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A book for our cultural moment
The Deeply Formed Life is the first book by Pastor Rich Villodas, who is the senior pastor of New Life Fellowship Church in NYC. He’s an incredible preacher, leader, and influencer gifted with wisdom that is much needed in this cultural moment. Pastor Rich writes about five transformative values to root us in the way of Jesus (the subtitle of his book). But why is this needed? One response is that the normal Christian life is bombarded with shallow pursuits of fulfilling personal desires led by materialism and individualism. The pursuit of things which eventually deteriorate the deep, interior work God is pursuing in our lives. I want to live a life that pursues the same things as God. A deeply rooted life is marked by new rhythms, contemplative practices, and interior exercises that enable one to become aware of the gaps between who they are and what they do. Rich provides us with a guide to that inner world that few dare to enter for the sake of what might be unearthed. And it’s precisely the work of uncovering too often neglected habits if we want to see more transformation in our relationship with God and relationships with others. The five values of deep transformation are: Contemplative rhythms for an exhausted life. Racial reconciliation for a divided world. Interior examination for a world living on the surface. Sexual wholeness for a culture that splits bodies and souls. Missional presence for a distracted and disengaged people. In addition to establishing a theological foundation to inspire our Christian imagination, Rich also has corresponding practices to intentionally integrate these new rhythms into a daily discipline. “Practices are not just about what we do; they’re also a means of reframing how we think and see.” Think of spiritual practices as a way of moving from theory to application, not out of a sense of duty, but of reorienting our brain patterns to establish habits that automate our transformation. A word of caution to the person who is new to the language of spiritual practices or spiritual disciplines. You might find these sections on spiritual practices most challenging and quite difficult to apply. I don’t believe Rich intended to offer specifics on how to do to the spiritual practices, but rather suggestions on practices that connect with the theology of the value. Perhaps a more prescriptive offering on the spiritual practices will be in a later book? Nevertheless, the lack of instruction here may leave some readers frustrated. I recommend reading this book with a journal where you can take notes, write questions that emerge, and identify the questions that Rich asks that you would like spend more time in reflection. Overall…Pastor Rich Villodas has expanded our understanding and embrace of spiritual formation by including two subjects largely missing from this discourse: racial reconciliation and sexual wholeness. The church would be a much healthier body by giving attention and practices to shape its identity in Christ.
Definitely deep waters
I first heard from Pastor Rich on Twitter when other leaders shared his tweets. I was drawn to them since he spoke to the pain of the injustices we see. I've left the formal church after serving in one that left me scarred with hurt. When I saw this book on sale, I figured let me give it a try. I'm so happy I did. It's different in that he discusses topics in an open, honest and deep way. He asks us to reflect deeply on his points and all I can add is I felt encouraged and seen and I don't even know the man. I'll be reading it again slower, truly allowing myself to go through the points for myself but I'll also read it with friends to have a community experience and see how it'll speak to me then. Highly recommend this book for those in life wanting more than a shallow life in Christianity and want to truly follow Jesus in freedom. Also recommend this book for those like me who come from churches that disregarded justice and were made to feel deficient in wanting more from God.
Worthwhile book on spiritual growth in our cultural moment
This is a great book for anyone wondering how to live a faithful and fruitful Christian life in our current cultural climate. Using the metaphors of an iceberg and a redwood forest, Rich Villodas argues that believers need to take time away from the shallow, hectic activities of life to cultivate a deep, layered life of spiritual formation from which they can draw. In a culture that pressures us to be shallowly-formed, we need to be deeply rooted. From a life deeply anchored in prayer and in gospel truth, Christians can then reach out to engage the world in life-giving ways. It was refreshing to see a book about Christian discipleship from an evangelical perspective that actually includes chapters on pursuing racial justice and sexual wholeness under the umbrella of spiritual disciplines, and with appropriate nuance to boot. A rare thing in our day, as many resources either ignore these topics or take a very one-sided or agenda-driven approach. Pastor Villodas offers a wise and balanced perspective, and considering our cultural moment Christians cannot and should not shy away from discussing these subjects in the context of spiritual formation. Maybe I'm overly cynical, but as I was reading this book I feared that many of the people who most need to hear Villodas's advice are the kinds of people who would dismiss it as soon as they got to the chapter on race, thinking it sounded too "liberal" or too much like CRT or something (which it's not). But that means there is definitely an audience that needs this message. And the conclusions taught here are all orthodox -- which is the real reason why they're uncomfortable for some. I do wish Villodas had gone into more detail in offering practical action steps for each of the five "formative practices" offered. It certainly felt weighted more toward theory than application. Still, the theory taught here is great, and as far as discipleship books go, this one fills a much-needed slot in explaining how to marry contemplative spiritual practices with active/social practices to cultivate a "deeply formed life," so I'd say it's worth a read for anyone interested in Christian spiritual growth. Great for groups or classes, or just for personal enrichment.
Must Read
If you want real change look no further than this book.
A crucial word for our day
Many people are wondering how they are to follow Jesus in this increasingly complex world. Just how do we live out our faith in such a multifaceted, ever-changing culture? Rich Villodas, in "The Deeply Formed Life: Five Transformative Values to Root Us in the Way of Jesus," gives us some foundational principles that are equally valid in whatever time or context we face. Rich writes with the pen of a pastoral-theologian. He explores deep concepts about God (and ourselves) in language the non-scholar can understand. Yet, he also uses his skills as a practitioner to help us live out those deep truths. Rich transparently shares his own story trying to live for Jesus as the pastor of a large multiracial church in Queens. He freely communicates his own struggles and victories that help us apply these foundational truths to our own lives. You may not agree with all his conclusions, but this book will make you think deeply as you come to your own. In his introduction, Rich lists the foundational values for us: 1. Contemplative rhythms for an exhausted life. 2. Racial reconciliation for a divided world. 3. Interior examination for a world living on the surface. 4. Sexual wholeness for a culture that splits bodies from souls. 5. Missional presence for a distracted and disengaged people. Most books dealing with spiritual formation mention one or two of these values, but it is highly unusual to deal with all of these issues together. As we look at our current trials of COVID, racial division, economic upheaval, political unrest, forced isolation, and soul-crushing trauma, Rich could not have been more prophetic in dealing with exactly what we face right now. Rich often gives credit to his mentor, Pete Scazzero, author of "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality," among other books. Fans of Pete’s work on the subject of emotionally healthy discipleship will relate well to Rich’s approach. While some of the same topics are discussed, Rich builds upon Pete’s ideas in a very complementary way. In the afterword, Rich summarizes: "So to come full circle, when I speak of being deeply formed, I’m specifically referring to a way of being in the world that’s marked by new rhythms, contemplative presence, and interior awareness, which results in lives that work for reconciliation, justice, and peace while seeing the sacredness of all of life." Rich does a terrific job helping us focus on the “be” of who we are in Christ so that the “do” of how we serve Him flows out of that new Christ-centered identity. I cannot recommend a book more highly to those who want that type of relationship with Jesus Christ.
Almost a great read
The Deeply Formed Life by Rich Villodas has a lot of great insight and practical advice for those looking to develop a spiritually focused life. His emphasis on contemplation, sexual wholeness, interior examination and missional presence is much needed in a culture where such conversations are avoided or simply not known about or practiced. The value offered in his practical application is easy to understand and apply for anyone. I would highly recommend reading 80% of this book. Where he lost me is his focus on racial justice. As important as this topic is, Villodas tows the liberal line by touting a never ending racism without providing anything tangible to back up his accusations. Even his story about his wife leaving a new apartment with a mop and bucket speaks more to his racial assumptions about white people than proving racism. He turns a simple misunderstanding into a gotcha moment based on his assumptions of what he believed a white person was thinking and motivated by, something that only Jesus was able to do. He also uses the term "latinx" which has been widely rejected by the Latino community proving he simply follows the false race narrative. All in all Rich has a lot of insight to offer in the realm of spiritual formation but needs to reevaluate his own approach to racial reconciliation to adhere to a more biblical understanding of love keeping no record of wrongs and that in Christ there is no Jew nor Greek nor slave nor free instead of adhering to the divisive nature of the world's popular media and political narratives.
A deeply formed life is life lived the Jesus way.
Review of Deeply Formed I’ve been follow Rich on Twitter for several years, as he popped up in my feed through retweets of others I’d followed. He was always so articulate and smart and had so much wisdom that I knew I needed his voice on my feed. Cut to a few months ago when he announced he was releasing a book and wanted people to help launch the book. I jumped at the opportunity, got an advanced copy and got an early start reading transformative principles that many of us, especially Americans, need in these chaotic times. Rich does a great job speaking from his experience in living out the principles he lays out in this book. Whether it be actively keeping the Sabbath, an ancient practice that is full of wisdom and much needed in our on-the-go society. Or racial reconciliation as a necessary practice in the church, or even examining our interior lives to see where we can be healed through our communion with God or even counseling if necessary. While all of these are definitely important, what stuck out to me was his willingness to be open and honest about his life. It’s easy to sell a book with things everyone else should be doing. But these words come from his lived experience of the things he’s writing about. There’s sincerity and it pours from the pages. While he will admit that he is still learning these things, his invititation is to join him on the journey to be more deeply formed. I’d like to leave a short paragraph of his discussion around Sabbath. I felt this was huge for me and something I’m aware of but haven’t put in the effort. After reading his story and how he’s applied this to him and his family’s life, it’s inspired me to do the same for me and my family. “Sabbath is an invitation to a life that isn’t dominated and distorted by overwork. This feeling of domination and distortion is something we know all too well, and by “all,” I mean all of humanity. You could argue that the commandment most violated by everyone is the fourth. It’s also the commandment we often boast about breaking in our pride to express how tirelessly we work. Yet our lives are under the judgment of our own frenetic pace because we can’t stop.” Amen.
