How Full Is Your Bucket? For Kids

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

This is a very sweet book about how your behavior impacts you and those around you. Some books about behavior are dry and not very interesting to kids. This books holds my daughter's attention and she likes the story. I have been reading this to her (she's four), and her behavior has definitely improved. It has given our family new language to use when talking about how we want to treat others. We now ask each other "how full is your bucket" and we are all looking for ways to fill each others bucket. It will definitely stay in heavy rotation at our house.

I will, and do, purchase this whole series of books over and over for every new parent and family member taking care to raise a young child! I even purchases an adult version for educators for myself! In my opinion this is one of the most meaningful girdts that anyone could bless a young family with!

This book is great to help students understand what it is important to say helpful words rather than hurtful ones. I use this at the beginning of the year and refer to it all year long. We Terra's it when students need a reminder. This book is great because it has a story line that the younger kids can identify with and visuals to complement it as well.

Read this to my daughter every few nights. She has really taken to this story and look at other's differently. She thinks about how she treats people and if she's adding or taking away from their buckets. She can also tell me now that something I said or did affected her bucket. Very cute story.

We have this book at our public library so I bought one for my granddaughter. It's a good story on how being nice to others makes them feel good and also makes you feel good. The bucket fills with good feelings.

Teachers and Parents, This book is a fantastic companion to Tom Rath and Donald O. Clifton's, How Full is Your Bucket?! It is a clever visual idea of how we unknowing deplete our "buckets" or allow others to deplete our "buckets". Once kids (and adults) realize how easy it is to fill each other's buckets, and how good it feels when we do, they will want to give more complements, build each other up, and live fuller, happier lives.

I have read this book to kids at work for years, and now I'm so happy that my own little ones have fallen in love with this book! It's a wonderful way to teach kids empathy and make the concept less abstract.

I didn't really get how this book helps children that have empty buckets. I was hoping for more ideas / strategies on how to "protect" one's bucket, and not let others dip into it, sort of speak; given that most kids that will read this is perhaps because they need a little boost. Stil, the concept is a good easy way for kids to grasp the larger idea, and grown ups can use it to expand upon to their needs.

I bought this for 9 yr old grandson who is avid reader. He called it a Kindergarden book. Yet his 4 yr old brother was Not interested amy time we read it.

This book has been fantastic for my 7-year-old son and I. We use the bucket idea every day. The book made it so easy to understand, and really drew sympathy from us. It's so relatable and a great way to teach kindness and altruism. HIGHLY recommend it!!

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

When I first read it to my 4 yr. old grandson, it was hard for him to get the idea of everyone "having this invisible bucket". He would say "It's not invisible. I can see them right there." But after several readings and talks about how this bucket is in his heart, he slowly got the idea. Whenever he did something kind or helpful or loving here at home, his mom or I would tell him that he just filled our buckets!! Now he gets the idea and the message. I'd recommend this to all ages (seriously). There are some adults who really could use some bucket filling, and in turn they may learn to fill someone else's.

I work in an elementary school that has its share of behavior problems. When I read this story to the students (Kindergarten) I wasn't sure how they would respond. I was very surprised to start having students come up and say "my bucket got filled because my brother watched a movie with me" and other similar things. Many of the students use the "bucket" terminology throughout the day now. Do I still have bullying problems? Yes, but even if making a few children aware of how our actions and words affect others, it makes this book a winner to me :)

A must have for all parents. This book has many lessons that you will find yourself using in the daily lives of your children. It is written in a way that kids easily understand and relate to. You will find them making comparisons to their lives and the book. Great book!

Not crazy about this book although it came recommended, so maybe it’s just me.

We loved this book. One reason we loved this book is because it talked about being nice. At he end of the book , Felix was nice to his sister. We learned a lesson by reading this book. We learned how to be a bucket filler not a bucket emptier. We really liked the illustrations in the book. We liked that the illustrator showed the buckets on top of everyone's head. We loved this book, and these are our reasons why.

