Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew: Updated and Expanded Edition

A great resource for a parent wading into the ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) world. The books touches on basics that we unwillingly omit, and puts you into the perspective of a child with ASD. It breaks down misconceptions and stereotypes of what it means to live with autism, and everything that entails for the parents and families involved, but even more importantly the child living with it. The book revolves heavily on the authors own experience with her son, and what she and her family have done, who they’ve talked to, and what they’ve learned to convey the main points of the book. Although it does rely on studies when it needs to, the book is more of a showcase of the love and the care that they took to provide their son the best opportunities for him, and the fight that went along those opportunities. The book is broken down into 10 concepts: 1. I am a whole child 2. My senses are out of sync 3. Distinguish between won’t and can’t 4. I am a concrete thinker. I interpret language literally 5. Listen to all the ways I’m trying to communicate 6. Picture this! I am visually oriented 7. Focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can’t do 8. Help me with social interactions 9. Identify what triggers my meltdowns 10. Love me unconditionally It then goes onto give an update on how her son has normalize most of the aspects on his life, as well as all of their support and love supporting his own path as he figures out life, and the in and outs of adulthood. My greatest takeaway from this book, aside from understanding how I should behave and react to my child based on a new perspective knowing what I know now, is this; Your view and your outlook for your child will determine how your child blossoms. To quote the author: As Marcus Aurelius observed “Your life is what your thoughts make of it”. For the child with autism, we must extend that: “your child’s life is what your thoughts make of it. More than any treatment, diet, or therapy, the perspectives from which we view a child’s autism have the greatest impact on whether he will learn to grow, thrive, and be a happy person. I will definitively be recommending this book to whomever has a child living with autism in their life. The most powerful line from the book: “Autism is a tragedy for families only if they allow it to be. The greatest tragedy that can befall a child with autism is to be surrounded by adults who think it’s a tragedy”

I feel this is an excellent primer for those new to autism, especially those who are still struggling to understand if the behavior they see is identifiable. Our 5-year old son has recently been diagnosed with high-functioning autism, and I bought this book not only for myself, but for his grandparents. His grandmother read the book before coming to stay with my husband for a week while I was out of town, and it helped her immensely. It helps to give you a sense of empathy rather than just frustration when your child acts they way they do; consequently changing how you react to it (I'm much better able to be patient now that I understand that he is struggling to work his way through situations just as hard as I am). While I learned a significant amount of important basics, just as important is that I walked away with a sense of hope, which was incredibly healing for me as I emotionally wrestled with my feelings after the diagnosis. The author shares her experience with her own son, the highs and the lows; and later editions have epilogues in the back with updates on her child who is now a functional, happy, independent adult. While this does not mean that every child will turn out as well-adjusted, at least you feel as though it might actually be possible, instead of being consumed with nightmare scenarios of them as an adult. Another important component in the book is her careful analysis of the language we use to describe people with autism and how much damage it can (and does) do - not only to the psyche of the adult, but also the child, and the world at large (this is such a stigmatized condition, which was part of my struggle when I heard the news - I thought I knew what autism was. I did not). Phrases such as "suffer from autism" for example, are unhelpful and give the wrong impression about a child's daily existence. As another reviewer (who has autism) touches on, even high profile, helpful advocate organizations such as Autism Speaks infer that there is something "lesser-than" about those with autism, by referring to "finding the missing piece of the puzzle" (which is also illustrated in their logo). From this book I realized my son is not missing any pieces, he is just a more complicated puzzle to fit together (and all children are puzzles in their own way, really). While it is true, as several other reviewers have mentioned, there are not many specific strategies other than making you aware of what's going on in an autistic child's brain and how they perceive the world, I don't think this book is meant for that. It is a personalized viewpoint from a mother who has worked her way through this with her own child, and the things she learned that can apply to your child (and you) as well. *Specific* strategies come from therapy, as every child is different, and will need slightly different guidance and help. There's no "one-size-fits-all" remedy (although if you are looking for some basic strategies as well as ideas for how to help your child on an on-going, daily basis, I am finding "1001 Great Ideas for Teaching and Raising Children with Asperger's and Autism" to be helpful). This book literally changed my way of thinking about the future and about my son, and as a mom staring down a new, uncertain, long and winding road, I am very, very grateful.

I am using this book for both personal and professional reasons. If you are a parent of an autistic child many of these things you have discovered already. That being said, if you have just received a diagnosis or are not familiar with autism this is a great book to read. It is written in Plain English . The book is organized so that one gets a brief overview of the ten things and then the chapters that follow are more in depth. I like this because it makes for easy reference. I also like the fact that it points out that no one should stereotype anyone. My sons autism is not who he is just one aspect of him. I introduce him as my son NOT my autistic son. This is a great text for educating your family members as well as those outsiders that are ignorant . I actually had an ignorant man ask me what is he? I replied a human being with special super powers.

AWESOME insight! Give a copy to anyone that has a child on the Autism Spectrum, as well as to anyone that has to work with your child on the Autism Spectrum. This book will help them better understand what your child can't directly communicate and help break down some of the misinterpreted behaviors that people label as "defiant". Wish I had handed every teacher, school administrator, and camp counselor a copy (if only they would have read this book, my child could have had a very different/real childhood instead of being labeled one negative adjective after another). Sadly, in high school NONE of his teachers nor school administrators really understood them and they ended up just pushing him out of school ... without an appropriate education, nor a way to achieve a high school diploma. Schools, teachers, and camp counselors need to be better informed about kids on the Autism Spectrum. My child suffered through 14 years of school at 20 different schools in 2 states (constantly being shuffled and thrown out of schools because no one could figure out how to work WITH HIM) ... only not to graduate. The toll his education has taken on his self-esteem (and my sanity) is INSANE and dehumanizing! To think this book could have helped all these "educated professionals" find a path to working with him (or at least better understanding him and stop misreading him and adding their negative labels to his atypical reactions to their demands) ... he might have been able to have 1 successful year somewhere if everyone that had to work with him had taken the time to read this book. I sincerely hope school systems adopt this book as a Teacher-Reading REQUIREMENT for any Teacher that has to interact with kids on the Autism Spectrum. The first 10 pages should be laminated and posted in EVERY SCHOOL ADMINISTRATOR'S OFFICE too! Principals and Vice-Principals need to be able to recognize these challenges when they encounter kids being constantly thrown out of class daily. Sometimes it's not the kids at fault - but the Teachers who fail to recognize a child's social/emotional challenges and limitations. How my son was treated at some schools should be a crime. All my son ended up learning was that he didn't fit in at school - EVER ... and nobody understood him or liked him. I have no doubt this book could have helped break down a lot of misconceptions.

This was a life-changing book for me. I feel it is a MUST read. My eldest granddaughter, 13, is a child with autism. I understand her infinitely better now. This doesn't just teach you about autism, it's a manual for life with a child with autism. At times, I had to set the book aside for a moment, to pause and regret the things I've done wrong over the years. But I am reassured that I've done one thing right, which is to love her unconditionally. When I finished reading it, I passed it on to my son, her father. I haven't gotten any feedback from him yet.