Challenges Jesus followers to move deeper in intentional living
Rich carefully outlines 5 areas of the Christian life where Jesus followers can make choices that intentionally move life from surface relationships to stronger bonds that are more trusting and more centered on reflecting Christ.
solid
This is a solid spiritual formation book for our time. Rich does a great job in using personal stories and examples.
Constant Formation
How and for what purpose our lives are being formed is what The Deeply Formed Life is focused on. As I read, I was struck by ways that my own life has not been formed in the ways that I would have hoped it has. How often are we formed by outside forces because we haven’t spent the time to be with and be formed by Christ? For the church this book offers a framework to address the most important issues of our time. This isn’t done by toeing a party line or by referring to a church tradition we must uphold, but rather all of it comes from Christ-centric and Kingdom mindset. My hope is that christian communities would be able to wrestle with these values presented in the book as well as the corresponding practices and rhythms, in order to truly identify if and how they are being formed by Christ. For our current time in history, and the political and racial climates we are living in, chapters three and four on Racial Reconciliation are an incredible guide. They have led me to slow processing and asking tough questions with others in order to grow. As a stereotypical white, american, follower of Jesus, I’ve longed for the right ways to address the current needs of our time. How can I look out and speak up for brothers and sisters of color, even when my own own community is not very diverse? Honestly, I’m just so excited for a way to join in and work for actual racial reconciliation and not using that word (reconciliation) as a shallow talking point. I highly recommend the Deeply Formed life for both personal reflection and for group study. These are important values to examine for today’s church.
A book for our cultural moment
The Deeply Formed Life is the first book by Pastor Rich Villodas, who is the senior pastor of New Life Fellowship Church in NYC. He’s an incredible preacher, leader, and influencer gifted with wisdom that is much needed in this cultural moment. Pastor Rich writes about five transformative values to root us in the way of Jesus (the subtitle of his book). But why is this needed? One response is that the normal Christian life is bombarded with shallow pursuits of fulfilling personal desires led by materialism and individualism. The pursuit of things which eventually deteriorate the deep, interior work God is pursuing in our lives. I want to live a life that pursues the same things as God. A deeply rooted life is marked by new rhythms, contemplative practices, and interior exercises that enable one to become aware of the gaps between who they are and what they do. Rich provides us with a guide to that inner world that few dare to enter for the sake of what might be unearthed. And it’s precisely the work of uncovering too often neglected habits if we want to see more transformation in our relationship with God and relationships with others. The five values of deep transformation are: Contemplative rhythms for an exhausted life. Racial reconciliation for a divided world. Interior examination for a world living on the surface. Sexual wholeness for a culture that splits bodies and souls. Missional presence for a distracted and disengaged people. In addition to establishing a theological foundation to inspire our Christian imagination, Rich also has corresponding practices to intentionally integrate these new rhythms into a daily discipline. “Practices are not just about what we do; they’re also a means of reframing how we think and see.” Think of spiritual practices as a way of moving from theory to application, not out of a sense of duty, but of reorienting our brain patterns to establish habits that automate our transformation. A word of caution to the person who is new to the language of spiritual practices or spiritual disciplines. You might find these sections on spiritual practices most challenging and quite difficult to apply. I don’t believe Rich intended to offer specifics on how to do to the spiritual practices, but rather suggestions on practices that connect with the theology of the value. Perhaps a more prescriptive offering on the spiritual practices will be in a later book? Nevertheless, the lack of instruction here may leave some readers frustrated. I recommend reading this book with a journal where you can take notes, write questions that emerge, and identify the questions that Rich asks that you would like spend more time in reflection. Overall…Pastor Rich Villodas has expanded our understanding and embrace of spiritual formation by including two subjects largely missing from this discourse: racial reconciliation and sexual wholeness. The church would be a much healthier body by giving attention and practices to shape its identity in Christ.
Definitely deep waters
I first heard from Pastor Rich on Twitter when other leaders shared his tweets. I was drawn to them since he spoke to the pain of the injustices we see. I've left the formal church after serving in one that left me scarred with hurt. When I saw this book on sale, I figured let me give it a try. I'm so happy I did. It's different in that he discusses topics in an open, honest and deep way. He asks us to reflect deeply on his points and all I can add is I felt encouraged and seen and I don't even know the man. I'll be reading it again slower, truly allowing myself to go through the points for myself but I'll also read it with friends to have a community experience and see how it'll speak to me then. Highly recommend this book for those in life wanting more than a shallow life in Christianity and want to truly follow Jesus in freedom. Also recommend this book for those like me who come from churches that disregarded justice and were made to feel deficient in wanting more from God.
Worthwhile book on spiritual growth in our cultural moment
This is a great book for anyone wondering how to live a faithful and fruitful Christian life in our current cultural climate. Using the metaphors of an iceberg and a redwood forest, Rich Villodas argues that believers need to take time away from the shallow, hectic activities of life to cultivate a deep, layered life of spiritual formation from which they can draw. In a culture that pressures us to be shallowly-formed, we need to be deeply rooted. From a life deeply anchored in prayer and in gospel truth, Christians can then reach out to engage the world in life-giving ways. It was refreshing to see a book about Christian discipleship from an evangelical perspective that actually includes chapters on pursuing racial justice and sexual wholeness under the umbrella of spiritual disciplines, and with appropriate nuance to boot. A rare thing in our day, as many resources either ignore these topics or take a very one-sided or agenda-driven approach. Pastor Villodas offers a wise and balanced perspective, and considering our cultural moment Christians cannot and should not shy away from discussing these subjects in the context of spiritual formation. Maybe I'm overly cynical, but as I was reading this book I feared that many of the people who most need to hear Villodas's advice are the kinds of people who would dismiss it as soon as they got to the chapter on race, thinking it sounded too "liberal" or too much like CRT or something (which it's not). But that means there is definitely an audience that needs this message. And the conclusions taught here are all orthodox -- which is the real reason why they're uncomfortable for some. I do wish Villodas had gone into more detail in offering practical action steps for each of the five "formative practices" offered. It certainly felt weighted more toward theory than application. Still, the theory taught here is great, and as far as discipleship books go, this one fills a much-needed slot in explaining how to marry contemplative spiritual practices with active/social practices to cultivate a "deeply formed life," so I'd say it's worth a read for anyone interested in Christian spiritual growth. Great for groups or classes, or just for personal enrichment.
Must Read
If you want real change look no further than this book.
A crucial word for our day
Many people are wondering how they are to follow Jesus in this increasingly complex world. Just how do we live out our faith in such a multifaceted, ever-changing culture? Rich Villodas, in "The Deeply Formed Life: Five Transformative Values to Root Us in the Way of Jesus," gives us some foundational principles that are equally valid in whatever time or context we face. Rich writes with the pen of a pastoral-theologian. He explores deep concepts about God (and ourselves) in language the non-scholar can understand. Yet, he also uses his skills as a practitioner to help us live out those deep truths. Rich transparently shares his own story trying to live for Jesus as the pastor of a large multiracial church in Queens. He freely communicates his own struggles and victories that help us apply these foundational truths to our own lives. You may not agree with all his conclusions, but this book will make you think deeply as you come to your own. In his introduction, Rich lists the foundational values for us: 1. Contemplative rhythms for an exhausted life. 2. Racial reconciliation for a divided world. 3. Interior examination for a world living on the surface. 4. Sexual wholeness for a culture that splits bodies from souls. 5. Missional presence for a distracted and disengaged people. Most books dealing with spiritual formation mention one or two of these values, but it is highly unusual to deal with all of these issues together. As we look at our current trials of COVID, racial division, economic upheaval, political unrest, forced isolation, and soul-crushing trauma, Rich could not have been more prophetic in dealing with exactly what we face right now. Rich often gives credit to his mentor, Pete Scazzero, author of "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality," among other books. Fans of Pete’s work on the subject of emotionally healthy discipleship will relate well to Rich’s approach. While some of the same topics are discussed, Rich builds upon Pete’s ideas in a very complementary way. In the afterword, Rich summarizes: "So to come full circle, when I speak of being deeply formed, I’m specifically referring to a way of being in the world that’s marked by new rhythms, contemplative presence, and interior awareness, which results in lives that work for reconciliation, justice, and peace while seeing the sacredness of all of life." Rich does a terrific job helping us focus on the “be” of who we are in Christ so that the “do” of how we serve Him flows out of that new Christ-centered identity. I cannot recommend a book more highly to those who want that type of relationship with Jesus Christ.
Almost a great read
The Deeply Formed Life by Rich Villodas has a lot of great insight and practical advice for those looking to develop a spiritually focused life. His emphasis on contemplation, sexual wholeness, interior examination and missional presence is much needed in a culture where such conversations are avoided or simply not known about or practiced. The value offered in his practical application is easy to understand and apply for anyone. I would highly recommend reading 80% of this book. Where he lost me is his focus on racial justice. As important as this topic is, Villodas tows the liberal line by touting a never ending racism without providing anything tangible to back up his accusations. Even his story about his wife leaving a new apartment with a mop and bucket speaks more to his racial assumptions about white people than proving racism. He turns a simple misunderstanding into a gotcha moment based on his assumptions of what he believed a white person was thinking and motivated by, something that only Jesus was able to do. He also uses the term "latinx" which has been widely rejected by the Latino community proving he simply follows the false race narrative. All in all Rich has a lot of insight to offer in the realm of spiritual formation but needs to reevaluate his own approach to racial reconciliation to adhere to a more biblical understanding of love keeping no record of wrongs and that in Christ there is no Jew nor Greek nor slave nor free instead of adhering to the divisive nature of the world's popular media and political narratives.