I just received this book and I'm already seriously considering using it for my classroom's theme this year. A classroom full of students usually has at least a few children who have difficulty treating others kindly. It can be a struggle teaching them to be respectful and considerate of others. I truly think the bucket concept in this book will help my 3rd graders understand the incredible power of kindness versus the terrible destructiveness of meanness. The story follows Felix as he learns that everyone has an invisible bucket that can be filled or emptied, depending on how people treat each other. It shows several examples of bucket filling and bucket emptying, that children can easily comprehend and learn from. Felix feels the effects of being both filled and emptied, and he changes from being a bucket dipper (an emptier) to a bucket filler. This is an excellent story that I cannot wait to share with my students!!!

I first read this book to my son when he was 3 as a book we checked out from the library. He immediately grasped the bucket concept and from then on if he did something to hurt someone, we've always been able to go back to this book's concept of everyone having a bucket and he immediately recognizes that he took water from the other person's bucket. We've had times where we purposely try to increase other people's buckets around us. I have since purchased this book and he still this book at 5.

Love love love this book. I learned about this book in my internship when i treated young children and recently bought for my nephews so my sister can read it to them. It has a great message but is also colorful and a fun story. Would recommend to anyone with young children.

In this time of meanness and bully-ing, this is a great book for kids and a great starting point for parents

What a great book to talk to my grandson about having a full bucket. Great lessons to work on in life!

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

One of the best books for children and adults. Everyone regardless of age needs to read this book. Wonderful life lessons

I bought this book to read to my 5th & 6th grade classes to start the schoolyear on a positive note. We talked about how we can fill or empty each others' buckets. I have little pails that are being filled as the classroom does good things. They will be rewarded with a special activity one day. The students liked the book and listened well. It has met my expectations and I think it is a great book for social skills. I would recommend it for students or children through 6th grade.

Great book to read to your kids or even at school. We bought this book to read to a 2nd grade class and I also purchased small buckets from the dollar store and filled it with M & Ms to give to the kids while i was reading the book. After reading, the kids put their own buckets over their heads and we talked about their buckets being full or empty. The premise of this book is to say when we make others feel good then we also feel good about ourselves. Everyone has a bucket and how we talk and treat one another determines how full their bucket is. Very cute and a great analogy for youngsters.

I love reading this book to my 5 and 3 year old granddaughters, and they really pay attention. They also are able to have a bit of a better understanding of why to be extra nice to others.

I absolutely love the message this book provides. There's a song in youtube that goes along with it, in case you're a teacher and would like to develop awareness in your class and students of being considerate of others and how your actions affect others around us. I used the book for a class project and made personalized buckets. My daughter enjoyed this entire activity.

Great book to teach children about kindness.

This book is a great book to teach about morals and life . This book should be in everyohe's library.

My son was thrilled to see I had purchased this and said his 2nd grade teacher had used this in her room. He tells me if I am taking out of his bucket. LOL Great reminded and helps me to think twice about what I say.

This is a great book, not only for kids but adults too. It started a great conversation with my kiddos on how treating others well will make themselves feel good too.

Heard granddaughter enjoyed the book

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

We love this book! Our 3 year old brings it up throughout the day, reminding us of moments when we're putting drops in our buckets. He has even started offering to do nice things for others more often to add drops to both of their buckets. We love this concept and how it shows that even when you're having a bad day, you can turn it around by adding a drop to someone else's bucket. Very cool, very kid friendly, full of situations that most kids find themselves in at some point. A great purchase for raising a kind, happy, and thoughtful person.

I tried Fill A Bucket with my preschoolers and that didn't work out too well. I was a bit apprehensive about this one, and found that this one work a lot better with the kids I had. The story was engaging and it elicited a lot of discussion about how we treat others and how we want to be treated. I liked how the bucket was used as a metaphor for behavior and how people see us and how we see ourselves. It was nice that the background story was able to illustrate how the bucket was used and it got my students thinking about their own behavior. It was wonderful and I would highly recommend it.

