Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner: The Transforming Power of God's Story

Paperback – February 1, 2009
208
English
0802414966
9780802414960
31 Jan
One week after Wendy Blight’s college graduation, she walked into her apartment to find a masked man holding a knife and waiting for her at the top of the stairs. The man spent an hour physically and sexually assaulting Wendy, leaving her changed forever. After this terrifying experience, she lived for years cocooned in a prison of fear, despair, and hopelessness. Finally, after years of searching and believing she had nowhere else to turn, she fell on her knees before God and poured out her tears, anger, and questions to Him. Wendy’s story is one of transformation from trauma to rebirth through the power of the Word of God.

Through Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner, the reader will experience hope and the encouragement necessary to press forward to healing and restoration.

Reviews (72)

I recommend both books

God used this book to draw me back into fellowship with him. Wendy's story, the scripture she used and her words of healing grabbed my heart and attention. I'm forever grateful for Wendy's faithfulness to tell her story. I'm reading her book "I am loved" at the moment...I recommend both books! Wendy has other books and I want to read each one because it seems God uses her to speak to my heart.

Really good book I’ve gotten allot out of this one!

Really good book! It gives me practice things I can try when things are very upsetting to me. The first chapter is challenging to get through emotionally. But it sets the stage for all the other chapters, because she refers back to it allot. She also gives practice ideas to handle just about anything! This is a book I know I will read over and over! She gives scriptures that will stay with me forever so I too can use it. No matter what your going through, this book will give you practice things to do and make your problem seem not so bad. I recommend this very highly! It’s hard to stop reading it and put it down. Enjoy it! 👍👏

Must read for abuse survivors

As an abuse survivor, i found this book very helpful. When darkness enters your life, you desperately seek to understand. Understanding isn't always possible but purpose and gory to God is. Wendy comes alongside you and walks you through the process God took her through to help you find healing, hope, purpose, and the God who stands with you through it all. Highly recommend!

her faith and her love for God

Absolutely one of the most encouraging books. Heartbreaking and Heartwarming. A courageous woman who shares candidly about her fears, her faith and her love for God.

Hidden Joy

What I liked most about this book is the refreshing truth Wendy offers as she explains what she went through and how it effects the life she now chooses to live. We all have skeletons in our closets...how we use them in growth and relationship determines how we see our own faith, and can truly impact the lives of others around us.

Highly recommend to those who are searching for a new way of living

This book has been really good so far. I am using it in an online bible study and it has truly opened my eyes to some things. If you are looking for an easy to understand, down to earth book on being joyful during trials and tribulations, this is the perfect book.

Excellant book

I have really enjoyed Wendy Blight and her study "I Am Loved" so when I saw this study through P31 Ministries, I had to join. I cannot say enough about this book. Well written and helpful to anyone that has gone through life's struggles. I even bought it for a friend after reading it. So very good. A keeper for sure.

Beautiful Story of Healing

I needed this book more than I realized. I am so grateful that Wendy has shared her testimony of God’s work in her life. She is vulnerable and the book reads as if you are sitting across from a dear friend having a conversation. I would highly recommend this book for those who are/have experienced pain and hurt in their lives and who are wrestling with feelings of anger, confusion, and sadness.

Good Read

I read this book during my one week vacation. It was a quick & easy read. She did a great job expressing her story & showing her vulnerability & God's sovereign power in your life on her road to healing. There are study questions in the back, so this book could be easily done a a several week long study or for a book club if you didn't want to read it by yourself. Also, Wendy is a part of Proverbs31 Ministries, so you know that she is solid.

Love Wendy's openness and vulnerability

This book was amazing to read during a time that I had been struggling with some sexual assaults that had happened to myself over a decade ago. Even while reading I could feel Satan whispering "See you don't have it as bad as she did" but through this book, counseling, my supportive husband and church, and most importantly through God's precious word I am at a place where true healing has begun. It's a long road still but I'm just so thankful to have read this when I did. I know the Lord used it in a mighty way in my life. And to read about Wendy's passion for Gods word and prayer has ignited the same for me. I highly recommend this book!

I recommend both books

God used this book to draw me back into fellowship with him. Wendy's story, the scripture she used and her words of healing grabbed my heart and attention. I'm forever grateful for Wendy's faithfulness to tell her story. I'm reading her book "I am loved" at the moment...I recommend both books! Wendy has other books and I want to read each one because it seems God uses her to speak to my heart.

Really good book I’ve gotten allot out of this one!