A deeply formed life is life lived the Jesus way.
Review of Deeply Formed I’ve been follow Rich on Twitter for several years, as he popped up in my feed through retweets of others I’d followed. He was always so articulate and smart and had so much wisdom that I knew I needed his voice on my feed. Cut to a few months ago when he announced he was releasing a book and wanted people to help launch the book. I jumped at the opportunity, got an advanced copy and got an early start reading transformative principles that many of us, especially Americans, need in these chaotic times. Rich does a great job speaking from his experience in living out the principles he lays out in this book. Whether it be actively keeping the Sabbath, an ancient practice that is full of wisdom and much needed in our on-the-go society. Or racial reconciliation as a necessary practice in the church, or even examining our interior lives to see where we can be healed through our communion with God or even counseling if necessary. While all of these are definitely important, what stuck out to me was his willingness to be open and honest about his life. It’s easy to sell a book with things everyone else should be doing. But these words come from his lived experience of the things he’s writing about. There’s sincerity and it pours from the pages. While he will admit that he is still learning these things, his invititation is to join him on the journey to be more deeply formed. I’d like to leave a short paragraph of his discussion around Sabbath. I felt this was huge for me and something I’m aware of but haven’t put in the effort. After reading his story and how he’s applied this to him and his family’s life, it’s inspired me to do the same for me and my family. “Sabbath is an invitation to a life that isn’t dominated and distorted by overwork. This feeling of domination and distortion is something we know all too well, and by “all,” I mean all of humanity. You could argue that the commandment most violated by everyone is the fourth. It’s also the commandment we often boast about breaking in our pride to express how tirelessly we work. Yet our lives are under the judgment of our own frenetic pace because we can’t stop.” Amen.
Challenges Jesus followers to move deeper in intentional living
Rich carefully outlines 5 areas of the Christian life where Jesus followers can make choices that intentionally move life from surface relationships to stronger bonds that are more trusting and more centered on reflecting Christ.
solid
This is a solid spiritual formation book for our time. Rich does a great job in using personal stories and examples.
Constant Formation
How and for what purpose our lives are being formed is what The Deeply Formed Life is focused on. As I read, I was struck by ways that my own life has not been formed in the ways that I would have hoped it has. How often are we formed by outside forces because we haven’t spent the time to be with and be formed by Christ? For the church this book offers a framework to address the most important issues of our time. This isn’t done by toeing a party line or by referring to a church tradition we must uphold, but rather all of it comes from Christ-centric and Kingdom mindset. My hope is that christian communities would be able to wrestle with these values presented in the book as well as the corresponding practices and rhythms, in order to truly identify if and how they are being formed by Christ. For our current time in history, and the political and racial climates we are living in, chapters three and four on Racial Reconciliation are an incredible guide. They have led me to slow processing and asking tough questions with others in order to grow. As a stereotypical white, american, follower of Jesus, I’ve longed for the right ways to address the current needs of our time. How can I look out and speak up for brothers and sisters of color, even when my own own community is not very diverse? Honestly, I’m just so excited for a way to join in and work for actual racial reconciliation and not using that word (reconciliation) as a shallow talking point. I highly recommend the Deeply Formed life for both personal reflection and for group study. These are important values to examine for today’s church.
A book for finding and creating life-giving rhythms
In the wake of the worldwide pandemic, we've been plunged into this new disorienting existence. So many of us have been scrambling for some kind of "normal" to ground us and get us through. At the same time, we've also been given the chance to sift through how we have been living for so long, figuring out what was working and what was not. In the midst of all of this, Rich Villodas' premier book The Deeply Formed Life was released. Reading the title alone reminds me of the verse from Psalm 1:4: "That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither— whatever they do prospers." And each chapter of the book guides the reader through "Five Transformative Values" that help one look at life underneath the surface, to see where things can be moved around, sorted through, and rooted into something bigger than ourselves. From Contemplative Rhythms in surprising settings, to Racial Reconciliation, to Sexual Wholeness, to being Missional, Villodas reminds us what it is to be human and how we lean into that, finding respite and guidance from our Creator and others who have been on this journey before us. The Deeply Formed Life is a refreshing book overall. Villodas is pastoral and understanding, not once did I feel "preached at" while reading. I felt encouraged, built up, and ready to incorporate the practices he wrote about into my life at a time when we all need firm ground under our feet. I'd definitely recommend this book to anyone who has been feeling the same need.
Not a Dry How To Book but an Invitation to an Adventure
In any good party you need a good DJ. Good music isn’t enough, you need someone to put the playlist together. You need a DJ who knows when to pause the music and give a good shoutout, hype up , encourage, the people. The DJ knows how to mix the songs into one another, knows when to transition to the next song or next genre. The DJ knows not to play Suavemente. Pastor Rich’s dad was a DJ. As the son of a good DJ, Rich blends his topics well, knows when to add his own experiences be it from his own spiritual journey, his marriage, his community (NYC, Queens, East New York, NLF). He know’s how to Remix a Good beat or ad lib from a prolific author like Henri Nouwen, NT Wright, or Parker Palmer. This is not a "10 Steps How To" structured book. It is an invitation to Spiritual Practices that root us in the beauty, joy, truth, presence of Jesus Christ. There is no perfect way of living these practices out. Instead it is like dancing. Rich gives us a few basic lessons on how to dance the "salsa" for example but it is up to us to give the salsa steps our particular rhythm and swing. As the Book store owner in the movie “Never Ending Story”, Pastor Rich has always “warned” people to enter New Life Fellowship at your own risk. A Deeply Formed Life will have it’s difficult work and it is not a “safe story” to walk into. I encourage you, yes you, to read this book. It is not a safe book, but you will experience adventures that Jesus Christ is inviting you into. A life of abundance John 10:10.
Excellent and Easy Read.
A book that connects biblical truth to everyday life. A book that encourages to go deeper in my relationship with God with the help of the holy spirit. A book that calls out racial prejudice. An author who is vulnerable enough to show how God can carry out his purposes in our lives, however impossible it looks.
The Best Book I've Read, 2nd to the Bible
Rich challenges readers to look at the fragmentation of Christianity that is largely divided by Evangelical Christianity (right belief), Progressive Christianity (right action), & Pentecostal Christianity (right experience) by integrating them together to form a deeper and more wholistic way of following Jesus. As someone who was raised in the African American Pentecostal Church, deeply influenced by the Missionary Baptist, African Methodist Episcopal, and Wesleyan Churches, and now pastoring a multiethnic multiclass church plant that is affiliated with the Evangelical Covenant Church, I deeply resonate with this. I have been deeply formed by such a wide understanding of Christian Tradition and see the ways that the Christian Church as a whole is missing out on the gifts that each tradition/denomination offers because of our reductionist understanding of the whole gospel. I recommend this resource to every Christian, (lay people & leader alike). He dives deeply into five values of Contemplative Rhythms, Racial Reconciliation, Interior Examination, Sexual Wholeness, & Missional Presence. Our fragmented and reductionist view of the gospel and salvation as being something merely spiritual and applied later in the after life needs to be transformed into a more wholistic understanding of God's Good News for all people (Jew/Gentile, Male/Female, Slave/Free) in all time (Before, Now, & Later), in all places (heaven & earth), and for all of creation (animals, birds, weather, air, etc). This resource helps us to understand and practice discipleship in a way that mends our fragmentation.
Fresh air in a stifling time
The Deeply Formed Life by Rich Villodas is a breath of fresh air. In a culture consumed with appearance and co-opting religious ideas, Rich brings us home to our genuine center that is both simple and deep. It is simple in that he reminds us that our core and central desire is to be formed into the image of Christ. Before we are anything else, we are Christ followers, not followers of a cultural stigma or a religious expression formed by the dictates of a broken society. As Rich says, we are formed by, “saying yes again and again to Christ’s self-giving, poured-out, redemptive love.” This book is also deep because it is not content with leaving any stone unturned. Though we are encouraged to embrace the spiritual practices as a means of formation, these alone are not sufficient. Our formation must be holistic, invading every aspect of who we are and how we relate to the outside world. The goal is not have the image of religious service or culturally mandated ideals, but to approach life and society in the spirit of Jesus. I personally love how Rich includes discussion on race relations and our formation. I’ve never seen this done on a discussion on spiritual formation before. It really drives home the fact that our Christian formation branches beyond ourselves and is reflected in how we relate to our neighbor. This portion alone is worth the purchase of this book. I can’t recommend this book enough!
A book needed in days like this.
When I think back on the books I've read about spiritual formation, I've certainly learned and benefitted greatly. And this may sound strange (and presumptuous), but many of them seem like they been written from a world that... I just don't live in. Which is what I love about this book the most: it speaks to real spiritual formation from a world that I feel like I inhabit - practices and wisdom for ordinary people that doesn't sacrifice depth. Like many I first encountered Rich on Twitter and have always been blessed and challenged by his words and perspectives as a pastor. And it's that experience as a pastor that makes a book like this so accessible. I benefited from each of the 5 values, but it was the section on racial reconciliation that was most beneficial to me. For the most part, the American Church has divorced our beliefs and practices around race from our spiritual lives, and we're now living with the fruit of this separation - both in our country and in our churches. The practices he offers are both rooted and practical - and I'll be using them in the days ahead. I'm grateful that Rich's wisdom has finally made it into a book like this - a book I anticipate being a continual resource for our church and discipleship practices. Highly recommend!