Excellent story & analogy for kids & adults alike in being aware of how our words & actions can affect others, and making the choice to help full others' buckets. Love this messon & gentle reminder. My 4 & 6 yr old get it, but important reminder for grown-ups, too. If we could all be just a little kinder, a little more tolerant... if gives me great hope :-)

Great story line to this book! It teaches children what being mean can do to someone and make them feel. I recommend reading this book to your children! It is beautifully written, and like I said, has a wonderful storyline!

This book is a must have in our household I order to one for my daughter and one for my son it's a great book on how to teach kids about empathy and teaching kids everybody is going through something and you should always lead with kindness

Perfect read-aloud for back to school, and team building in the classroom! Great online activities to go along with the book are great for elementary students as well!

I am a parent of young children and I am a child psychologist by profession, this is one is a MUST HAVE for both home and work. This book is an awesome life lesson for kids and I remind them about earning "drops" when they do nice things for others, and "drips" in their buckets when they make poor choices. It is a great self-monitoring tool and an important book that teaches how your behavior affects others (and yourself) and you are in control of whether this is in a positive or negative way.

Every child should read this. Raise kinder people

The kids (5 & 7) were interested from page 1. It has given us a simple and effective way to have the kids pause and consider how their behavior/words affect others. It's also allowed us (parents) a quick way to check in with the kids about how they are feeling. We make sure each child starts his/her day with a full bucket. Wonderful book!,

This is a great book. I got it as a way to help my son understand that actions have consequences that a quick "I'm sorry" can't fix. Also to help my kids understand that sometimes when someone is not nice to them it's because they themselves are struggling, such as a Mom with serious health problems, or parents that are going through a divorce...both were issues for them one year at school. This book ended up doing that and so much more. It helped give my kids the words to explain how they are feeling. My son came home from school one day and said that his bucket had been dumped out when......, and another day he said that someone had helped to fill up his bucket. They also use it in conversations with each other, and I can use it when I'm talking to them about how they are feeling or making someone else feel.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

I love this kids's version of the "bucket" theory, and will use it with elementary students. It seems sturdy .. love the illustrations.

We implemented this program into our daycare. It is a great program and is simple enough for our toddlers to pick up. We have seen a change in the way students treat each other. It has been very refreshing. Shipped fast and I would recommend this product

This is one of those books that every child should have on his or her bookshelf. Really helps explain the concept that actions matter. That feelings are a result of how we treat people and how we are treated. If you have a five year old or a kindergartener or a first grader, this is a great book!

I love this book. I think every classroom and every family should have a copy of this great book.

This book is so cute! It helps the kids learn about filling other people’s buckets and in return filling their own! The world needs more of this! Totally recommend!

A really great book to remind children that things you do or say can really affect people. This book is often read in elementary school classrooms. I purchased it, then a couple weeks later my son said his teacher read it to them too.

My daughters are 7 and 10, and we've enjoyed this book so much. The lesson of the bucket helps us communicate during our harried mornings and at the end of the day. I'm so glad we found this book, and plan to share it with their teachers.

This book is FANTASTIC! We were having a hard time with some of our kids not being very nice to each other. Each day, we read this book and talked about ways we could fill our buckets. We've even adapted the idea into our behavior chart!

I love this book. We read it every night and there are more layers to uncover.

Great book. Great book, with easy to understand story (moderate to easy read for my almost 8 year old) and great pictures. Even interests my three year old. Love that we can talk about the moral, just makes it so easy for kids to understand. What we do can affect the feelings of others around us, and helping others not only makes them feel better, but makes us feel good as well.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Very well-written book for use with many ages. It encourages the readers/listeners to understand and consider the perspective of others and also to understand that their words and actions do affect others. It's positive message points out possible negative consequence while focusing on the much more positive message of encouraging individuals to be a help to others.