WOW...this book has been so enlightening. My son is 6 and on the spectrum. He was dx'd when he was 3 and began intense ABA therapy for the past 3 years as well as speech and OT. He is 6 and cannot tie his shoes or ride a bike or even clean himself properly after using the bathroom, but his ABA therapy has given him the social skills to be in a mainstream environment and it's great!

Buy the first edition. I bought this one by mistake and wish I could get a refund. The preface made me vomit. Chapter 1 had NOTHING I was excited to learn about from the last book's preview, and was just piles of sugary and gooey dialogue instead to emphasize how incredibly enlightened and kind the author is. She pretends like she doesn't even understand what the words "normal" or "neurotypical" means because they're so incredibly offensive it's below her wave length, and makes it seem like a neurological disorder is totally great.

I work for the school district as a Paraeducator. I bought this book to help me better understand children living with autism. A quote I read somewhere says "If you've ever met a child with autism, you've only met one" and this book helps explain why. Each child looks at things differently, and if I can help educate myself perhaps I can make a difference in their life. Needless to say, I strongly recommend this book.

I particularly loved the chapters on understanding meltdowns and "can't" vs. "won't" as behavioral causes and got this book from the library for my mother (ASD son's grandma) to read. She then ordered her own copy. I think this book has helped him gain another ally. It requires some faith to use these techniques, and I don't know that I would use them exclusively, but it's an excellent Autism 101, especially good to suggest to family/friends/teachers who don't live with it 24-7.

This offers excellent and practical information from a parent who has "walked the walk." From the child's perspective, rather than super-clinical. It sheds light on ways to interact to make the most of time with the child, to positively influence time together. The smallest suggestions make the biggest difference, which in-turn encourages parents and grandparents who want to be the best they can be for the child. I very much appreciate this book.

A great resource for a parent wading into the ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) world. The books touches on basics that we unwillingly omit, and puts you into the perspective of a child with ASD. It breaks down misconceptions and stereotypes of what it means to live with autism, and everything that entails for the parents and families involved, but even more importantly the child living with it. The book revolves heavily on the authors own experience with her son, and what she and her family have done, who they’ve talked to, and what they’ve learned to convey the main points of the book. Although it does rely on studies when it needs to, the book is more of a showcase of the love and the care that they took to provide their son the best opportunities for him, and the fight that went along those opportunities. The book is broken down into 10 concepts: 1. I am a whole child 2. My senses are out of sync 3. Distinguish between won’t and can’t 4. I am a concrete thinker. I interpret language literally 5. Listen to all the ways I’m trying to communicate 6. Picture this! I am visually oriented 7. Focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can’t do 8. Help me with social interactions 9. Identify what triggers my meltdowns 10. Love me unconditionally It then goes onto give an update on how her son has normalize most of the aspects on his life, as well as all of their support and love supporting his own path as he figures out life, and the in and outs of adulthood. My greatest takeaway from this book, aside from understanding how I should behave and react to my child based on a new perspective knowing what I know now, is this; Your view and your outlook for your child will determine how your child blossoms. To quote the author: As Marcus Aurelius observed “Your life is what your thoughts make of it”. For the child with autism, we must extend that: “your child’s life is what your thoughts make of it. More than any treatment, diet, or therapy, the perspectives from which we view a child’s autism have the greatest impact on whether he will learn to grow, thrive, and be a happy person. I will definitively be recommending this book to whomever has a child living with autism in their life. The most powerful line from the book: “Autism is a tragedy for families only if they allow it to be. The greatest tragedy that can befall a child with autism is to be surrounded by adults who think it’s a tragedy”

I feel this is an excellent primer for those new to autism, especially those who are still struggling to understand if the behavior they see is identifiable. Our 5-year old son has recently been diagnosed with high-functioning autism, and I bought this book not only for myself, but for his grandparents. His grandmother read the book before coming to stay with my husband for a week while I was out of town, and it helped her immensely. It helps to give you a sense of empathy rather than just frustration when your child acts they way they do; consequently changing how you react to it (I'm much better able to be patient now that I understand that he is struggling to work his way through situations just as hard as I am). While I learned a significant amount of important basics, just as important is that I walked away with a sense of hope, which was incredibly healing for me as I emotionally wrestled with my feelings after the diagnosis. The author shares her experience with her own son, the highs and the lows; and later editions have epilogues in the back with updates on her child who is now a functional, happy, independent adult. While this does not mean that every child will turn out as well-adjusted, at least you feel as though it might actually be possible, instead of being consumed with nightmare scenarios of them as an adult. Another important component in the book is her careful analysis of the language we use to describe people with autism and how much damage it can (and does) do - not only to the psyche of the adult, but also the child, and the world at large (this is such a stigmatized condition, which was part of my struggle when I heard the news - I thought I knew what autism was. I did not). Phrases such as "suffer from autism" for example, are unhelpful and give the wrong impression about a child's daily existence. As another reviewer (who has autism) touches on, even high profile, helpful advocate organizations such as Autism Speaks infer that there is something "lesser-than" about those with autism, by referring to "finding the missing piece of the puzzle" (which is also illustrated in their logo). From this book I realized my son is not missing any pieces, he is just a more complicated puzzle to fit together (and all children are puzzles in their own way, really). While it is true, as several other reviewers have mentioned, there are not many specific strategies other than making you aware of what's going on in an autistic child's brain and how they perceive the world, I don't think this book is meant for that. It is a personalized viewpoint from a mother who has worked her way through this with her own child, and the things she learned that can apply to your child (and you) as well. *Specific* strategies come from therapy, as every child is different, and will need slightly different guidance and help. There's no "one-size-fits-all" remedy (although if you are looking for some basic strategies as well as ideas for how to help your child on an on-going, daily basis, I am finding "1001 Great Ideas for Teaching and Raising Children with Asperger's and Autism" to be helpful). This book literally changed my way of thinking about the future and about my son, and as a mom staring down a new, uncertain, long and winding road, I am very, very grateful.

I am using this book for both personal and professional reasons. If you are a parent of an autistic child many of these things you have discovered already. That being said, if you have just received a diagnosis or are not familiar with autism this is a great book to read. It is written in Plain English . The book is organized so that one gets a brief overview of the ten things and then the chapters that follow are more in depth. I like this because it makes for easy reference. I also like the fact that it points out that no one should stereotype anyone. My sons autism is not who he is just one aspect of him. I introduce him as my son NOT my autistic son. This is a great text for educating your family members as well as those outsiders that are ignorant . I actually had an ignorant man ask me what is he? I replied a human being with special super powers.