A Necessary Guidebook In A Time of Chaos
I wanted this book to be full of the kind of fire I see from Rich on social media. It is not. It’s a book about the foundation of where that fire comes from. I kept wanting the book to move more quickly and hit the issues of race in our church with more passion. Those feelings only revealed his point: to do the work of justice by way of the Gospel, we must move at a different pace than the chaos around us. This book is full of fire. I learned about the foundational elements and rhythms of following Jesus that I had never learned. In the same moment I would feel liberated, I would also feel deep sadness that I hadn’t been exposed to this earlier. I’ve literally spent my ENTIRE LIFE in the church and now realize I’ve been gaslit for a good majority of those years. This book was another stone in my healing process that is leading me closer to Jesus. If you’re a Christian and wondering how you can posture yourself to care about people like Jesus, this is for you. It’s a playbook for building a solid foundation to give power to your advocacy efforts. Mostly, it will form you into a being of great substance, not just cosmetic spirituality.
A book I will return to again and again.
The Deeply Formed Life by Rich Villodas is a breath of fresh air for those who have wrestled with what it means to be a Jesus follower in our current climate. Rich speaks truth that is direct and doesn’t cut corners, but is also full of hope, compassion, and vulnerability. He brings to light and encourages us to let go of the things we may not have even known were depleting and distracting us, at a time when we desperately need to find roots again in Christ—to slow down, and pay attention. He gives a refreshing and needed perspective on racial reconciliation that is rooted in Christ’s heart for justice. He talks about the things we don’t want to say, but are eating away at our very souls and bodies in our sexual brokenness, again pointing us to Jesus in those things. And he reminds us what our true mission and unique callings are, if we are truly following Jesus and not our politics, celebrities, comfort, etc. This is a book I can confidently say I will return to again and again. It has caused me to put practices into place that will stick for a long time, and has given me a clearer vision of my mission and calling when I felt myself becoming weary and scattered. Highly recommend!
Transformative doctrine and practices that work!
A vital book delivered to the Church at such a time as this... well-organized in an enjoyable, easy-to-follow style. Pastor Rich provides an important writ which takes the reader even deeper into the core values of this multiracial, missional faith community of New Life Fellowship. Teachings such as monastic rhythms, emotional health, and marriage to Christ - just to name several of the spiritual formation distinctives - so resonated with me as I slowly digested each chapter of The Deeply Formed Life. Two topics which I found especially enlightening were 1) racial reconciliation, and 2) sexual wholeness - particularly as a person of color who is unmarried. This is a well-researched book with references from a variety of academic fields such as theology, sociology, and psychology. Additionally, real-life examples and enlightening illustrations are found throughout, all presented in a warm, reassuring tone like that of a sage, counselor and friend. This book has been inspiring and life-changing for me personally, even after many years of following Christ, and currently in my mid-life. Rich's message is exciting and hopeful, and will be a source of Christian growth and influence in church ministry for years to come.
Hit and miss
The section on race was excellent. I have been oblivious to what others have had to endure. Other parts of the book fell flat for me, but might be helpful to you.
A Life-Giving Framework for Being Rooted & Formed in Christ
“Deeply formed mission is first about who we are becoming before what we are doing. Our most effective strategy in reaching a world for Christ is grounded in the kind of people we are being formed into. The quality of our presence is our mission.” This book is a powerful and practical resource. So many books on spiritual formation or Christian living read like manuals for DOING more, but I believe The Deeply Formed Life is far more about our BEING. The five transformative values presented in this book are not so much standards to achieve as much as a fresh vision for a more rich and robust way of life. I enjoyed Rich's storytelling and transparency throughout the book. His tone helps the book feel more like an invitation than instructions. The five values Rich outlines - contemplative rhythms, racial reconciliation, interior examination, sexual wholeness, and missional presence provide a rich, life-giving framework for being rooted and formed in Christ. I commend this book to anyone wanting to go further up and further into Christian spiritual formation that helps us be the faithful presence of Christ in our time.
Necessary Book for Discipleship
After juggling ministry with either school or work or both for the past 6-8 years I found myself reaching a state of constant burnout. I knew how to perform in Christ, but I was lacking knowledge on how to rest in Christ. Then this book! The most impactful chapter to me was the chapter on silence. We live in such a noisy, busy world and taking the time to pause, tune out, and focus once again on the Holy Spirit allowed me to ground myself again. Since reading this book I’ve chosen to move at a slower, more intentional pace with my walk. I don’t know how I found this book or this pastor on Instagram, but sometimes God just connects you with what you need when you need it.
Good book
Good book
Best book of my year
This book is deep and also practical. It has probing questions that caused me to stop and reflect. There are some counter cultural points that are valid. It inspired change in me. It gives hope tempered by realism. It is organized in several sections/themes with applications or practices. I’ve gifted the book to friends so that we could discuss the content. Highly recommend!
Compelling and practical - you don’t want to miss this book!
I’ve followed Rich on social media for several years and have heard him speak at various conferences. I appreciate his wisdom, prophetic witness and pastoral posture. I was thrilled when I learned that he was getting ready to release his first book! This book is a much needed reminder that we can take the time to be formed rather than be frustrated by impossible quick fixes. I enjoyed it so much I have already given a copy to my friends. Compelling and practical, this books holds great wisdom, relatable stories, humor and effective ways to being deeply formed by God. Here’s one of MANY of my favorite quotes from the book: “..the way of worldly power, values, and priorities can easily take precedence in our lives, with Christianity being either complicit in the perpetuation of the world system or irrelevant in the social landscape. We are called to have our lives shaped by a different kind of power, pace, and priorities, offered to us by God.”
Restorative Redemption
After fifteen years on the treadmill of corporate Christianity drinking deep from the well of measurable "wins", I found myself in the pews of New Life Fellowship - jobless, burnt out, and broken. Rich's preaching began a journey of healing and restoration, for which I am forever grateful. This is the book I wish I had when I began full time ministry. Now, three years into a new pastorate, it is the book that convicts me once again who I am and what I was made for. Pastors – no, CHRISTIANS! – we are meant for so much more than the treadmill of religious productivity. The Deeply Formed Life is not a book of platitudes, it’s a book of reformation. There is another way – the deeply formed way – that reminds us of our first love, His call to our hearts, and who He has created us to be. MUST READ!
Awesome book!
This book addresses the most important topics of our time: monastic life, unity, racial injustice, sexuality, and more. Pastor pulls it all together in the end to help people to be grounded in Christ for a deeply formed life. I loved this book!
Refreshing voice in holding these relevant values together!
I really love and value this book! I appreciate the framework given for each of the 5 values that has helped me personally re-frame certain aspects of my faith that needed it. Rich quotes and references authors from a broad range of backgrounds which enriches and affirms the book's content tremendously. I also love the dedication of a full chapter to each value given to accessible and practical applications (practices is what Rich calls them in the book) that really allows me to take what I'm reading and apply it to daily life. Perhaps what I love the most about the book is that it makes a daring and very necessary endeavor to hold and bring these 5 values together in one space. How refreshing to be able to embrace equally values of contemplative rhythms, deep below the surface interior examination, racial justice, sexual wholeness and missional presence while always staying Jesus and Scripture centered!
A Must Read!
This book made me realize that I’ve been surf boarding through life and I should have been scuba diving…going beneath the surface.
Spiritual transformation
Pastor Rich makes sense of how we can live spiritual transformed lives in the midst of the chaos of our world. As well as the necessity of Jesus being the center of everything we do in dealing with the injustice that we face.
Deeper Faith
A really good book that invites readers to consider a more contemplative faith that takes Jesus seriously in terms of actually becoming like him in our lives, which is something the world really needs right now.
Insightful read on Spiritual Formation
Christians on a journey to Christlikeness need to read Rich’s book. My wife, Nancy and I had the valued opportunity to review it before the release. The transparency of Rich’s continuing journey and his insights to what are key elements to a deeply formed life in Christ are indeed “rich”. Main elements of spiritual formation are dealt with but the areas of racial reconciliation, sexual wholeness and missional presence are dealt with in way’s we have not seen covered as insightfully in other books on spiritual formation. Rich, as the pastor of a multi-racial church that puts in to practice the challenges of living a deeply formed spiritual life, makes this a must read. The practices found in this book applied to your life will guide you on a journey to live out the unique life God has set for you as you become deeply formed in Him.
Timely, insightful and practical ways to enrich your walk with Christ!
This book is so important at this very moment in time! A book that has helped me again take a look at my own interior life, my relationships and justice for others that have few ears listening to their voice! The depth in with which Pastor Rich speaks, reaches the innermost parts of my soul! Pastor Rich’s ability to use his own life and life experiences makes it very easy for the reader to relate! There are moments in the book where his words bring to mind people from my own life who have touched my life as they have touched his! I highly recommend this book if you are looking for practical, timely and insightful ways to grow your walk with Christ! Thank you Pastor Rich for your time, effort, and diligence to bring this work to us!
Timely Read
So grateful for this book. It is timely, easy to read & practical - even while it delves into such multifaceted, complex issues including racial injustice, sexual wholeness & missional presence. It is a bold re-imagination helping today's Christian to consider the major areas that should frame life & discipleship. Even while it reads with a healthy sensibility to the complexities that our culture faces today, it's still very practical - with whole chapters written with practical next steps to explore. It explicitly expresses that it doesn't have 'all the answers,' but glad that it provides readers with tangible action items to consider. I've already read it once through with plenty of notes taken. Now, I'm excited to work through it again along with some other friends. Easily the most impactful book I've read in a while.
A NEEDED AND TIMELY STUDY
I am reading this for the second time and want to say this read has been such a blessing. The author, Rich, is both visionary and realistic in his approach to ministry. A much-needed study for this time in the US. Wish I could give ten stars!