Echo all the other reviews here. All my kids love this book and it is one they actually pick to read at bed time. I'll be ordering more like it. I love these books that help teach my kiddos 'emotional intelligence'. I was worried it would be either too wordy or too basic... but it is perfect.

Mt daughter loves this book.

So, so good. Must-read for all kids.

This book is a great introductory book for therapy! Really allows for continued conversations with your kiddos. The graphics and paper quality are excellent as well!

I like this theory. I print up a plain bucket and have kids draw or writer in it to make the skills/ more apparent.

Read this to my daughter tonight. Great moral development and teaching to be kind

My son actually read this book at school first and came home asking whether each of his various actions "dipped" from my bucket or "filled" it. The concept sunk in so well with him I knew I had to get the book for home, now we both love reading it and it's a lesson I can gently remind him of during social situations without sounding like I am criticizing in front of his friends.

Great to conceptualize what feelings are to kids.

Great kid read

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

It was a pretty good book but a little confusing for a 3 year old.

My students will love this book!

This is a nice tool to show kids that everyone has potential to be great person in this world by being nice,helpful and friendly to others. The age group said 3 and up so I think I will wait till Christmas for my Granddaughter to read this book. She would be 2 years 7 months old then and I think she would understand it better. I bought this a little too early but I got a good deal and I can save it.

My kids love this book. Its great for anytime.

Helps kids see how being nice to others is good for themselves and those around them in a super fun and understandable way.

I got this book for my nephews and really got it for the parents to understand the kids feelings and some comments they make that can hurt the kids feelings. I love the book it sends a great message.

I feel like my students will remember this book for the whole year!

used it with my freshman homeroom students, even though it was a kid's book they liked it. We did a couple activities with it, so it worked well for us.

This is an absolutely must have in your library book. It is a good example book of how life should be lived by all. Most importantly it is a example to teach to kids when they are young and hopefully they will carry it throughout their lives and teach the values to the children and one by one we can change the world!!!

Best children's book! The perfect tool to teach compassion. This is my personal favorite. I love stories that teach and entertain the kids. Other titles I recommend are Stone Soup, I love you Stinky face, and I like myself (for those of you who are still looking for ideas).

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Fantastic book. Great quality!!

I love this book!!! It teaches such a critical message to my son that is hard to teach without examples like the ones given in this book. A must have in a child’s library collection!

NOT an easy read and my daughter lost interest...fast

Great book !

This book is great in getting the message across about feelings and how they affect us, in a very easy and great way

I will be using this book in my classroom to teach children about the importance of kindness.

We like this book a lot. My 3 year old easily understood the concept with a little explanation and examples. Now we go around and use the idea of having a bucket frequently. If something good happens, we'll say our bucket just got filled up! He loves it! Definitely recommend for anyone 3 years old and up.

This is an incredible book and I would highly recommend getting this book if you are a teacher. While I don't have my own classroom yet, I plan on using the "Bucket Filling" Theme and this will help me :) It is a must have for a teachers classroom.

Great book to use during the first week of school !!

Great

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

A good moral to promite

This is best for elementary school kids.

This has been a wonderful way to help my son understand kindness, sharing, patience etc. Now all I need to do is just remind him when he is dipping from a bucket and when he is filling a bucket. He gets it every time. And it is also a great way to explain other situations and experiences in an appropriate way for a 5 year old.

Absolutely love this book for teaching children kindness and understanding!

My son's preschool class read this book and talked about it for a couple of weeks. I decided to buy the book to reinforce the idea and it is actually working. He talks about his bucket being empty or full and we talk about helping make other's buckets full. I think it has helped him understand compassion as much as a 4 year old can.

Great message for children!

the pictures and content are appropriate for a ten year old, from the picture on the cover it seems like its for a 5-6 year old

My 4 1/2 year old son absolutely loves this book. I didn't think at first that he would be able to grasp the concept of the empty bucket as it relates to being sad and vice verse....but he does !! EXCELLENT BOOK, wonderfully illustrated and a joy to read.

Great book.