AWESOME insight! Give a copy to anyone that has a child on the Autism Spectrum, as well as to anyone that has to work with your child on the Autism Spectrum. This book will help them better understand what your child can't directly communicate and help break down some of the misinterpreted behaviors that people label as "defiant". Wish I had handed every teacher, school administrator, and camp counselor a copy (if only they would have read this book, my child could have had a very different/real childhood instead of being labeled one negative adjective after another). Sadly, in high school NONE of his teachers nor school administrators really understood them and they ended up just pushing him out of school ... without an appropriate education, nor a way to achieve a high school diploma. Schools, teachers, and camp counselors need to be better informed about kids on the Autism Spectrum. My child suffered through 14 years of school at 20 different schools in 2 states (constantly being shuffled and thrown out of schools because no one could figure out how to work WITH HIM) ... only not to graduate. The toll his education has taken on his self-esteem (and my sanity) is INSANE and dehumanizing! To think this book could have helped all these "educated professionals" find a path to working with him (or at least better understanding him and stop misreading him and adding their negative labels to his atypical reactions to their demands) ... he might have been able to have 1 successful year somewhere if everyone that had to work with him had taken the time to read this book. I sincerely hope school systems adopt this book as a Teacher-Reading REQUIREMENT for any Teacher that has to interact with kids on the Autism Spectrum. The first 10 pages should be laminated and posted in EVERY SCHOOL ADMINISTRATOR'S OFFICE too! Principals and Vice-Principals need to be able to recognize these challenges when they encounter kids being constantly thrown out of class daily. Sometimes it's not the kids at fault - but the Teachers who fail to recognize a child's social/emotional challenges and limitations. How my son was treated at some schools should be a crime. All my son ended up learning was that he didn't fit in at school - EVER ... and nobody understood him or liked him. I have no doubt this book could have helped break down a lot of misconceptions.

This was a life-changing book for me. I feel it is a MUST read. My eldest granddaughter, 13, is a child with autism. I understand her infinitely better now. This doesn't just teach you about autism, it's a manual for life with a child with autism. At times, I had to set the book aside for a moment, to pause and regret the things I've done wrong over the years. But I am reassured that I've done one thing right, which is to love her unconditionally. When I finished reading it, I passed it on to my son, her father. I haven't gotten any feedback from him yet.

WOW...this book has been so enlightening. My son is 6 and on the spectrum. He was dx'd when he was 3 and began intense ABA therapy for the past 3 years as well as speech and OT. He is 6 and cannot tie his shoes or ride a bike or even clean himself properly after using the bathroom, but his ABA therapy has given him the social skills to be in a mainstream environment and it's great!

Buy the first edition. I bought this one by mistake and wish I could get a refund. The preface made me vomit. Chapter 1 had NOTHING I was excited to learn about from the last book's preview, and was just piles of sugary and gooey dialogue instead to emphasize how incredibly enlightened and kind the author is. She pretends like she doesn't even understand what the words "normal" or "neurotypical" means because they're so incredibly offensive it's below her wave length, and makes it seem like a neurological disorder is totally great.

I work for the school district as a Paraeducator. I bought this book to help me better understand children living with autism. A quote I read somewhere says "If you've ever met a child with autism, you've only met one" and this book helps explain why. Each child looks at things differently, and if I can help educate myself perhaps I can make a difference in their life. Needless to say, I strongly recommend this book.

I particularly loved the chapters on understanding meltdowns and "can't" vs. "won't" as behavioral causes and got this book from the library for my mother (ASD son's grandma) to read. She then ordered her own copy. I think this book has helped him gain another ally. It requires some faith to use these techniques, and I don't know that I would use them exclusively, but it's an excellent Autism 101, especially good to suggest to family/friends/teachers who don't live with it 24-7.

This offers excellent and practical information from a parent who has "walked the walk." From the child's perspective, rather than super-clinical. It sheds light on ways to interact to make the most of time with the child, to positively influence time together. The smallest suggestions make the biggest difference, which in-turn encourages parents and grandparents who want to be the best they can be for the child. I very much appreciate this book.

Amazing Amazing. It was so comprehensive and it was it felt like I was reading about my son. It really helped me find answers to questions that I had when my son first showed signs of ASD. I'm so glad I found this book and it is even recommended by the Autism Speaks Society

Well-written book and very easy reading. Certainly gives the reader a better perspective on the ways the mind of a person with autism's mind works. Clarifies how adults who have no prior experience in the area -- and even those who do -- should talk and work with children with autism for the best results. Most parents treat and work with their children in the same way that they were raised. The traditional methods of child-rearing will not work with children with autism. My husband and I found the book to be quite helpful and enlightening and are going to be sure that some other family members read it as well. Our grandson has "high-functioning autism - (Asperger's)" -- and this book has helped us understand him a great deal better.

This book is the best book I have ever read about Autism. I read so many books about Autism since I am a psychology major and I'm getting my Masters Degree in Children Development Psychology/Education Leadership. Since I am going for School Psychology, this book is amazing and very helpful. Once you start reading it, you can't put it down! I recommend this book for anyone.

My six year old daughter recently received a diagnosis of high functioning autism. Since then, I have read four books and numerous blog posts on the subject. This book stands out from the rest and I enjoyed it very much. I thoroughly enjoyed the audible version and will be giving a hard copy to my daughter's school. After I ordered this book, I was happy to see that it is listed as recommended reading on our state's IEP website. Ten Things was so comprehensive and moving; I imagine it will be the last book I read on the subject for quite some time.

The world would be a better place if everyone read this book. People would understand so much more about kids with Autism and Parents and Grandparents would have more skills to help their little ones.

Our instructor made this book a requirement for class. This is a great read and gives real insight and awareness into the life of a child or student with Autism. Although I feel like I know a lot having worked in the field for nearly 20 years, this book reminded me and added to my knowledge base. I read several pages to my principal and vice principal one day, so that they were more aware of why certain students were not functioning as well in certain classes. The sensory issues, the things we take for granted. The way it explains what they go through on a day to day basis is amazing. I believe everyone should read through it at least once!

I have read allot about spectrum disorders (PDD-NOS) and most are just depressing that there is "something wrong with your child" and all the nay saying it can scare the heck out of you. I can not speak for everyone on the spectrum, but my kid is fabulous and I wouldn't change a thing about him. I thought they were writing about my son in some of the sections and she does it with a sense of humor that is wonderful and needed. As you read about the "backwards hugs" and other things that are common with autism it is heart warming to know you are not alone. I recommended this book to his teachers because as a parent I found it insightful. Grandma read the book in one day; she could not put it down. It is a useful tool for people dealing with special children like ours and this book hits the nail on the head without all the depressing dribble. Sometimes I just read the highlighted areas that I marked to know I am not alone and to make me smile.