A timely book for individuals and small groups
Richard Villodas writes pastorally about our longings, needs, and callings that will only be filled by deep inner transformation. Including plenty of stories and examples that keep things interesting, Villodas presents five values that form an interlocking “root system powerful enough to hold us together.” Each chapter on a value is followed by a chapter on “deeply formed practices” that make room for God to do his transforming work. I found myself inspired and challenged by the entire package as well as by specific aspects of each of the five values. It is just what we need in 2020 and beyond. I think the book will work very well in a small group setting where members can encourage one another and walk through these practices together.
What a blessing!
Pastor Rich Villoda’s book provided me with techniques to grow a deeper relationship with my Heavenly Father and to get me further in my own personal self healing. The Deeply Formed Life also helped put a biblical perspective to my career goals and desires of helping those from marginalized groups. I can’t wait to read it together with my church’s small group. Loved it and I’m so grateful for it!
great read
great read
A beautiful way
A deeply integrated vision and set of practices for life in Christ birthed in a multi-ethic, multicultural, and multi-generational context. I first ran across Pastor Rich's work while I was an associate pastor at an Evangelical church in the Midwest in 2016. I found myself increasingly uncomfortable with the shallowness that permeated much of our public witness as a local church. Following New Life Fellowship from afar was like a beautiful prequel to this work. The Deeply Formed life is like a well marinated steak in a microwave meal culture of spirituality. I believe there is a compelling way forward for the American Church if we will receive hard fought wisdom like what we find in this book.
So good.
“So to come full circle, when I speak of being deeply formed, I’m specifically referring to a way of being in the world that’s marked by new rhythms, contemplative presence, and interior awareness, which results in lives that work for reconciliation, justice, and peace while seeing the sacredness of all of life. It is this kind of life that God wants to form in us.”
Not what I hoped for…
I was really looking forward to this book. I had hoped for something rich and deep based on the reviews. It started off okay but nothing new under the sun. Then it turned into Rich’s personal story and opinions that are expressed through a place hurt and anger. Not quite what I was looking for.
Joy permeated formation
The Deeply Formed Life is a beautiful and timely book. I have found Rich Villodas’s voice to be an important voice for any committed disciple of Jesus, and his much anticipated voice did not disappoint. What I loved most about this book was the tone of joy. The life of deep formation is not meant to be a journey fueled by guilt and shame, but it is a deeply joyful walk of transformation and discipleship. It really is possible to live as Jesus lived and as he calls us to live, and this book is a beautiful guide for the values we must embody and for the ways to put them into practice. You will be blessed by this book.
For Those Seeking a Deeper Soul
In a world where life is faster and more distracted than ever before,The Deeply Formed Life is just what the doctor ordered. Rich lays out five values in which followers of Christ need to be deeply formed. He describes these values as practices that are meant to help us receive and express God’s love in deeply formed ways. It’s not as much about reordering your life as it is layering in the described disciplines to the rhythms of life. As you do expect them to complement and enliven your faith producing the deep kind of faith life that the hurt and broken of this world desperately long to see. Go get this book.
An Important Book for Our Time
Rich is the leader that this generation needs - concerned with formation, how the message of the gospel speaks about race and justice, as well as sexual wholeness - topics that have been the Achilles heel of the church in the past several decades and beyond. One of my favorite things about Rich’s writing is that he addresses these tense topics with a holistic framework and brings clarity to issues that too often go unspoken. In our current cultural moment, we are experiencing the consequences of Christian “nice” and the refusal to acknowledge our dark side. In “The Deeply Formed Life” Rich brings things too often kept in darkness to light.
Rich has done the difficult task of being prophetic, pastoral, and practical in this work.
Rich has done the difficult task of being prophetic, pastoral, and practical in this work. Leaving us a trail of breadcrumbs to follow Jesus on the exciting adventure of rooting our lives more deeply into Himself, this book has a life to itself. Avoiding the temptation of flattery or magical thinking, Rich uses personal narrative, his own depth of study, and his experience as a practitioner to provide a poignant challenge for our day in an inviting and winsome tone. I would encourage every follower of Jesus to read this book and do the slow work of examining our lives. In it you will find both timely words and timeless principles.
Timely + Timeless
Just about all the separate topics I was reading about this year was found in Rich's book. Grateful for his words of wisdom and the practical instruction as he shared the five transformative values to root us in the way of Jesus (Contemplative Rhythms, Racial Justice, Interior Examination, Sexual Wholeness, and Missional Presence). This book is right on time for the Church today and tomorrow. It not only highlights what we need to do to go deeper but how to do it (and how to be), and proves it to be possible in our busy and broken world. I highly recommend The Deeply Formed Life.
A Pentecostally Monastic Treasure
There is a light that has dimmed in our religious systems. It not the porch light or the security light, it’s the inside light. The light of self-examination. ‘The Deeply Formed Life’ is a book written to call us to turn on the light. If, as the scripture reminds us, today is the day of salvation, then Rich would remind us today is the day to flip the switch and be exposed to the light. Written through a multi-cultural perspective, racially informed lens, and pentecostally monastic tradition the ‘The Deeply Formed Life’ is our call to turn on our interior light and become transformed by Christ.
When you want to see real transformation this is your book
So many books offer quick fixes that adjust things on the surface while failing to address anything that lies beneath. In the Deeply Formed Life, Rich does a masterful job of giving real practices that address core issues in our souls. Furthermore, the book isn't just theory. Rich clearly speaks as a master practitioner of the things we writes about. This book is extremely timely for what we see happening in our world and yet will continue to endure long after the headlines have changed. I've already recommended it to several people. I know as a pastor, I'll be giving copies away for years to come.
Absolutely spiritual
This is the first book I can say that felt spiritual connected. I love this book very very very much.
Living authenticity and purposeful
The Deeply Formed Life. Shows who we really are, even the parts of us that we would prefer to ignore or deny, and cause us to open our hearts to be transformed by the love and power of Christ through surrender and spiritual practices. It forces us to acknowledge our fellow human beings as being made in God’s image and challenges us to take practical steps towards reconciliation, fulfilling the second commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves.
This is a book for our time.
This book has been released at such a perfect time, when we are living in a world of dichotomies and lacking an integrated walk with God. The five values that Rich discusses throughout this book are so needed to become more rooted in our faith and to grow in steadiness despite what the world around us is like. I could not recommend this book enough! It is very applicable and relatable. Rich shares his own journey with these values that help us to see it is just that, a journey, and one that each one of us are invited into.
Fresh voice for needed conversations
This is a book from an author I've wanted to hear from for awhile. As one who has followed the Scazzero's Emotionally Healthy Discipleship material for years, learning more about the next generation leader for this movement was encouraging and inspiring. Rich brings a fresh voice to some much needed conversations among contemporary followers of Jesus.
Life Changing
Reading, The Deeply Formed Life has made me pause and think about my life. This book is relatable and for this moment now! I love how Pastor Rich was vulnerable and gave insightful and practical applications that can be put into practice today! As I was reading this book I could relate to so many of his experiences but I could not articulate in words. This book is perfect for the individual that knows there is more and is willing to go deeper. This book is also perfect for a leadership team that can together go deeper!
Much needed book in this time of chaos
This is a much needed book in this time of chaos! Pastor Rich shares amazing experiences how of his five transformative values have changed his life and have let him in a discovery on what it means to have a deeply formed life!! Either you are being formed by Culture or by Christ! This book invites us to beat a illness called newyorkitis! Once you read about this you will laugh your butt off if you are a New Yorker In this book you will find keys to grow internally and be more like Christ everyday.
A book everyone should read!!
I really enjoy the way that Rich writes. I also thoroughly enjoy and appreciate that Rich is not just calling out these things within the church or society and culture just to name them, but that he also provides possible next steps to root us in the way of Jesus. I really believe everyone should read this book, and is also really helpful to read it with a group so as to even help each other.
Blending Formation and Mission
He does a great job of calling us to live a life that is deeply formed and rooted in our triune God. He not only calls us out of a superficial spirituality, but shows us the way humbly sharing his own struggles. I especially appreciated that it isn’t just about “me” and my life, but it is about our triune God. And, going deeper leads us to be on mission with God in the world as contemplative in actions.
A beautiful call to a powerfully re-centered and reformed Jesus life.
In the same trajectory of Pete Scazzero’s “Emotionally Healthy” materials, Rich Villodas lays out the fresh, but timeless call to live from a place in the spirit that cannot be resourced from the surface currents of what has become typical of modern culture. What he shares is part of the irrigation system for the next, and perhaps last, great awakening.
A Book For Our Times
I often read books about spiritual formation and although helpful, I end up thinking how do I apply this in my world? RIch's perspective of living in a diverse metropolitan area has illuminated the Jesus way for many of us who feel disconnected to monastic living. I found myself laughing, thinking, and repenting all in the same day's reading. This book will help you navigate a more integrated spirituality. Not detached from the temptations and the injustices of our day but living out whole and holy in Jesus' name.
A Life Formed by Christ
Many of us are disillusioned and exhausted as we find ourselves amid a raging pandemic, increasing racial unrest, and a bitter election. Where do we find hope and stability in all of this? Are we being formed by Christ or the latest news cycle? Rich provides a wholistic approach to spiritual formation with five values that challenge us to do the deep work necessary to be rooted in and transformed by Christ. I took my time reading and reflecting on the disciplines in this book, and it has been a balm for my weary soul.
Don’t miss out on this book!
Pastor Rich really creates something special here. Not only is the book applicable today, it will remain applicable in 10, 50, 100 years as it is rooted in biblical truths. This book has opened my eyes to the application of spiritual formation by breaking it down into 5 specific areas. The structure of the book makes it easy to read and comprehend. I know I will refer back to this book often as I continue my walk with the Lord. You really don’t want to miss out on this book.
For This Generation, For this time!