Really good book! It gives me practice things I can try when things are very upsetting to me. The first chapter is challenging to get through emotionally. But it sets the stage for all the other chapters, because she refers back to it allot. She also gives practice ideas to handle just about anything! This is a book I know I will read over and over! She gives scriptures that will stay with me forever so I too can use it. No matter what your going through, this book will give you practice things to do and make your problem seem not so bad. I recommend this very highly! It’s hard to stop reading it and put it down. Enjoy it! 👍👏

Must read for abuse survivors

As an abuse survivor, i found this book very helpful. When darkness enters your life, you desperately seek to understand. Understanding isn't always possible but purpose and gory to God is. Wendy comes alongside you and walks you through the process God took her through to help you find healing, hope, purpose, and the God who stands with you through it all. Highly recommend!

her faith and her love for God

Absolutely one of the most encouraging books. Heartbreaking and Heartwarming. A courageous woman who shares candidly about her fears, her faith and her love for God.

Hidden Joy

What I liked most about this book is the refreshing truth Wendy offers as she explains what she went through and how it effects the life she now chooses to live. We all have skeletons in our closets...how we use them in growth and relationship determines how we see our own faith, and can truly impact the lives of others around us.

Highly recommend to those who are searching for a new way of living

This book has been really good so far. I am using it in an online bible study and it has truly opened my eyes to some things. If you are looking for an easy to understand, down to earth book on being joyful during trials and tribulations, this is the perfect book.

Excellant book

I have really enjoyed Wendy Blight and her study "I Am Loved" so when I saw this study through P31 Ministries, I had to join. I cannot say enough about this book. Well written and helpful to anyone that has gone through life's struggles. I even bought it for a friend after reading it. So very good. A keeper for sure.

Beautiful Story of Healing

I needed this book more than I realized. I am so grateful that Wendy has shared her testimony of God’s work in her life. She is vulnerable and the book reads as if you are sitting across from a dear friend having a conversation. I would highly recommend this book for those who are/have experienced pain and hurt in their lives and who are wrestling with feelings of anger, confusion, and sadness.

Good Read

I read this book during my one week vacation. It was a quick & easy read. She did a great job expressing her story & showing her vulnerability & God's sovereign power in your life on her road to healing. There are study questions in the back, so this book could be easily done a a several week long study or for a book club if you didn't want to read it by yourself. Also, Wendy is a part of Proverbs31 Ministries, so you know that she is solid.

Love Wendy's openness and vulnerability

This book was amazing to read during a time that I had been struggling with some sexual assaults that had happened to myself over a decade ago. Even while reading I could feel Satan whispering "See you don't have it as bad as she did" but through this book, counseling, my supportive husband and church, and most importantly through God's precious word I am at a place where true healing has begun. It's a long road still but I'm just so thankful to have read this when I did. I know the Lord used it in a mighty way in my life. And to read about Wendy's passion for Gods word and prayer has ignited the same for me. I highly recommend this book!

Growth in Grace

All of us have had experiences in life that make us question our faith. I didn't have the same experience as the author but I learned much about my own faith walk in reading about hers. You will cry, but also find much joy in knowing Jesus and his love for all of us!

Important

This is a powerful book. Written by Wendy and told from her personal and emotional perspective of one that walked the dark paths of sexual assault and finding healing, light and life from her personal relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the only way to receiving healing and wholeness after the shame and darkness placed upon the victim of sexual assault.

You can smile again

Wendy Blight points out the joy that God offers everyone of His children, even after traumatic events, in a way that is believeable and achievebale.

Great book

The book is great... wanted to know more of wendy's story.. she's been one of my favorite bible study writers and with first 5. The book came appearing new but the cover was dirty, sticky and had rings from a drink on it.

Honest straightforward truth

I just finished reading this book as part of a Bible study with the Proverbs 31 ministry. I so appreciate Wendy sharing her story and her path to find God. Full of scripture and truth. Stirs a new song in my heart!

Highly recommend this book

Within the first five minutes of reading this book I knew that God had placed it in my hands for a reason. I love the transperancy and realness of this author. I cried through most of the book as I felt that God was speaking to me personally. This book is a must read for any woman who has lost hope, needs encouragement, is suffering, in bondage, or anyone who may be struggling in their spiritual life..

This book is a game changer

I knew by the title and description of this book it was going to be a game changer. I had signed up to do a bible study with Proverbs 31 ministries. When I got the book I read it in 2 days. It helped me a lot with questions I had about why God had allowed my abuse to happen. The story is powerful and how Wendy Blight walks through and works out her rape is incredible.

Amazing book!