Autism is a complex syndrome that varies from person to person. No two people have the exact same profile. But, as the author reminds us, every person shares the same dreams, wants, and need for understanding. Autistic children are often reduced to their deficits because each day is a struggle to find a way to make the child fit in. However,parents and teachers often forget that a child with autism is a child who needs to be loved and respected for what they CAN do because ultimately what they can do is going to carry them through life. Ms Notbohm's list of ten things to remember about children who have autism is simple to remember but profound in its insight. Parents and relatives of children labeled as "autistic" will find hope, optimism, and common sense in this book that re-inspired my wife and I as we learn how to assist our child.

Exceptional! My 3 year old granddaughter has recently been diagnosed with Autism. She just began a Special Ed Pre-K. After reading this book, I've gained a new insight into what my family will need to be aware of to help her along the way. Gave the book to my son and daughter-in-law and insisted they also read it. The book is encouraging with the personal insights and results with the author's son.

I learned more from this book than any of the doctors, therapists or behavorial specialist/wraparound staff we've encountered thus far. We're very early in the process of making our way thru the confusion of diagnosis, treatment and adjustment but I can't say enough about what I've gotten out of this book. I've made it a point not to do a lot of research on the internet as to not get to bogged down and discouraged with too much info but I'm so glad I decided to get this book. What an uplifting, common sense approach full of info but not overwhelming and too technical to overload your brain. Our daughter is thankfully very mild on the Autistic spectrum but none the less on it and I can still use so much of the info in the book. She still has many characteristics no matter how highly functioning she may be. We deal with sensory overload, anxieties, impulsivity, behavior issues etc. But I love how Ellen Notbohm focuses on the positive of these kids!!! I love how incredibly bright & funny our daughter is, even though she doesn't get most humor but she thinks she's funny. How vast her memory is, much to our amazement. And the list goes on. A great approach. Makes you rethink how you're really looking at things. Job well done.

This book was suggested to me by another mom. I have a Daughter with Autism she is 9. I wish I would have found this book sooner. It is a book you will read again and again or just use as a reference to back to. I think grandparents and teachers should all read this book because it help you understand Autism through a different view or just understand it if you don’t! I loved this book even though I already know a lot about Autism.

This is the best book on autism I ever read, and as an autism specialist in the education system I read MANY of them. The chapters are short & easy to read, but filled with much-needed information. This book reminds us as carers of children with autism that they are first and foremost CHILDREN, they have minds, and they have very good reasons for the way they behave. It is up to us as the adults to figure out the best way to reach into their worlds and give children the tools they need to manage their way out. Ten Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew is a great tool for parents, teachers, and anyone who loves someone with autism. I gave this book to many parents as a resource because I found it so helpful.

The perspective, the facts and the practical implications of the two make this book invaluable as a resource. The total picture the information creates takes the mystery out of what can be threatening to anyone who does not understand autism. The structure of the book makes it a realistic read. First, the "Ten Things" are briefly described within a page or two then later followed up with an in-depth chapter for each. I cannot praise this book enough for the insight it provides. I have worked with several children with autism and find the information accurate as a generalization while also applicable to individuals. I was especially challenged with #1: I am a total person, please do not define me by the fact that I have autism. The autism is not who I am.

I'm new to the Autism world. My nephew is almost 2 years old, has PDD and SPD. He went from being a kid that tantrummed every 2 minutes, non verbal, to a kid who has ABA 3 times a day, and a sensory gym 3 times a week for OT, PT and ST. He's starting to say a couple of words. His tantrums have gone down considerably. We can almost make it 45 minutes through Mass without him screaming bloody murder. What does this have to do with the book??? From my experience, this book as brought me so much understanding OF WHAT MY NEPHEW IS GOING THROUGH ON A DAILY BASIS. I've read so much about why he might or might not have autism, I've read that he has a sensory disorder and we have all the sensory toys to help him...but it was not until this book, which I finished in one evening, that I ever FELT how he must feel on a daily basis. I see a lot a of reviews for people who think this book can't help if your child is non verbal. I can't comment on something I don't know. But from where I'm coming from, this book has opened my eyes to the ways I should and shouldn't speak, act and shouldn't act, around a litle boy that is seeing the world in an entirely different way frome me. No, I don't have to do those things, but I'm his aunt, and I want to bond with him however I can. And that's the main point of the book. We can change. We are adults. We think neurotypically. Someone with a different perception cannot just conform to the way I think. Even if he tries hard, or wants to...he can't. So it's up to ME to change. I can't wait to share this with the rest of the family. My heartbroken mother who thinks his dreams are shattered, my stressed out sister trying to hold together her last slice of sanity, my aunt who is not sure autism is not just an excuse for bad behavior. I think this book speaks in a very plain, understanding way from a woman who worked VERY HARD not to FIX her son to be what she wanted him to be, but to enter his world and engage him, so that he could then seek her world out as well. And she's sharing how she did that. This book is not a how to book with the secret ingredient to make a child verbal or filled with emotion. Her point is that even if your child never speaks, or never hugs you back, he or she deserves your unconditional love, and she gives you the support and pep talk you need to be that person your child needs.

Easy to read and understand. This author speaks from personal experience and helps anyone wanting to understand what they can do to help someone who has been diagnosed as autistic.

This is, hands down, the greatest book on autism ever. before the end of chapter one, I had a deep and profound understanding of why my nephew does some of the things he does. It's so uplifting and enlightening to hear it as if from the mouth of a child who suffers through this. I particularly enjoy the way the author expresses the hardships of the condition in a positive manner and allows me to see more than the limitations it imposes. I believe that I, and my family, will benefit greatly from this book and it will definitely be a stocking stuffer for everyone in the immediate family. I wish it was required reading, not just for those dealing with children who have autism. I believe it could help everyone to learn a little empathy and truly see the world through someone else' eyes.

This book is for anyone who has problems with traits in common with kids who get labeled autistic. Lots of engineers or software developers or 'eccentric' people could benefit from reading it.

I read this book when my daughter was first diagnosed. It makes things very simple to understand so I ended up buying a copy for all grand parents. They also loved the book.

Great book! A must read for a parent or anyone wanting to learn about autism!! Definitely recommend!!!!!!

I'm a dad, teacher, and school counselor. The one thing I kept thinking during my counselor training (after 15 years of teaching) is "Every teacher ought to be required to study counseling. If not the skills, at least the developmental aspects and systems theories of child, family, school, and other macrosystems." I recommend this book to all parents, teachers, counselors, administrators, and everyone who works with kids, loves kids, and wants to understand people/ humanity in all our various experiences of life, our environment, how we perceive reality, and our responses to our perception. Autism is but one description of these experiences. This book facilitates greater understanding in simple, easy to understand language. Excellent resource.

This is simply one of the best books on Autism I have read. It does not spend 60% of its time on how to diagnose, it does not offer a ton of varying theories on treatment, it is simply a very touching book on how your loved one sees the world. For parents, teachers and grandparents this is almost a must read. If you have family members that just don't seem to understand the challenges that you are facing this gives them a great look into life with Autism. Truly if you are going to read one book to get a simple understanding of how a child with Autism sees the world, do yourself a favor and read this one. You won't be sorry.