I can tell you that this is exactly what my generation needs to be reading. This book lays out what we need as a generation to draw closer to God, and to each other as a body of Christ. We have been so lost in the image of this world, we forgot we were made in the image of God and this book guides us back to that. I know I need to take my time while reading this... there are areas in my life that need change
I highly recommend this book
Five values we need to reflect on and put into practice in order to be deeply formed by Christ so that we can be a true reflection of him to the world. Loved this book!
Best foundation for a Jesus Follower.
I take copious notes as I listen to Rich’s sermons. But now I have Rich’s 5 foundational teachings in writing!!! I talk with friends to process his sermons. Now I can do a Book Club. And it’s the 1st time I’ve seen these life-altering 5 transformative practices put together. (1) Contemplative. (2) Racial Reconciliation. (3) Interior Examination. (4) Sexual Wholeness. (5) Missional Presence. Buy the book. Read it with friends. Arlene
What it really means to be a Christ-follower
This is the best Christian non-fiction book I have read in a very long time. It clearly delineates the difference between a shallow faith and a faith that touches every area of our being. Rich Villados leaves no significant topic untouched, which is exactly what Jesus does in us when we truly commit to following him. The Deeply Formed Life is a breath of fresh air in our troubled times.
A WORD for 2021!
The Deeply Formed Life is a word for our day. A WORD! In a place of hurry and distraction, Rich invites us to slow down and consider who we are becoming through our practice. He boldly addresses justice and broadens the American Christian understand of sexuality. It is compassionate and critical and it was just what I needed to kick off 2021.
Essential Reading for Every Leader; beneficial for all
I love this book. Rich builds off his own personal experiences and wit, pastoral insight and work, and biblical knowledge to help us know and be rooted in God's love. He builds on and surpasses other previous works on emotional intelligence (especially the concept of family-of-origin) by considering our racial awareness. This book is a tour de force that helps us consider our walk with God and a Christian's witness in the world.
Review formerly known as "Way better than the last masks I bought, comfy, support US manufacturers"
The first thing I noticed were the pages, they sure turn fast! The cover feels high quality, too. Love that artwork. A few dollars to support relatable and beautiful teaching feels good! Will be buying again if/when I run out. The only book I own both on audio and paper. Recommend following the author on IG :)
An opportunity to grow and develop the soul
After reading this book, it's hard to believe that this is Rich's first one. He writes with humor, sincerity, authenticity and more importantly, he draws people into self-examination of the soul. I hope that if you get a chance to read this book, you will find it helpful moving forward in your spiritual pilgrimage. I know I did!
Worth reading!!
Love this book. Definitely recommend this to anyone who truly wants to learn skills and dig deeper into living a transformed life. One of my favorite books. Rich has amazing way of connecting and bringing transparency. This is one of those books that I would be referring back to for many years.
Just in time
Something we seldom consider as Christians is spiritual formation. The first chapter was worth the purchase price. I loved this book so much, my emerging leaders are doing a study on the book. I am also leading a multi-denominational group of pastors in the county where I serve as pastor. Order. Take the time to read.
Bless my Soul
I can't wait to gift this book to someone! This book is a gift from above. Rich Villodas wrote each chapter with words of wisdom intertwined with personal stories. God revealed things to him that the world needs to hear. There is no coincidence that this book came out at this time. It will transform you if you let it into your soul.
Must Read in 2020
Rich does an amazing job using scripture along with his own spiritual formation to guide us into living a deeply spiritually formed life. In an age where Christians are surface level in their walk with Jesus, Rich does an excellent job calling us to slow down and do the hard work of heart work that recalibrates our lives.
Very well written book - Glad to actually know the author!
I have had the privilege to attend New Life Fellowship church and hear both Pastor Pete and Pastor Rich. Pastor Rich definitely brings his personality into the book and it is so refreshing to actually "hear" his words as I read them. Thank you Pastor Rich for this - definitely helpful during this time.
Powerful tools for any Christian to deepen their relationship with Christ
From the very beginning of The Deeply Formed Life, the challenge to dig deep in each of the five values is revolutionary. It is not a book of how-tos, but practical suggestions one can implement into their daily life to develop a fuller and richer relationship with Jesus Christ- the ultimate desire of every believer in Christ.
Deeply formed and Practically Communicated
The challenge of a deeply formed life is often the lie that we need to become nuns or monks to reach the “pinnacle”. This book counters that with everyday practices that allow us to become all God has called us to be at home and in our communities.
Amazing!
Amazing foundational truths to leading a loving, fruitful and rewarding Christian faith without the cycles of depletion that can easily beset us in this crazy, mixed up world. Read it cover to cover and savor every word.
Loved the practical applications!
Very encouraging book with many practical steps that we can take to live a life that’s more deeply formed. A great read!
Pulling all the fragmented pieces together I have been looking for
This is a remarkable and important book. In some sense, it integrates a ton of ideas into one place, and shows how they fit together to build something new and compelling. The call deep formation and discipleship through various traditions is rich and beautiful.
The Spiritual Formation Guide for 2020
This is a must-read book. Rich addresses the obstacles of Spiritual Formation that we are dealing with in 2020 and walks us through how to participate in God’s transforming work. Buy this book. Read it and then read it again.
A MUST READ!
There has never been a greater need for us to have a deep conversation about what is forming us. Pastor Rich brilliantly leads us to a life formed by Jesus, by scripture, and by helpful practices to put feet on our faith.
I will keep this book forever!
One of the best faith books I have ever read. This book is healing balm to a weary soul. A must have for every believer.
Incredible
This book will change your life. It is so deep and rich and full of incredible insights but more importantly it’s filled with God’s Presence permeating the pages.
Cliches, nothing real original except for author’s own stories
This is just another repeat of many spiritual “disciplines” of Western Christendom, built on a work-oriented approach to spirituality. Wish i can have my money back. The fatal flaw of the author is that he still sees a “deeply formed” life as a neat, everything in proper order kind of life. Of course, the author does allow failures, talks about transparency, sobriety, vulnerability, etc. But one can quickly discover his end goal of a so-called “deeply formed” life is still a life of puritanical perfection. Sad. His take on sexuality is a clue. How can one imagine to talk about the sexuality issue without touching on a deep-seated identity formation problem? His list of “practices”, unfortunately, i m afraid will lead back to a shallowly formed life, that so many people have tried and ended up with.
Excellent read
Great book about Spiritual Formation. I highly recommend this book to help with your personal spiritual growth and spiritual Formation.
AWESOME BOOK! HIGHLY RECOMMENDED
I learned a lot from this book. Thank you, I can't wait for your next book.
Read it!
It’s a quick read but it’s packed with really insightful encouragement and rebuke. Definitely recommend!
Helpful
It is extraordinarily good. Not that all the info is new, but it is intelligent, quite accessible, personal, and very practical for ordering your life. I heartily recommend it.
Format.
Good practices but could never figure out is theological position. Social gospel at the expense of orthodox Christianity. Think the gospel message should be the center of any Christian service.
A wonderful book for those seeking depth in their spiritual journey
There are parts to this book that will change my life forever. Total paradigm shifts. Lovely work!
Phenomenal book
Great book and great insight into the issues of racial reconciliation.
Its a good read
Its a good book.
Insightful read, opens your mind to another level
Captivating read, deep insight a must read
Straight up CRT (Critical Race Theory)
Very woke and unBiblical. Would give it 0 stars if I could. Countless examples of "white people are inherently racist and black people are inherently oppressed."
Book missing an entire chapter
A convicting book
This book reminds us that we are expected by God to be His representatives at all times. Being deeply formed means that we are to accept everyone we meet as a person created in the image of God and as a person whom He loves. We are to present the gospel by our lives not through some formulaic transactional methodology. And we are to "listen" to those we meet, rather than attacking them with our, so called "superior knowledge." This book convicts me of how lacking I, myself, am as a Christ follower.
Insightful, nuanced take on difficult topics
I love following Rich Villodas and am always struck by his ability to say so much in a few words. As a “contemplative activist wannabe” working on decolonizing my Christianity, I was excited to read this insightful book about contemplative living from Villodas’ perspective as a Black Latino pastor of a large multiethnic church in NYC. He discusses practices for contemplative rhythms, racial reconciliation, interior examination, sexual wholeness, and missional presence. Villodas tackles difficult topics but explains them clearly, providing examples with personal stories and ideas for practical application. He covers a lot of content that would be a great introduction to someone who is new to these ideas. The breadth of the book is likely to spur interest in exploring each topic in greater depth. He walks a line that does not bend too far either to the right or the left, which is refreshing but may be fruitfully frustrating for some, depending on how far to one side of the conservative/progressive continuum you lean. He draws from a deep well of knowledge and experience that is helpful for the nuanced conversations Christians need to have. This would be an excellent read for a book club!
Excellent read
There was so much good content in the book that I intentionally read it slowly and gave myself time and space to reflect on the values shared. I found myself in a great season of reading, contemplation, and prayer…. And once again experiencing the transformative love of God.
Excellent extension to traditional spiritual formation practices
I've been meaning to read this book for 18 months and on joining the Renovare Book Club, I seized the opportunity to dive deep. Oh, and how tremendous a book it is on many fronts. Villodas has sat under Pete Scazzero's ministry and teaching for many years which has clearly assisted him in deepening his love for the Lord. At the same time, he has seen firsthand how positioning oneself close to the Lord in a variety of different practices has enabled such depth to be achieved. This is no traditional spiritual formation book which emphasises a series of abstaining or engaging practices. Nor is there any mention of the Enneagram to understand which one's are best for which personality. Rather, Villodas focuses on what he calls "5 Transformative Values" reflected by Jesus that will help every person, regardless of personality type, to draw closer to Jesus and become more like Him. These 5 values are as follows: 1. Contemplative Rhythms 2. Racial Reconciliation 3. Interior Examination 4. Sexual Wholeness 5. Missional Presence Each "Value" comprises two chapters, the first being an explanation of it, and the second a series of practices to assist the reader in going deeper with it. I was thoroughly surprised how much I benefited and learnt from these 5 Values. I was particularly challenged on the Racial Reconciliation and Interior Examination ones and throughly appreciated the common sense application to both Sexual Wholeness and Missional Presence. Fortunately, there's a little study guide at the back of the book that Villodas encourages the reader to use to better acquaint ourselves with the various practices. He encourages us not to try to do all of it at once but to start slowly with say one practice from each Value and then keep coming back to the others. But most significantly, this book is full of Jesus and I believe will be a tremendous ongoing resource for readers to walk more like Jesus and in so doing drawing others to such a relationship.