What a simple way to educate kids on the importance of good nutrition, exercise and sleep. I like the idea that the book encourages the kids to talk to their parents about how important these three things are too!

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Great

Wonderful book for helping kids to understand empathy. Helps young ones relate to being nice and why others may be mean. Great for opening up a discussion on appropriate behavior and the right way to express our feelings of anger and sadness.

read this to a class of 2nd graders. they loved it and the teacher loved the message!!! The kids still talk about it until now, weeks later!

Great book for kids, same concept as have you filled your bucket today by carol mccloud

Great book that puts the subject at hand in easy to understand language.

I really love the story of the book and am looking forward reading it to my kids. However when it arrived today I found it already had a ripped page. If I wasn't going to need it tomorrow I would exchange it for another one.

Great book. Awesome for teAching your kids how to be kind to others.

Every child should have this book. Period. Buy it now!

Bought this for my Daughter who's a 3rd grade Teacher

A lovely book for kids (and adults, too!). This was recommended by a friend and I'm happy I purchased this one. The story has a great message about treating others with compassion. This will be on my children's revolving reading list.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

My kindergarteners were able to understand the message. We use this phrase a lot.

Great for both my 4 year old and 7 year old. Gives a good visual for what the "bucket" is. Helps understand that not only do other people have a bucket, but you do too... even pets do!

I heard about this for the class room. Bought it and am using it this year. I love it!! I have buckets that all the kids work on filling and we empty them each Friday to take home positive thoughts about our class.

My granddaugther is 6. We read it once and she's never asked for it again??? But it's a great lesson for kids.

Love love love love love this book! Every adult and child should be reading this! Great way to talk about and learn about being a good and caring person.

Loved the message and the story. My students like to hear it over and over. Gave them lots of " food for thought" on how to treat each other.

My 3.5 year old loves this series. It's so much easier to teach them with a clear image. When he does something he doesn't want to do, I tell him he is dripping buckets. And then he stops, and we start talking about buckets :)

Sweet book to teach children about empathy.

Wonderful book about teaching kids to be kind!

My sons loves it. Has read it 8 times already.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Great bedtime story, really resonates with the 3 and 4 year olds! They now talk about everyone's buckets, and we have made great strides in how we deal with naughty behavior. The neighbor even went out and got the book as well, so we're consistent in our message across the yard.

This was a beautiful book! This should be read with all children! Really great for my second graders! It is up to us adults to follow up on this book....... My bucket is getting empty! I think your bucket is totally FULL! Easy to connect with this story and our moods or daily life!!!

I was amazed (and delighted) by how quickly my 6 year old nephew took to the "bucket" concept. The other night I couldn't find the book to read to him, but we were able to just have a conversation about the state of his bucket. I was a little concerned this might be too "high-minded," but that was proved to be unfounded.

Read this to your kids! Loved this book. Read it to my grandson and the kids I babysit and it opens their eyes to how what they say and do affects others. It helped particularly for a three-year-old having sibling issues.

This is a great book for the child that needs a reminder that they're not the only one struggling to deal with things. This book is great at visually and simply explaining the concepts of empathy and compassion. It was a really helpful addition to our family library.

Great book. My 5 year old keeps talking about how people are filling or emptying his bucket

This book is a great way to illustrate compassion to young children. I plan on gifting it to all my daughters’ friends.

I bought this book based on how much my 4 year old son liked the other bucket book. Unfortunately, this one isn't quite as good and is a bit over his head.

Cute story. My son's preschool uses this book and theory for the kids to get them to think about their actions and attitudes. We got this to read at home (to understand the concept) and my son requests it most nights.

Great book for kids. I bought it for work and also purchased another one for my granddaughter. She really enjoyed it.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Great for classrooms. I bought one for my Pre-K class and they lock onto the metaphor easily. It's a good concept for adults to communicate with children as well

Wonderful novel!

This is a nightly book at our house lately, and part of daily conversation... HIGHLY recommend this book to anyone with kids!