So helpful and easy to read. I've changed the way I deal with my daughter for the better.

Some helpful strategies. The strategies are. It as well organized as in other books but the book is great at offering another perspective.

This was exactly what I needed to find, and will definitely look back on. Inspiring and rich with information and healthy perspectives on autism. A must read for anyone who doesn’t want to give in to stigmas

After our 4-year-old son's recent diagnosis, I looked all over for a book that could give us insight into what he might be feeling. As this was the only book our local bookstore had on hand, I picked it up. Boy am glad that I did!! What a wonderful book for those recently diagnosed. Now, when our son "acts up" I can think about this book and put myself in his shoes. For me, it really put HIS struggle into perspective for me. Instead of dwelling on how hard this has been for my husband and I and our younger children, I see how frustrating it is for him. This book gives us a peak into our son's mind. I felt it was written as I would talk. It gave funny examples that I could definitely relate to. I suggested it for his Early Childhood Development teachers as a terrific book to suggest for parents, teachers, caregivers, and grandparents. A huge "thumbs-up" from this new Asperger's mom!

Was recommended to me and I highly recommend to anyone going through a new diagnosis

I am a teaching assistant in a pre-k. I am also a grandparent of a child with Aspergers. " Ten Things" has explained the importance of adapting one's perspective, and of seeking the growth potential in children with Autism. It is eye opening, and I would especially recommend it to anyone who works with children in a classroom.

My husband & I do foster care and we got a 2-year-old child “on the spectrum”. We were blessed in that our 4 kids were healthy. This book helped us understand many things!! Definitely recommended to help you understand many things you may not know or thought you knew.

I bought two of these after purchasing myself one. It has more accurate information than every other book I've wasted time and money on.

Easy to read and very practical. It offers many tips to help with the struggles of parenting or teaching children on the autism spectrum. Every child is different, but the author, Ellen Notbohm, give excellent advice and examples of things that work. This book will help any parent or teacher of autistic children.

By far one of the best books I have read on this subject (and I have read A LOT!). I wish I had read this book when my son was 3 not 10! It is a quick and easy read with very good information. The moment I finished reading it I handed it to my husband. He has not finished a single book that I have given him on Autism, but he read this one. I have recommended it to other families I know that are struggling with kids on the spectrum, and I am sending a copy to my parents. This book is a must have in your Autism arsenal.

This book is a great book. I have a child who has Autism and have read and re-read this book many times. Most of the books I initially read concerning Autism addressed the causes, treatments and day-to-day activities. This one is personal. This book gives so much insight to autism and helps YOU in beginning to learn to have Autism in your life. It suggests simple ways of changing yourself in order to help. Every family member that is close to us has this book. Simply fabulous.

This book is wonderful !! It tells you in 10 points what are the biggest challenges for our autistic children. I got one for myself and then got 2 more for my parents and for my in-laws. I think it is really great for people who are dealing with your autistic child but don't know anything about it. It's explained in a clear manner that makes perfect sense, so it's easy to read for anyone. There's even a quick review of the ten things in question at the beginning. As you read this book you find yourself nodding, or fighting back tears, because it is so true. I feel it's a book I am going to go back to, just for inspiration sometimes ! It's positive and hopeful ! I just LOVE it !....

We used this as a book study at our school for teachers and administration. Great book! Very insightful. It gave us great ideas on how to deal with autistic students.

This is THE MOST IMPORTANT BOOK FOR ANYONE TO READ IF THEY KNOW SOMEONE WITH AUTISM. I give this book my HIGHEST recommendation. My child was diagnosed at the age of 19 months and we have been living in that world for 3 1/2 years. In an attempt to try to find ways to FEEL how she FEELS and THINK how she THINKS, this book really hits the mark! This book is truly amazing and has helped me understand what my child's needs are. I work to empathize with her on all levels to create educational items for her and other children with Autism. My name is Laura Behrendt and I have a website [...] where I have made available items that have successfully helped my child and other children with Autism. Understanding your child's mind is the most important tool for helping them. I give this book to any relative that really wants to understand and support her.

Good read for those dealing with anyone with autism. Might be read by anyone who may encounter those with autism.

I am a parent of five children and an educator. Our last child has Autism. This book has been a very useful tool every year at district level IEP meetings when we have new teachers or staff join our son's planning team. Many teachers today do not take the time to learn about Autism and how it affects the individuals. This book is a nice short read, if even they read the ten things listed, to give most at least some idea of what they might expect working with or even being a house guest in a home that has an individual with Autism. I use it year after year. Kudos to the author!

I really liked this book and very informative about Austism

I absolutely loved this book, it's gives me more of an understanding of autism and its teaching me how to help my daughter in the long run.

This book is probably very good for someone with a moderate to severely child with Autism. It's interesting to me, but my grandsons don't have any of the issues she describes to that severe of a degree. It does help a lay person become more familiar with the various aspects of the condition.

Loved it. Very good in explaining to others what is happening with my child. We all need to look thru the "other side of the lens" sometimes -this did it well.

Excellent book! My 18 year old autistic child (with epilepsy) kept saying "that's me!" as we read the book together. Helped me understand him more. A must-read for parents, step-parents, anyone contemplating joining a family with an auttie, teachers, therapists, and, well, everyone! This was NOT a paid or compensated review.

Great product

Buy multiple copies, for family, teachers, coaches, etc. Best book out there. Simple but powerful and accurate. (I trained in pediatrics and I have as kid with autism and cystic fibrosis.)

Our son was verbal and therefor was not diagnosed until he was nine. As soon as we were told about the unique logic mapping our son used (we NEVER say our son is disabled...He's just wired differently and therefor thinks and acts differently) I began doing research to learn everything I could. I didn't find get my hands on this book until about two years after the diagnosis and a lot of frustration. I stumbled upon this book during a road trip and was done before we stopped again for gas (yes, it's that short.) I have bought roughly 30 copies in the 6 years since then. They were given (never just lent) to friends and family so they could have enlightenment regarding their own children or regarding my son. I remarried two years ago without meeting ANY of his family before hand. The kids and I met the WHOLE family three months (and 500 miles) later at a family reunion! Knowing this was going to happen we gave each nuclear family on my husband's side a copy of this book BEFORE we came to visit. I can't express how amazing it was to have a stress-inducing (meet the in-laws) trip without a single meltdown. And I got to meet and visit instead of repeatedly explaining my son's quirks and triggers (or worse, have to leave because he is so stressed that he starts his injury-inducing ticks.) We are no longer frustrated or submerged in the black hole of daily, if not hourly, meltdowns. The companion book (written for teachers) has been a gift for each teacher our son has had in the past six years. These two books can easily be described as a pocket-sized miracle. If you have a student or loved one that's on the spectrum you are doing yourself and your quirky companion a huge disservice if you don't spend the $10 for this book. It is a wonderful window to see the simple, logical manner in which our quirky loved thinks. That tiny glimmer of light explodes exponentially when you realize that these ten points will address most, if not every, situation you and your loved one could face. That's the disco ball at the end of the black hole.

