my very favorite take-aways is the reminder that I'm allowed to be my own woman AND a mom. Another of my favorite "ah-ha" moments is that you're allowed to have two conflicting feelings, and one does not beget the other. I'll be gifting this book to all of my amazing mom friends this holiday season!

Therapy for my former self-I wish this book had existed 10 years ago ♥️

After I gave birth to my son I legit called the hospital and begged them to re-admit me. Everything in my body felt wrong and yet I was supposed to take care of/nourish/keep alive another human in my condition? It seemed like everyone else was doing it with such ease so why was I drowning in it all? If only I had Leslie’s book back then to level with me and show me how normal these feelings were. I could have been less of a Stage 5 Clinger with the nurse hotline and I wouldn’t have felt so alone and overwhelmed those first few years. I’m SO grateful that “You’re a F* Awesome Mom” exists now, it’s like therapy for my former self. Planning on gifting it for soon-to-be mama friends as well as seasoned mamas. No matter what stage you are at, this book exposes motherhood as the great uniter and equalizer that it should always be and brings us together like old friends to reflect, laugh and remind each other that even on our worst days we are F* Awesome.

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