I ordered this because several teachers at my school had asked for it and we didn't have a copy in the library. It is a very easy way to explain to young students how your attitude can affect everyone around you, including yourself.

Christmas gift for grandsons Hopefully it will encourage them to think of others

Great book and theme! It was kind of expensive for a short kids book, but other than that I am very happy with this product.

A little long, but my students understand and enjoy this concept. We use it in the classroom daily.

Love this book. I recommend it for any preschool classroom.

We love this book. It illustrates how we can be kind to others, and how our feelings get hurt when others are not kind to us. It teaches children to boost up their friends when they are having a hard day.

Bought this book for a present to the preschool my son attended. It made a super addition to their bookshelf for the start of the year. Planning on adding to our home collection for kids to read when they need a reminder of how to treat one another

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Amazing book to teach children about feeling an others feelings.

This is a good book to help children think about how they treat others.

Great book! My students love it!

Interesting way to teach children to be nice to each other and fill their buckets and not be a bucket dipper. Doing good things helps to keep everyone happy which fills up their bucket, which is good for all!

Great concept for kids of all ages!!! Shows kids in a visual way what happens when you feel "your bucket is empty" and what happens to others when you empty their buckets.Teaches caring, respect, family priorities and more!!!

Great

This book has spurred lots of discussion with our 3 and 4 year olds. It has added a new phrase to how we talk about the way we treat each other. We now talk regualrly about whether our actions are adding drops or taking away drops from our buckets and it seems to hit home. We really love this book.

Nice story helps kids grow in good way

One of my boys favorite books. Highly recommend it

Great for school counseling lessons.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Great message for kids. Easy to read. Flows well.

Great to read to young kids and the bucket drips vs drops is one that can stick with them

Great, positive book for child to gain some direction! We loved this book, it has a place of honor on my 7 year old daughter's bookshelf!

fun book.

Love the bucket concept to teach children empathy.

I purchased the book as a result of her teacher recommending it. They use the bucket system in her class which has helped her to be on her best behavior...only read it to her 3x...will pass it on.

My grandchild loves the book.

Exceptional book! Good for inspiring good in kids. I work with children as mobile therapist, and the product opens lots of conversations!

This book was in good shape and has transformed my classroom atmosphere...love it!

My daughter is 3 and she understand the concept very well. I purchased this book because she was acting up and being mean. I'm very thankful for this book! She loves it.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Very cute book, with a great message

Very cute book

This book has given us a shorthand at home to help our kids check in on whether they are being a bucket filler or bucket leaker with their actions. My 4 year old will catch herself filling someone's bucket and let me know. I love how conscious they have become about the effect of how they treat others through this engaging story.

My grandson was taking a manners course. The book followed what they were saying about kind word, helping others. Quinn loved the book.

Super cute story. Great for Siblings or kids dealing with bullies. My six year old loves it and his older siblings enjoyed it too. I'm told there is a version for adults but I haven't read it.

Highly recommended for kids of all ages.

What better way to help teach children the joy of helping and caring for others than to use the idea of filling a bucket with good deeds and Random Acts of Kindness. Love it.

Wonderful book, Easy reading and our 4/5 year old preschoolers really enjoyed it and understood it.

I bought this book for my daughter, age almost 6. reader. She loved it. It made her think. What is my bucket like? What about others? It enlarged her largely "Me" centered view of life.

The book was less expensive new, than in bookstores...I appreciated that...I didn't have to go out to shop to get it, or wait in line. I loved the rapid delivery! This book is a great book for teaching students to be kind to each other...It would be excellent if teachers could get this book at a discount..if they proved they were teachers. My whole school uses it and I used it for a college course I teach to teachers. Thank you

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Love the message for my kids at school!

With peer pressures and bad things that happen with kids it was a good book for kids to have something to think about and to also look at the positive side of things rather than the negatives.

I love children's books, and this one is a keeper. I wasn't sure that my five year old grandson who get the concept, but he now talks about how being good to others "fills the bucket!"