My daughter has Autism. I've read a lot of books about Autism. This one is my favorite! Some other books are so text bookish, and boring. Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew is common sense. I recommend this book to everyone I know. I have family members who work in the Special Education field, and I recommended this book to them.

my son has not been diagnosed or even guessed to have any of the autism spectrum however, having read other reviews, i decided this book could possibly give me constructive guidance on how to best approach my son who, at five years old, can be exceptionally driven to follow his own path at the frustration of his parents, teachers and even other kids. i found this book to be an incredibly quick read. the information is accessible and actionable. it is not an 'all or nothing' approach which the author takes pains to point out. the information itself covers a spectrum and in buffet style, you may digest that which you find appealing or helpful and leave the rest. it also took the fear out of the label, autistic. should my son be diagnosed as such, i am no longer of the unconscious image i had of autism-- that these kids are dumber than average and generally broken. nope. they are loveable little people who, with the proper guidance, can become great and contributing children and adults.

Best book I've read so far about autism. It helped me gain a clear understanding of how someone with autism might feel, which gives rise to how they act. I think this is a great book for parents or other family members learning to accept and cherish their loved one with autism and I think it would also be extremely helpful for those (teachers, therapists, etc) who work with children with autism.

This book gave me an insight into my recently diagnosed autistic child that put me both at ease and prepared me for what's to come. It allowed me to see my sons current actions and possible future actions as his way of communicating and not a failure on my part. Definitely worth reading. It's quick and engaging.

It's a great book to put some structure around thinking about autism and the children who live with it. Told in a familiar, relatable way, Ellen Nothbohm helps us to live in both her own, and Bryce's shoes, and helps us to understand autism not just in terms of a condition, but as a factor that shapes personalities, relationships, and ultimately, attitudes and choices. Well done.

My 16 year old son has Asperger's... We use this book together to communicate his feelings with each other and other family members. This is an excellent book, highly recommend.

I myself am a Mother of a child with moderate autism & severe Adhd. I have recently been diagnosed as Add & high functioning ASD. As I read this book I learned how to better communicate with my son. It made what seemed so impossible and frightening into something I could do. Plus I could put it into effect immediatly! I was constantly in fear of my son's future. Within the first few chapters I could feel my anxiety melting away. Every person I know or meet who's life has been touched by autism I tell them about this book. For all of you out there who are scared and searching for hope. You will find this book so inspiring. Biggest reason why is it does not show autism as this horrible fate that many books I've read have. Like Jenny McCarthy books that speak only of hoping to rid your child of autistic behaviors. This book celebrates all of the joys autism can and will bring if you only let it.

This book is one of the books that keeps coming up over and over. Take a look!

This book made me cry. I read it and I understood my husband and my son more clearly than I ever have before. It is an eye opening and insightful journey into the mind of a person with a non typical brain.

My twin grandsons are on the Spectrum and, even though, I pride myself on knowledge, this book opened my eyes even further. Highly recommend for families with Autistic members or for anyone who simply wishes to know more.

A friend recommended this to me. It is a wonderful summary of very important topics. Great book to ask a teacher or family member to read because it is to the point. Definitely a book to give to someone whom doesn't "get it" and you want them to better understand your child. It is short and well-organized.

Fourth quarter 2010: two of our three sons are diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. First quarter 2011: Dad, with a new stack of books on autism in his office, chooses the one on the top to read. Time will tell if that was a fortuitous or unfortunate choice, but this book makes sense as I related it to Jonah and Evan, now 9 and 7 respectively. There is a lot of food for thought for the parent in our situation now, and some ideas to try. Perhaps it would be a good idea to check back and re-rate the book in a few years, but it seemed like a good place for the parent just struggling with this issue to begin. As a Bible-believing Christian the last story about the author's experience with a psychic was very off-putting, but I'll try not to hold that against her.

I have purchased a few copies to give out to other parents as we have twins with autism and LOVE this book as well. I highly recommend these books. Very in depth and east to read. Ellen covers everything from sensory issues to communication to meltdowns, etc. For parents new to the autism dx and the road to many challenges ahead...THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU.

Our grandson was recently diagnosed with autism so my wife and I looked for more information so we could better understand what our grandson was facing. This book gives such insight into what an autistic child is facing and what we as parents or grandparents should consider when trying to help our grandson that we can't thank the author enough for putting into words the thoughts and frustrations our grandson is having but at this age is unable to convey!

I can't say enough about this book. I have made it required reading in my family. My son's Grandpa is showing definite signs of having read it! It's a quick, easy read and chock full of amazing information. I especially love the analogy of imagining yourself trying to do your job while riding a rollercoaster: That's what sensory issues can be like daily for a child w/ autism. If you read any book this year, make it this one. Then hand it over to anyone and everyone your child has contact with. Then ask them for it back and read it again.

As a grandparent to a child with autism, this was a book I wish EVERYONE would read. If your child is recently diagnosed with autism, you will find this book to be both informational and critical to understanding the child with autism. It is encouraging and uplifting. It offers a sense of hope and purpose to both the parent and child where there is often the feelings of confusion, misinformation and helplessness. There is an additional book by this same author about what TEACHERS ought to know about the child with autism and I plan to definitely read that one and share it as well. If you want to know more about autism, this is the book for you. It is an easy read and, as I mentioned, very informational.

We visited the grand kids over the holidays and realized how much we did not know about aultism. This book is a great help in understanding the children and how to interact with them.

This book is an easy read, written for lay people, by a parent, for parents and carers of kids with Autism. Its personal, with lots of real life examples. I found it helpful in dealing with the greif associated with a new dianosis of Autism, and intend to send it to all relatives to read before our next visit. I think it has helped put his behaviours in perspective for me, and if anything I love my son more fiercely than ever. I have shed many tears while reading this book. And while reading have come across an epiphany that I would like to share: with this diagnosis, my goals for my son have not changed - that is to help him grow with self-confidence and love and support, so that what ever it is he chooses to do in life, he has the courage to pursue it. He has my support 600% of the way, always has and always will.

This is a brilliantly written book that will enlighten parents, teachers, and every manner of caregiver on many aspects of autism. It's written in language that's easy to digest and apply. The text not only will educate you about the sensory, language, and social difficulties experienced by people with autism, it's full of "best practices" that are applicable to public school classrooms, daycare centers, neighborhood gatherings, and the like. Thank you, Ellen Notbohm.

I highly recommend this book. I have handed off many a copy to teachers along the way. I probably should order it by the crate.

This book really helps to put the autistic child's view of the world in terms their family members can understand. Twins in the family were recently diagnosed at a young age with autism and this is helping all of us - parents, grandparents, aunt and uncle - better understand how they view the world and how we can help them.