A Must-Read for Modern Disciples
This book has its finger on the pulse of our culture. Villodas gives practical Biblical advice on how to live in this cultural moment in such a way that both is formative in our relationships with the Lord but grows a deep well of intimacy with the Lord to position us to love those around us well. This book is like sitting down for a series of discipleship meetings with someone who knows and loves Jesus, but also deeply cares for your own spiritual formation. The practices and the end of each movement of the book are worth their weight in gold and for a church culture that is devoid of liturgies gives a rhythm for how to engage with God in ways that train the natural bend of our souls to be back towards Jesus. I think that this book is a must-read in all seasons of life but especially for young adults entering the marketplace or ministry after graduation.
Highly Disappointing
I had high hopes for this book. I had high hopes that this could be the next great spiritual growth book. I was wrong. Rich spent a large chunk of time politicking about race and feminism. The first few chapters were excellent but the middle is not good. To put this in perspective, this is the first negative review for any book I have ever bought on Amazon.
Exceptional writing
I found the book to be written well and very applicable.I would say that the practices listed can be implemented over time depending on the season that you are in. I would highly recommend reading this book and referring to it in the future. Great read Pastor Rich!
Read this Book, but, Take your Time. It's worth it!
Let me begin with stating, @ 68 years old, I'm considered a Baby Boomer and for the most part my generation prefers, a papyrus based book over an E-reading from a computer/phone or a pad. If there any others who like the feel of a real book- just say 'Amen.' With that behind me- let me state- with receiving an advanced copy of ' THE DEEPLY FORMED LIFE:FIVE TRANSFORMATIVE VALUES TO ROOT US IN THE WAY OF JESUS ' by Rich Villodas - in E-Book form -it was a great introduction to a new way of reading and more importantly, a new approach to addressing the quality of my Christian life. For the overriding question throughout the book, quoting from the 'Afterword: The Deeply Formed Way Forward ', "Who are we, really, for Christ today? " Are we ' Shallow ' in the craziness of life with little time for God , bear deep animosity for others due to race, class, rooted in the world's standards of success, as opposed to service and sacrificial love as given to us by Christ and , now , required for us to do the same to those made in God's image. With these questions and others,throughout his writings, Pastor Rich Villodas, presents a pathway, that are challenging yes, impossible to achieve no. And since the questions, for self-examination come up late in the book, after a fulfilling 10 chapters, we ( I ) need to deeply reflect on our answers and a willingness to follow through. As Pastor Rich states, " The best witness we have is our transformed lives." I truly recommend this book, and with pen and notebook in hand, enjoy, be moved, and watch your life change, those you know change and to some degree, a world of hate, greed, self-importance change so " on earth as it is heaven" becomes a reality. God Bless Pastor Rich for giving us a path from the shallow to having A Deeply Formed Life to be used by God.
Loved this whole book.
Great book to learn from! Has a lot of knowledge for us about how we should be and act as Christians in a world full of sin and upheaval!
A holistic perspective on going deeper in the Christina faith...
Full Disclosure: I’m on staff where Rich is lead pastor. Fuller Disclosure: I get to see close up how we live these values out in our community. So it was very interesting for me to read this book to see how Rich distills some of the values we’ve held as a church for almost 30 years now. While this book was written out of the life of our church, it was very much written FOR our church as well. As much as we try to live these out, there is so much more we can learn and practice. And that is the beauty of this book. There is a depth in this book that goes beyond its pages and urges the reader to go deeper, individually and in community. It’s a life-long endeavor and I love that… we never quite arrive (so this is in no way a so-called “self-help” book) and yet, we are led through steps to take on the journey. I found myself reading the book quickly - Rich does a wonderful job of drawing from his own life and telling anecdotes to illustrates his points - but at certain points, I certainly had to pause and ponder. The book is so readable and yet so profound. I can see our church (and many churches) using this book as a core discipleship book for years to come. So I’m grateful to be a recipient of this gift. I highly recommend this to those of you who are looking to go deeper in faith individually and corporately.
A MUST READ!
Enjoyed every page. Here are a couple of my favorite quotes from the book: "What I’ve learned has reinforced the truth that unless we live with an intentional commitment to slow down, we have no hope for a quality of life that allows Jesus to form us into his image." p.9 "The story of Scripture is not really about human performance so much as it is about how God has performed over and over for his people. This is good news for all of us. God’s care and love for you is not based on how well you perform and live." "In the practice of Sabbath keeping, we live out the truth that one day we will leave all things unfinished as we rest in the arms of Jesus."
The most impactful book I’ve read this year besides the Bible
I know the internet is rampant with hyperbole and exaggeration, so let me be clear: I’m entirely serious about that headline. This book is pure soul food. Villodas brings together everything I’ve been struggling with in my journey toward Christian faith and addresses in in a way that both validates my frustrations and challenges me to think beyond them. Even when I think I disagree with his specific conclusions, I feel like I could have a conversation with him about why I see things differently, and whether or not we ever agreed we could still both walk away from the conversation feeling seen and connected instead of combative. That is one heck of a gift and we ALL need more of it right now. There were tears, there were laughs, there were MANY amens. The wisdom in this book is obviously hard-won. Every Christian I know is getting a copy of this for Christmas. Thank you for blessing our fractured world with the gift of this work.
Both encouraging and personally challenging
This book is definitely going in my short pile of favorites to reread multiple times when I need encouragement and challenge in my faith! Pastor Rich Villodas encourages us to think more deeply and broadly about so much of Christian living. I have been a Christian and a church-goer for almost my whole life, but I’ve been frustrated with the lack of conversation about how we should work as the Church for change in our communities. As he puts it, “The primary fruit of the gospel is not going to heaven when you die, but rather the miraculous new family that is created out of the death and resurrection of Jesus.” Villodas connects the gospel to issues of justice and racial reconciliation, and also centers these issues in our own interior examination and rootedness in Jesus Christ. He admits the tension between spiritual contemplation and activism and offers scriptural advice for how to engage with the world. This book left me feeling that I am not alone in my struggles, and gave me practical advice to grow in my own spiritual formation.
Worth It Just for the 2 Chapters on Racial Reconciliation
Pastor Rich leads a racially and ethnically diverse congregation in Brooklyn and draws on his real-life experience in the ministry of reconciliation - both the ups and the downs - to provide us with the kind of pastoral wisdom and practical insight we desperately need right now. His vision of the new, reconciled family of God based on Ephesians 2 is compelling and hopeful. His list of four things racial reconciliation is *not* are so helpful for avoiding the mistakes of past movements for racial reconciliation. The seven deeply formed practices for racial reconciliation he invites us to consider are comprehensive & holistic, personal & communal. These 2 chapters alone made my purchase of the The Deeply Formed Life more than worth it! I am so thankful for how Pastor Rich combines theology and practice throughout the book and writes in such an accessible way to a broad audience. Wonderful resource for church leaders and all followers of Jesus!
A clear-eyed challenge to life abundant.
This is a book I will certainly read again. Rich Villodas has presented us with quite a treat: the opportunity to see what it might be like to turn an average life into one that makes a habit of putting oneself in the hands of God. With honest and personal stories of his own failures, Villodas allows us to be part of his own transformation and get a glimpse of what our own might resemble. He introduces some critical topics -- sexual wholeness being one of the primary examples -- that are enfolded into the bigger picture of communion with God and the fulfillment of deep longing. Both an easy read and potentially life-changing challenge, this is a paperbound opportunity for personal revelation.
A Book the World Needs Now
This book messed me up good. One line that haunts me and that is printed as a poster in my office is "we are always being shallowly formed" to remind me to do the work both inside and outside of myself. This book is the best book I have read on spiritual formation ever. It is holistic and I believe it will be a classic that many of us will turn to consistently for our own well-being and spirituality and for those we serve and lead. As Christian leaders we all should be deeply formed but the hard truth is that it hasn't and isn't a strong priority in most churches or individuals lives. This is a book that will make you stop and reflect. It will also convict and challenge. But it will change you if you let it and incorporate what you learn into your everyday praxis. Order it now and dig in so you can be rooted in healthy ground.
The book we all need right now
Though Rich has been working on this book for awhile, he could've never predicted just how necessary it would be in the hands of Christians and leaders in the middle of 2020. With a global pandemic and continued racial division facing our country and churches, Rich has crafted an incredibly intentional, thoughtful, personal, and Biblical view of what it means to be formed in the likeness of Jesus Christ. My eyes have been opened to new traditions, like pursuing contemplative rhythms in my own life, but most significantly to me right now is the work that Rich shares around racial reconciliation. Though the entire book is worth the read, Chapters 3 and 4 should be shouted from the rooftop of every church across this country. This is a book I will be returning to often, and one that I look forward to diving back into with others in community.