Awesome book. Couldnt put it down once I started and I'm not much of a reader. Great scripture reference. Anyone with any kind of stronghold would benefit from this story.

A must read for those hurting

Wendy offers a raw and honest look at what happens when life goes terribly wrong. Using the Bible as her plumb line, she gently reminds the reader where true redemption and wholeness can be found.

Absolutely inspirational

This book is so inspirational. I’m so grateful that the author shared her story. I needed this book.

Extremely interesting and very inspirational!!

I really, really enjoyed this book. It was very encouraging to me to read how the author herself, after going through a horrific tragedy, opened up to God's Word and let Jesus Christ shine his love, blessings, and hope to a woman who thought her future was going to forever be filled with despair and hopelessness. I loved how the woman expressed her feelings in such a true way (she didn't try to sugar-coat any part of how she felt towards the rapist or her own feelings while and after he took advantage of her). I really recommend this book to anyone, not just those who think they'll always be a victim of such an incident, but to all who are going through any trial in which they know they can use some encouragement.

A very good book

I really enjoy this book and recommend it to anyone that loves any reading genre.

Great book

Full of truth from the Bible taking on the journey of healing. I found the story to be easy to read as well as relatable and her process through healing enlightening. I highly recommend to others especially those who’ve been through a traumatic experience.

Excellent story of restoration

Wendy shares about her heart-breaking rape and how God used her journey back to help others. This is a must read for anyone suffering from past abuse or hurt.

You need this book

Every living person will benefit from this book. Would be a wonderful personal gift, but you need to read it first.

Wonderful and inspiring

This book was full of hope and healing. I am Inspired!!! My sister and I read this together . Will keep to read again.

Excellent Book For Struggles

Really great book for dealing with struggles and when you question God.

Read it, it will change your life!

Love it! Awesome! God is all in this book. Wendy is very easy to understand and read. Thank you for sharing your story. Though I didn't have the same story as you I could very easily apply it my situation.

Amazing insight into how the Word of God can set ...

Transparent and moving account of one woman's journey from fear to faith. Amazing insight into how the Word of God can set us free.

encouraging book

Although my experiences were quite different from the author's, who was raped as a college student, this book was such an encouragement to me. I first read this book when I checked it out from the library; but I wanted my own copy and I even purchased another copy for a friend. The author writes as if she is speaking right to the reader, which makes it seem very personal. There is a section at the back of the book for reflection and study which is great for personal or group study. Little did I know that the day I checked this book out from the library, I would experience a difficult situation in my marriage. I don't believe it was an accident that I found this book, and it reminded me to put my trust in God no matter what my circumstances.

Christian woman book

Interesting read for a Christian woman. It didn’t speak to me too deeply, but it would for others

great story of triumph of faith over fear

Rape victim story that shows how God can help heal through His word and others prayers and suggestions. Fleshed out her other book Living so that, a Bible study that resulted from her amazing growth with God. I did the Bible study on Prov 31 online.

Heartfelt writing with an honesty like no other

Wendy shares from her heart like no other author has ever done. Her desire for you to see God at work in her life exceeds anything else.

Powerful book

I haven't even finished this book yet, but I have already learned so much. I've never been this drawn into a book that quotes so much scripture. She definitely has a gift for pulling it all together. She gives us an understanding of God's character and will for us in this world that can have so many highs and lows and more evil than we as humans can comprehend on our own. I will be recommending this book to others.

Great product, great author!

This product came just as it said! Fresh and brand-new. The book itself was a transformative and beautiful story. 10/10 would recommend! :)

Life changing...

I bought this book after hearing about on the radio... I bought it for a friend who had been a victim of sexual assault when she was younger. She tells me I'm her angel for this book changed her life... She highly recommends it...she's passing it on to her daughter who is struggling with the same issues..

Forgiveness

This book was amazing to read. If you allow yourself to really read it you find the tools needed to let go of stuff in your life and walk towards forgiveness and happiness. Many scripture readings to back up the reasons to forgive, but mostly it a gift to yourself to move on.

Amazing.

Amazing book. I advise to use along with study guide.

Fabulous, inspiring bible study

Wonderful bible study book.

great lessons to learn for any woman

Powerful true story, great lessons to learn for any woman!

Amazing

I totally recommend this book. In her book Wendy shares a moment in her life that changed her forever. She, also shares how God has brought her through that moment to victory....

A MUST read!

This book is POWERFUL!!! This book is RELEVANT!! This book is GOD-Inspired! This book is hands down a MUST read!

Five Stars

awesome

must read!!!