Very nice

The book was great up until the very end! She tells about practical things your child wishes you knew, which was great to read. Lots of insight, but then towards the end she talks about a visit to a psychic, if I remember correctly. WAs a bit out of place and not very helpful, and I still can't remember why it was included. Other than that, it was a good helpful book!

When my daughter was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), I had no clue what it was or where to start. This book breaks down the basics in an easy to understand way and gave me a starting point. I would recommend this book to any parent, caregiver, teacher, or family member who knows someone with ASD.

This book was one of the most outstanding books I"ever read on Autism. It Should be required reading for everyone that deals with childern like Bryce. I have a grandson like Bryce who is a teen and it really made things clear to me.

As a special education teacher I found this book to be a great resource. I will definitely be reading this author's book for educators. There are excellent, easy-to-use suggestions for strategy in dealing with problem behaviors. By better understanding how a child thinks and perceives his world, we can be better educators for him.

I like this book in the fact that it's a book about autism and there just needs to be more out there! However, i didn't really like it in the fact that i'm not an english major and sometimes it's like reading meaningless words because i don't know what they mean. There's a lot of useless words thrown in all the time, when my theory is, keep it simple and to the point. We're obviously buying the book because we want to keep educating ourselves, are looking for more hope, we just don't want to feel alone, and i'm sure there are many more reasons, so talk like you know what we're actually going through. When it comes to my son i don't want to read something that i feel like is talking in rhyme and if i wanted to be technical i'd go talk to the doctors, it makes just about the same amount of sense. I do like the 10 things in the front of the book, they were kept simple, as i feel a lot of people do not understand what's happening to these amazing children and i've seen people look at my son with disgust, it makes me sick. So the more info. out there the better.

Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew is an awsome book. I wish someone had recomended it 4 years ago when our son was diagnosed with PDD. It opened our eyes to so many things we were doing wrong and assumptions we were making that were also wrong. My son's Drs., Psychiatrist, therapists, and teachers were unable to answer many of our questions or explain what our son was going through like this book did. The sad part is the fact that our son had to suffer through and deal with parents who had no clue in how to help him. I recomend this book to any parent, therapist and teacher who works with a person with ASD.

Must have book for families with autism. Great read for grandparents too. I've given this book as gifts to other families who may have just received an Autism diagnosis for their son/daughter.

As with all her books this is very moving. I cried often while reading this and "Ten Things Every Student With Autism Wishes You Knew". As a teacher of young children with autism this captures thier spirt and thier gifts as well. If you take the time, patience, and effort required you will see these children blossom into incredible people.

A great book everyone should read. People need to understand how a child with autism really thinks and things they want you to know. Things that they can't just sit down and explain it to you. These people are smart, they need understanding, love and patients!!

The minute I opened this book and began reading, I got chills. It was almost like they were writing my son's life story. It's dead on with almost all points covered. I have read so many books on autism to get all the info I can & with all honesty will say that this little book gave me more insight, understanding, and patience when it comes to understanding my child than anything else I have read. It was so true to my son's life that it brought tears to my eyes a few times.....only because I finally realized that my son was not alone in what un-informed people view as being wierd or different. Definite MUST READ for anyone who is blessed enough to have one of these amazing children in their lives.

This book is very informative and easy to follow. I now have a much better understanding of autism. We as a society need to be compassionate towards all people who are different.

I Carry this book with me everywhere. I started reading it as soon as I got it and never put it down. I have an almost 4 year old daughter with autism and sensory processing disorder. This book has taught me a lot about how to deal with her challenges and even my own. Could not have asked for a better book.

Very insightful for any new parents with a child on the spectrum.

Must read for not just family members but educators, therapists and any one who has ever had any contact with an autistic child. Amazing book. There is a part in the book about clipping toe nails and how traumatic it is for the child in the book and I tried the suggestion from the author and it was like magic. If I could I would love to give this book to everyone.

Even if you've never met someone on the Autism spectrum, you will soon and this will help you understand what Autism is like for the person with it, how to help that person and others, and give you piece of mind. I give a copy to my son's new teacher every year and they always thank me.

If you are starting the journey of knowing or having an autistic child, this is the "Bible" that I recommend everyone read.

When my Great-Grand son was born, he was the most beautiful baby. We thought he was Normal until he was around two and not talking and still crawling. Thanks to this book we began to believe something was wrong, the doctor diagnoised him with Autism. This book is a Must Read for anyone wishes to understand their child's mental disability!

I've read so many asd books.... but this one really hits home with me. I felt like I wasn't the only one experiencing similiar issues as the author & her son. The book is extremely well written. It's from the heart & also the head. This is THE book on asd parenting & functioning.

I purchased this book for my wife. She was happy with the information presented in this book. We have a child with autistic tendencies. He has not been diagnosed with autism but he has everyone of the 10 things listed in this book. We are using this information to help us.

I have learned so much about autism from this book. I have more empathy now for a families dealing with this.

This book was well written and never got boring or over my head. She did very good to explain what the ten things were and showing how to overcome them. I have read a lot of books about ASD because my daughter was just diagnosed. This one helped me understand more about where to go from here to help her learn and move toward adulthood.

Wonderful book with a great perspective! I learned a lot! Great quality

I read this book with great interest in seeing...or trying to comprehend what my two autistic children feel. Just reading the introduction I was struck by how many things can affect them...amazing. It will be required reading for my daughter and sons who live with their two brothers, my husband, my parents and all his aunts and uncles. It is important to understand what these kids are dealing with.

Wonderful book to help understand autism!

This is absolutely the best book to read about children with autism. The author shares her experiences and is very in-tune with her child. I bought several copies to hand out to family to help them understand a beautiful autistic child in our family. Very good and easy read.

Haven't finished reading the book but have already found it so helpful in better understanding my great grandson behavior, how views things and how he feels. The book was so informative and valuable that I brought a copy for his parents.

I buy copies of this book and give it to parents of children who have been recently diagnosed with autism. The information is accurate, succinctly & simply put, and is an invaluable resource to anyone who really wants to learn at the core of autism in plain English

Great help with Autistic children!

Very helpful to understand how a child feels. My daughter is no longer a child , sadly I wish I had this much earlier.

Great for parents!! There is usually a reason for behavior, but one must discipline also.

The ten things are a good list and helpful to someone with a child on the spectrum like mine. My issues were that she identifies my biggest problem in that my child sees everything I do to help her as an indictment that she is weird. The author identifies this problem but gives no answer to it other than to follow your heart. Although I am glad for her sons progress I also got a little tired of the descriptions of Wonder Mom and her autism super hero son.

I am sure that this book has helped many children and their families with autism. I recommend it for any one who loves someone with autism.

Excellent source of realistic information we can help our boy from.

I have a client/ friend who is an autism specialist. I was so inspired by her work and dedication that I wanted to learn more. As a clairvoyant, I am interested in picking up the unspoken language of autistic individuals. Connie Stewart, [...]