Wonderfully inspiring book. I enjoy it and so do the kids!

Great book for young kids to learn about being nice to each other!

my son's school was focused on this concept, bucket-filling, so we supplemented with books like these and I liked this book as well as 1-2 others, such a great idea for kids to focus on

Fantastic book

My daughter is 6 and at THAT stage where I'm not so sure if she is going to be menstruating early or if this is normal behavior for kids this age. You know, testing the waters and limits. This book was able to put a visual on emotions and how her actions make other people feel and why when she makes them feel bad, she feels bad. This book is good for any age though!

I am a school counselor. I used this book with my students as well as my own kids. There are many uses for this book. I would recommend this book to educators and families.

Great book with great message

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

Got a kid that's up and down? This book and the story behind it helps. Whenever your child needs a boost, remind them on the story and the messaging behind the story. My son definitely connected to the ideas behind it and the reasons why he needed to "keep his bucket full" and never let anyone else empty it for him A good recommended read if you have a child that needs it!

Amazing book for children to recognize their worth and how to treat others.

I teach first grade. I used this book for a positive behavior reinforcement. It's a wonderful book with some good lessons on why you should always be a bucket filler and please the people around you! There are also some wonderful resources on line to use with the book as positive behavior reward.

I think this will be a good edition to Have you Filled Your Bucket today. I can't wait to read it to my students and see what they think of it :)

Came as promised... Brand new. Also this story is great for setting behavior expectations!!!

Someone suggested this book to me and I had to go out and get it. It's a great way to encourage kindness and thinking of others.

My son with Autism loves the Bucket Filling series, and this book is pretty much the 'introduction' to the concept. It takes the generally abstract concepts of kindness and 'treating others as you'd like to be treated' and provides an extremely tangible, relatable metaphor. Because my son has had to (and still does have to) work hard to learn and understand basic social interaction - and is always expanding his understanding of empathy and social cues - the Bucket Filling series gives him an opportunity, through story telling, to actually, literally 'see' how treating other people impacts that person's feelings and moods. This book is his favorite of the series. I think it acts very well as a 'social story,' because it walks a little boy through the first day that he notices the buckets. The story takes him through a full day at school, and it shares several realistic situations in which kids and adults fill one-another's buckets (are kind to one another), and situations in which someone dips from another person's bucket (is mean to someone). It also perfectly exemplifies how being kind to another person fills that person's bucket (makes them happy), but also fills your OWN bucket (makes you feel good); and, similarly, how dipping in to another person's bucket (being mean to them) also dips from your own bucket (makes you feel bad/cranky/upset), too.

They are still talking about filling buckets and being bucket dippers, three weeks later!

Great. My 3 year old likes to read this often, I was very surprised how much he liked it.

It's the book my kindergarden son more quotes and wants to read. I love it and I read for him every night!

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

This book helps kids understand what it means to help others by being kind and thoughtful.

Recommend reading it to ALL children!

great product and price

I love to read this book with my daughter and give it as a gift for her friends.

Great book to help show character

Great at teaching children the impact their mood and thoughts have on their day!

I've used this with ESE students to teach social skills. It is a very entertaining book and a gentle way of explaining how words and actions can hurt or help others.

This book is amazing! I love the story, illustrations and moral.

We are planning some upcoming activities for our school teaching the school's character traits. This book goes along great with the character traits!

Love it, though it may takes a few more years for my children to understand it.