Love this book....very helpful!!! Changes lives...thank you so much for sharing your redemption story, Wendy! I pray that whoever reads this books it helps and encourages!!

thought provoking

The book arrived in perfect condition and very fast. It is a book that has helped me very much and it is a good book to put with my own book, "On Wings Of Eagles." Thank you

Three Stars

Okay.

Love this book to step into freedom and victory with God's power!

While Wendy’s story is not exactly mine, the shame, fear, and self-imposed emotional Prison is the same. I had to skip over Wendy's story as it was too much of a trigger for me, and I also sought other books on the power of prayer to help me overcome my chains in life. My past sexual abuse was affecting my marriage greatly. Just as Wendy says in her book though, it’s a process. It’s months, years, of God revealing Himself and bringing new levels of understanding and healing. His ways are not our ways. It’s been a year since I stepped out of my fear prison, got off my mat ready to be well, and I am now reading all these words by Wendy with “YES! Me too!” And celebrating what God has done in Wendy’s life and mine...and so many others. I was able to meet Wendy a few times as our paths have crossed, her spirit is so sweet and caring. Not a hint of fear, but radiates God's peace. Her writing and passionate prayers are full of life and God’s truth. Highly recommend this book! Maybe your story isn’t like Wendy’s, but it has practical application for anyone who struggles with fear, depression, anxiety, illness, addiction...anything that holds you back in life. She helps you know God’s character and how to keep your eyes on HIM!

Warning: Trigger in 1st chapter - I recommend starting with chapter 2

I so wish I could give this book 4 stars. But the first chapter is something I cannot recommend to anyone. My recommendation? Skip the first chapter. I know she says that it's necessary to see how low she was to see what a great work God did when He brought her out of it. But it was way too much for my vivid imagination. I felt like I was vicariously living through her rape. And I can't imagine how much that first chapter would trigger those who have gone through something similar. So I think it's very plausible to start with Chapter Two. As to the rest, it was great! The paragraphs can get a little long and unbroken, not surprising for a book published in 2009. But the content is insightful and helpful, mostly. I really enjoyed digging deep into several passages of Scripture, particularly the stories of the lame man on the mat and the sisters Mary and Martha. I also appreciated most of the discussion questions, the Guide for Reflection and Study. Favorite quotes: “When I finished reading [John 5-6-9], Pastor Craig looked deep into my eyes and asked, 'Wendy, do you want to get well?' This time, although I thought it, I restrained from repeating what a stupid question. I responded with what I believed to be my honest answer. 'Of course I want to get well.' He gently said, 'I really don't think that you do.'” (I received this book for free. The decision to write a review, as well as the opinions expressed in it, are all my own. I was not compensated for this review.)

God is always working

Wow! God really used Wendy’s book and her story to work in my heart! I have learned more of who God is and how wonderful He is! If you have experienced pain, hurt, and devastation in your life, I highly recommend reading Wendy’s story and how God showed Himself to her! He is faithful and can work in any situation. Praise God for His restoration!

Leaning in

Learning to trust again when something bad happens is the key to this book. God is the one thing that we can always rely on and learning to give everything to Him help us to make it through anything that this world may throw at us.