The book tells in understandable and simple language offering solutions to common problems in autism. Besides gives suggestions when confronted with challenges. Good piece!

My son was just diagnosed with Austic Spectrum Disorder at the age of 12. I love this book as it's easy to read and understand. One of my biggest problems is that I was expecting more from my son because of his age, and this book really helped me to understand what he can't tell me himself.

A must read for a better understanding of how to interact with autistic children. Should be required reading for all teachers.

I am a Grandparent of a child with ASD. This book was great in helping identify his strengths and areas I never thought about! An easy read and a must for anyone that has a child on the spectrum.

My son was recently diagnosed with Autism. Our extended family was very confused and didn't know what to think. I went thru this book and high lighted the helpful things that applied to my son. This book is very simple for any level to read. A must have!

This book touched my soul. It explained so many things about my children's behavior that I just didn't understand until now. I am so moved, I am buying additional copies of this book as end of year presents for my sons ABA teachers! I think a poster of the "Ten Things" should be up in every school in America! Can't wait to read more of Ellen's work. I highly recommend this book to everyone!

Well written and good advice

If you have someone in your life who has Autism, do them a favor and read this book. You will save them and yourself a lot of frustration. Also helped me to realize some of the unrealistic expectations I had.

In The book Ten Things Every Child Wishes You Knew.You will find that it explains the sensory challanges in basic english. So if you do not know what sensory challenges are this book will be a great help to you.I wish I could have read this book when my daughter was first diagnosed with autism.

I wish everyone would read this book it's a great insight into autism

I think this book is a MUST for anyone who comes into contact with an individual with Autism. It allows one to look at life from their perspective.

Help parents and friends deal with with an unknown situation from someone with experience and lots of knowledge. I appreciate her work and transparency in sharing her experience

This helps explain what a child may be or is actually feeling and/or thinking. I will pass this along to my family so that they have a clearer understanding of what my son is going through as the child and what we as parents are going through as well.

This book was an AMAZING help! I loved every single second of reading it! It was such a huge help!

Great book for people first finding out their child has ASD. A lot of common spence information. Recommend to new parents, teacher, EAs, and caregivers.

Clear, concise, practical book to really understand every aspect of the spectrum.

This book has made me understand past experiences and has helped me to better understand what is going on with my child. I recommend for everyone to ready this book to be better educated!

Anything that promotes awareness, and understanding of autism in our children benefits countless lives worldwide. Thank you for this book.

I have only read the first 40 pages of this book so far. It seems to be very informative and I love how it is speaking for the child. A must read for parents who have a child with autism. They deserve our best and knowledge is power!

I love this book and have recommended it to everyone I know. It was so incredibly helpful right after we got the diagnosis. Even though our child did not display all of the same characteristics of her son, I was able to relate and better understand what was going on. And she was very clear on her goal for her son, which helped us see the goal for our child too and see which way to go. It was easy to understand and relate able.

I thought that it was a little repetitive in the formatting. You get the list of the ten things right off that bat, then Notbohm takes each one and makes a chapter of it. Some of the items are so obvious that you don't think she really needs to explain anything. There was one or two things that I hadn't thought of, but most of it wasn't anything special that I couldn't find online.

Best book

I have a lot of experience teaching children with autism and thought this book would be interesting. I learned more than I expected. I highly recommend this to newbies and veterans alike.

I found alot of helpful tips, but it was so boring that I still have not complete reading it. Great book for the begining, new mom's that have just learned. But a 10 vet like me, I feel like I have been there and done that. Learned through experience.

Everyone should read this book. Not just those that work with autistic children. I found this book helpful with seeing the diversity in everyone. I wish I had found it years ago!

Very informative.

I wish I had this book when my son was younger but I'm so glad I found it. Should be required reading for anyone that has to work with children with autism.

As a social worker in a school, I find this book as an excellent, helpful resource.

The book is very good and very helpful. Some of the language is a little complex, but it is quite understandable to most people who have a very good vocabulary or a college degree. If someone has only a high school degree, some of it may be over their head, due to vocabulary. Regardless, I found it very helplful and gave a copy to a relative whose 4 y/o child was recently diagnosed with Autism. The feedback that I got from him is that it was very helpful also. The ONLY reason I did not give this book a "5" rating is the complexity of the vocabulary for many people.

Very easy read but more informative than any I have read. Opened my eyes to things that I never realized or as my wife says 'we knew that but never realized that we did.' Most books on autism are detailed and often too complicated for average readers to understand. This book summarizes ten very important issues from the perspective of an autistic child in clear, easy to understand terms. Anyone who deals with autistic children in any capacity must read this book. I have a grandson with autism and I want my other grandchildren to read this book too.

Excellent book. Very good information for both the autistic person and the family and friends.

Fabulous book. Gave a more comprehensive way to reach some understanding from a non- clinical perspective. As a educator, I felt the new ways the book has taught me to look at things, (eg.reasons for behaviour etc) will be useful for all children I engage with. Who better to write it then one who lives through it every day. Thank you for being brave enough to share your stories to benefit others. I'm confident it already is helping others in a vast range of ways. WHAT AN EXCITING PIECE OF WRITING!!!!

Having a grandchild with Autism, it helps to get new ideas on how to deal with it from thier perspective.

Very easy to read, straight forward information about Autism. Everyone dealing with a person, in any capacity, who has Autism, should read this book. Gives simple insight about their point of view. Helps in relating to the person with Autism. I am a one on one for a 15 year old boy. This book gave me new understanding and helped me to come up with new ways to relate to him and help him learn. Highly recommended.

I bought this book immediately after my son was diagnosed. After reading it, I ordered copies for everyone in his life. Grandparents. Friends. Preschool teacher. OT. SLP. Everyone. Read it several times - and use it as a reference guide. Good good good stuff!

Great, practical advice here. Parents with autistic kids and any teachers with autistic kids should read this.

My mother has temporary custody of my neice's child who is a lil fellow who happens to be special needs child. This ready-easy reference has raised our awareness of what he's thinking and gives apparent clues and answers to how he behaves.

My stepson has Austism and I gave it to my children to help understand Autism and have empathy for their step-sibling. Pre-teens don't read much these days - but the book is short and concise enough that they enjoyed and learned from it!

This book has become my lifesaver so many times! I can't say enough about how encouraging it is, informative and easy to read! I highly recommend this book to any mom, dad, professional, and especially family members who need to see autism through our children's eyes!

Gave this book to my in laws to read. They said it helped them understand some things better about my son.

amazing book

Great advice.

I really thought this book was very informative. It made alot of things more clear and I understood afew my grandsons behaviors more. I would definitely recomend this book to anyone with an autistic child, and even to the schools that handle autistic children.

If you know of anyone, child or adult, who is on the Autism spectrum, you should have this book in your hands as soon as possible. You will help them most by just understanding.