This book is based on the premise that each of us has an imaginary bucket that can be filled or emptied by the behavior or actions of the people around us. The message is that we should all strive to act in ways that fill another person's bucket, as opposed to emptying his/her bucket. BUT...on the flip side, the book also shows the effects of behavior on people, and I wish it had another message, like "Even if someone does something that would empty your bucket, don't let them empty your bucket!" Shouldn't we teach children how to not get affected by the behavior around them, whether positive or negative? In other words, if we can teach our children to not become dependent on praise or internalize negative behavior, they'll be well-balanced individuals. You can't control what other people do. Everyone would have to read this book and follow the positive behavior recommended by the book. Well, kid, that's not how the world works. How about teaching our children that their happiness is dependent on themselves - doing the "right thing", making socially beneficial choices, taking good care of their mental and physical health, enjoying every little aspect of life, including the downturns, which is part of being alive! - how about that? Luckily, I read the book before reading it to my 4 year old. I think the author has good intentions, but I don't agree with his one-sided approach. I wish there was a book that addressed treating other people kindly, but also not getting affected by another person's actions.

I didn't notice the author was different than the original Fill a Bucket books and this is a total knock off. The story doesn't flow or explain the idea of bucket filling in an enjoyable or impactful day. It just has stuff happening to a kid and the word drip or drop next to each bucket at the event. It is the last few pages were it even aorta explains the idea of bucket filling Super bummed, because it wasn't a cheap book. Definitely not worth the money or the space on a bookshelf

Ever since the purchase of this book we reference it on a daily basis. We have a VERY strong willed, and independent 4.5 year old. I wasn’t sure how much of the book he would understand but my gosh he does! We talk about filling others buckets in school, family etc. and just this past week he said something to me, stopped and said “is that bucket dipping” (he was saying a few mean things). I said yes, talked about it and he apologized. GASP. My 4.5 year old recognized and apologized for his behavior. Now, that was one instance and we have a long way to go but we are laying a foundation. It’s amazing.

This book was different from what I expected because I thought this was like Tom's other book that I had just purchased (The Rechargeables), but it is so much more. It is about how negative experiences take from your bucket and positive experiences fill them up. When my 7 year old son read this we now talk about his day in terms of how full is his bucket. What things took away (negative experiences) from his day and what things (positive experiences) added to his day.

I like the concept and I ordered two or three bucket filler type books for my child. But I personally did not like this one. It might be okay for older children vs younger. I thought the first few situations presented actually might teach her ways to be unkind and rude - name calling etc. I did like a different bucket filler book that had a more positive take on things.

Speaks to all ages. The story explains how people’s feelings can be affected by others and how we can either help or hurt. We try to read this book as a family and has made it easy to diffuse sibling fights. All I have to do is ask if the action or words are “bucket filling”. It also helps to illustrate that sometimes people just having a bad day.

I ordered this to help teach my classroom about being kind and helpful. We have now created a kindness tree and add hearts when someone is caught being kind. I tried the bucket, but I had children not understanding the bucket. One even said "I don't have a bucket." I tried to explain its an imaginary bucket. The tree works great.

We bought this book because my daughter's VPK teacher sent it home with each student to read and then return. We read it the night we got it from her and then again the next morning. It is a must have for every family with such an amazing message of truth that we all should remember.

I can't say enough good things about this book. There isn't a single story that has resonated more with my preschool and first grade aged boys. It has given them the perfect way to describe how they are feeling, and also how their behavior affects others. The visual of the bucket has been invaluable in their understanding of relating to other people. Every kid should read this book before going to school!

One of our teachers has this as a way to reward students when they have followed the rules. They get to put a cotton (colored) ball in their little metal buckets that each one has on their desk. I love the book as it talks about what you can do, why is it important to be good and do good things.

I love this book! I use it in my 3rd grade classroom! After reading this at the beginning of the year, my students are constantly trying to fill my bucket as well as each others'! :)

Excellent book for children's self esteem or bullying issues. Even my 6 year old understood the concepts.

Very well done and understandable book. Thought this was great!

Use for work/ culture change initiatives in adult work place.

Enjoyed it but wish it referenced more regarding the moral reason behind the analogy.

Everything was as they said it would be

Such a great book and wonderful lesson for kiddos.

This is a great story to share w/ kids of all ages- goes great w/ the adult version, too. Great as a gift. :)

I love this book! I am a Licensed School Social Worker and I use it for Social Skills Training.