Rich has offered us all a deep gift
Rich Villodas has integrated practices into his own life in a humble and nuanced way. Deeply Formed Life is his work on helping us tap into spiritual transformation in practical, accessible, but also deeply challenging ways. I SO appreciate that Rich took us into fresh areas of sexuality and racial inequality as we consider our own transformation journey. This book is Gospel drenched. I rarely suggest a book is a must read, there are so many great authors and thinkers helping us today. But Rich has offered us a gift of true broad, nuanced, wholistic thinking and practices for spiritual formation.
If you're ready to go deep.....
Rich Villodas challenges us to look at what is going on inside, so we may be able to live better on the outside. It's all about depth and understanding that who we are as followers of Christ is far more impacted by the state of our inner life than what we portray on the outside. Our lives will only be truly authentic when we create synergy between the two, and this book seeks to help you do just that. This is no magic formula or step program. It's just an honest way of allowing Christ to be more fully formed within that Rich has found through both education and practice. I highly recommend you read this work!
Just What We All Need
I love a book that has helpful, practical wisdom and this book is just that. It has the perfect punch to the gut. One that calmly reminds you of the practices that make you more whole without being so overwhelming that I crawl into a hole of shame. I appreciate Rich's approach to his practices and values. Similar books tend to have a self-righteous approach whereas reading The Deeply Formed Life feels much more vulnerable and real. I highlighted and underlined so much and have already recommended the book to several friends and family.
A much needed book that will move you towards God!
This book is beautifully written, and it provides many practical ways of growing closer to God in all areas of our lives. It challenges us to see ourselves in a deeper way and leads us to follow Christ. Whether you are a Christian or not this book focuses on our personal, spiritual, racial, relational, sexual, and missional growth. As a spiritual director, I recommend this book to be a source to guide you on your journey. You’ll be surprised by the gems you will take with you.
Hope for the Christian Feeling Torn Asunder by the Present Moment
Every book meets us in a particular moment. In a frantic culture—one unceasingly tormented by caustic remarks in forms of media unimaginable to saints of yesteryear—Villodas’ call to sabbath rest is bold, refreshing, and life giving. In a season marked by racial strife his chapters on racial justice speak truth to the church, and especially white Christians, in a way that doesn’t privilege feelings over facts or reconciliation without repair, but also doesn’t leave you in a guilty limbo. Instead, he shows the way forward with a humility and hope that actually helps. The whole book is helpful; the sections on sabbath and racial justice alone would have been worth the purchase.
Very important book for this moment.
Hands down this is one of the books that is critical for this moment that we are living in but will be needed beyond this moment as well. Pastor Rich has been a consistent voice on cultivating a spiritual life that is both meaningful and integrated, healthy and whole, honest and vulnerable, concerned about itself as well as concerned about the world. If you are looking for a book to read devotionally to help you through or you're looking for a book that will help you become a better Christian in our world, this is the book to get. Buy it. Then buy it for another. It's worth that and more.
Relevant practical wisdom that every faith leader should consider.
I currently have the kindle version since I live outside the US. I love the readable, practical, profound content. The author writes with clarity and vulnerability from personal experience. He shares relevant anecdotes that connect and illustrate well. He is a busy person in a noisy city sharing the importance of developing skills for silent reflection, listening well, and interacting with others concerning race relations, social justice, sexuality, and faith. I like the conversational approach. Readable, doable and enjoyable!
This book will really get you to slow down
I love how this book makes the practice of Emotionally Healthy Spirituality so real, so accessible! I love listening to Rich each week at church, and this book is such a wonderful and easy to follow explanation of how to live fully in Christ. If reading this book doesn’t convince you to slow down and be more intentional, silent, and thoughtful, I wonder if you really read it.
This is a book for now!
This book is changing the ways I think about spiritual formation and spiritual practices. Rich is connecting the ideas of rooted living through contemplative practices and emotional health with racial reconciliation, sexual wholeness, and missional presence in such a balanced, helpful way. This is a book for now!
Integrated life!
The aspects that Rich covers and the way in which he names the realities are both challenging a refreshing. This is a book that is especially needed for the realities we are living today.
Boring and Over Thinking
Probably just not my style or genre of book in general. Our church leadership wanted us to read it as part of a group study. Lots of overthinking, explaining, and analyzing of what is really pretty basic. Good for those who want to spend hours of their life analyzing the way they live out their faith and whether its "good enough." Frankly, I just don't think it's meant to be that serious. Overkill of several, relevant topics. It's like they needed to hit a page count minimum.
Culturally driven Christianity
There are multiple parts of this book that drives pragmatic Christianity through the lens of cultural trends. Too much content is derived from worldly ideology and not Biblical.
A Deeply Formed Life - A Book of Pure Substance
I have been following Pastor Rich’s ministry for a number of years and have been drawn to the way of contemplative spirituality as a result of listening to his teaching and preaching. I was excited to hear that he would be releasing a book that would codify much of his core teachings. This book does not disappoint. In my estimation, this book is a must read (and re-read) for Christian’s in every phase of their journey. Whether sitting with young believers who are at the genesis of their life with God or speaking with seasoned believers, this book has, in a short time, become an indispensable resource in pointing many to the way of Jesus! The message found in this text will have an impact on your personal and intimate walk with God but will also challenge and impact the outworking of your faith in the areas of rest, sexual wholeness, as well as racial reconciliation/social justice. Without any reservation whatsoever, I give this book my whole-hearted recommendation.
A book for Christians who want to grow deeply
Rich Villodas is a pastor for our age and this book is a tool that will help every kind of Christian push roots deep into the soil of the Christian faith. Rich offers five values that he has lived out in his family and church. I appreciate that Rich weaves in his own story and offers practices that go along with the values. Highly recommended!
A deeply thought out book
This book has an important message that is so needed right now. Living a deeply formed life--a life like Jesus modeled--is how we live out our life of faith. I love how the advice in this book made me think deeply about the rhythms of my own life and what I can do to better align what I do with my values. I highly recommend this book.
Love this book
My pastor highly recommended this book. A group of friends and I are reading it together and having some great discussions. Very biblically based and well written.
Needed Perspective for Christians In This Age
I have read many books on the disciplines of the Christian life but never one like this. This book has a great mix of the theoretical and the practical. I think Pastor Villodas does a great job of painting a picture of why each of the five values he covers is needed in our lives as well as provides the helpful tools and practices to pursue them. However, I don't believe he neglects the disciplines that are typically covered in a book like this (i.e. prayer, reading the Bible, participating in Christian community and evangelism). In my work in ministry, these are the four topics we always cover with a new Christian, but the content in this book covers not only the 'how' of these practices but provides a deeper, more beautiful picture of the 'why'- to know Jesus deeply in every area of our lives and impact our world as ones who have been deeply formed by Christ. The aspect that was most needed and refreshing for me was the topic of Sexual Wholeness. Growing up in religious circles the messages about sex are usually 'don't do it until you're married' and 'now that you're married do it a lot'. I think these are both biblical messages but definitely not enough for people truly trying to honor God with their sexuality. The teaching he gave on the connection between sexuality and spirituality is something I have known was important but couldn't find adequate teaching on why that's true. This is a book I have already recommended to friends and would recommend to every Christian who wants to understand how to be a presence in this world while remaining deeply grounded in Jesus.
Being deeply formed spiritually
I loved his clearly defined steps to a deeper relationship with Jesus and other people. The chapters on racial reconciliation were well written but I currently feel overwhelmed with the topic so I could have easily appreciated the book without the chapters devoted to this topic and lamenting!
"DEEP"
Hi Pastor Rich, after reading Chapter 1 on July 27, 2020 at 3:50 am God placed this in my spirit. Embracing The "DEEP" Transformation. When I received the book I opened it and began to explore and I couldn't wait to dig in deeper. Especially these pages 20, 107, 148, and 189. I know he has a message for me. Thanks for allowing God to use you. Congratulation! Alice J
3 and a half of 4 stars
Not sure whether to rate 3 and a half of 4 stars. Firstly the good: - There is some absolute gold in this book. - If you've read any emotional healthy spirituality books, you'll know the emphasis on deep integration and growth, which Villodas continues. And in light of continuing Christian leader fails and the US led deconstruction of faith a deep life is vital. - The section on sexuality is v good - it's not about what you would think but about how all of us are sexual beings needing a place to belong. Similar to the small book "purposeful sexuality" by Ed Shaw - The references are broad and diverse - lots of non Eurpean names and female writers, and the bibliography could provide some great reading I think. - The questions around our feelings were the parts I found most challenging and want to come back to. Again if you have used EHS material this won't be totally new but it is so important I keep revisting it and actually do the work not just read it !! - There are lots of good practical practices he encouraged us to have a go at. My 'dissatisfaction'? : - I felt in many ways it felt quite disjointed. 5 values are chosen to explore: contemplative prayer, racial reconciliation, interior examination, sexual wholeness and missional presence. All are interesting, but unless I missed it, Villodas doesn't explain why he chose these 5 and why these 5 "must be held together". I agree they are important, but there is no biblical or cultural reason given why to focus on these 5 specifically. - The section on racial reconciliation is more nuanced and gracious looking towards hope, which is better than many on this topic. Yet He says he focuses on the West, but to single out those who are white and completely ignore racism in other contexts, the historic North African slave trade, Chinese treatment of uyghurs etc etc etc and to use the explanation on white and whiteness along with the definition of racism involving power felt like reading others with a particular agenda. - The section on evangelism feels a bit dismissive of ways that are simple and reproducible and are growing movements around the world. It is not just transactional to use his languge. - Finally like EHS I'm surprised how much Thomas Merton is mentioned, as from what I know of his story and writing his theology is not where I'd want to be drawing from (reading yes, but positively commending no). All in all a good and challenging book, worth reading, I hope my negatives are not straining out negative gnats whilst swallowing positive camels 😄 As Villodas desire to see Christians deeply formed into the image of Christ is definitely what we need.