Tragic Pain ~ Tremendous Healing

"There was a time when a rape victim defined my life and left me physically void, cocooned in a prison of fear. It stole my every hope and dream. But God's love and His Word set my heart free. I learned that within the confines of God's story, nothing had been stolen from me, rather everything was given to me. My life, which felt so out of control, was in reality in complete control - God's control." ~ Wendy Blight Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner: The Transforming Power of God's Story Hidden JoyHidden Joy in a Dark Corner: The Transforming Power of God's Story, by Wendy Blight, is the personal story of a tragic dark hour in her life that caused great pain, I cannot imagine, nor do I want to. One week after Wendy's college graduation she was violently raped and assualted in her apartment. She asks the many questions we all do when going through the valleys of life, "Where was God?" and "Why did God allow this?" For many years she lived in her own prison of fear, dispair and hopelessness. Even after she was married and had children, she did not want to be left alone, always making arrangments to go somewhere or have someone stay with her. "Satan took every opportunity to return me to a place of vulnerability and weakness. He knew fear paralyzed me and left me ineffective as a wife, as a mother, and as a friend. Even more significant and more pleasing to him, I was ineffective to God." I don't know the fear of such violence and being alone. But I know the fear of letting children drive away in their car (or worse yet, a motorcycle), going away to camp, or to college. What if a deer runs in front of him? What if "games" are played at camp that took my son's life? What if my daughter who is on coumadin gets hit in the head by a volleyball? What if . . . and Satan continues to tear away my (our) joys and those around us. Wendy shares her testimony of forgiveness, healing and major transforming by grace because of the power of God and His Word. She does not want the focus to be "rape" but what God can do with the dark corners in your life and how you can find your hidden joy. "I want desperately for you to believe that God has a redemptive plan for your life and that no one and nothing can take that from you. No circumstance is too difficult and no choice too reprehensible, and no pain too deep for God to redeem. Before my rape occurred, God had set into motion His plan to heal and restore my broken heart. His only requirement was that I take the first step. I had to surrender my brokenness, my sorrow, my anger, and my pain and place it fully in His hands. When I took that step and sought Him for my answers, His redemptive plan immediately began to play out in my life." In the back of this 206 page book is a "Guide for Reflection and Study" which would be ideal for group studies. From Chapter One, "Valley of Weeping" here is the first question for thought . . . 1. Do you currently have a loss, a hurt or trial that is burdening your heart? a. How does this burden currently affect your life? b. Have you tried to deal with this issue through means other than God?" The author also has a blog and has an on line group going through her book and sharing about the questions in this section. I invite you to read Hidden Joy in a Dark Corner. It's one of those books you might want to purchase a couple of - to give away and/or to have on hand. It should be in your local library and church library. Give one to your local rape crisis center. It's a must read book.

A Life Changing Book

I learned about this book from an online Bible Study group and I am very glad that I joined and bought this book to read. Wendy's story is a wonderful and inspiring story! Wendy lays it all out for us to read and with every page and every emotion she describes it is easy to relate to her situation. Wendy uses Bible verses and wonderful life stories to show us how we can have a wonderful relationship with God, no matter what our past may hold. This book is wonderfully written and the reflection questions for each chapter really make you stop and think about your relationship with God. This book changed my life and truly brought me closer to God! Thank you Wendy for the courage to write your story to help others!

Great read for anyone!

After being raped in college, Wendy struggles with fears, doubts, insecurities, and anxiety. Hidden Joy is the story of her journey through the valley to find that God had a plan for her pain - He intended to use it for good. While the beginning of the book has some intensely personal and sometimes hard to read sections, I found this book to be filled with Scripture and an incredible amount of hope. Because of her journaling habit, Wendy was able to walk us through her process of finding healing and show us how God was speaking to her through his Word. Her practical chapters on quiet times, prayer and abiding in Christ can apply to every Christian, not just those who have suffered some form of abuse.

Highly Recommend!

Inspiring story of redemption. Highly recommend all books by Wendy Blight!

A Beautiful Read on the Transforming Power of God's Word in Dealing with Trauma

"I hesitated, then spoke three words I never thought I would utter----'I was raped.'" Wendy Blight Wendy's story is a must read for anyone seeking healing from past wounds. Learn how she has been set free from fear through the power of prayer, and actively abiding in Christ through the in-depth study of His Word.

A must read

Wow! This book is a must read. Wendy's story tells how God's Word can transform your heart, mind and spirit. Whether you are in a dark corner or not, this book helps answer tough questions about who God is and how we can know him more intimately. I am encouraged by Wendy's journey of faith, especially that it didn't happen overnight. By continuing to seek God in scripture over many years, He continued to reveal Himself to her. And her story shows that the more God reveals Himself, the easier it is to trust Him...to not just believe in God but believe God.

Beautiful

Thought I have just begun reading this book, I have found so many positive qualities. I cannot relate to her story, but this book has allowed me to take simple Scriptural principals and apply them to my own "demons in the closet." I find myself reading this very slowly because I want to stop and meditate on every Scriptural reference provided. Thank you for telling your story, so that I can help heal through mine.

Hidden Joy

This book is so powerful. Wendy weaves God's lessons into her story of overcoming many of the strongholds that most of us can relate to in our own lives. Whether you are searching for answers for yourself, a loved one, someone that you know that has been a victim of crime or tragedy, or even someone that you know that has committed a violent crime, this book would be a great resource. It is written in such a way that you can't put it down until you have finished it!

Surrendering to God's Purpose

Wendy takes you on a journey from tragedy to triumph. It is a beautiful illustration of how only God can take something so painful and horrific and turn it into something that would be used for His glory. Wendy's story is one that we can all identify with when tragedy strikes. She asked the questions, "Where was God?", "Why did He allow this to happen?" We can feel the emotions that Wendy struggled with throughout this journey. She shares how returning over and over again to God's Word brought her healing. It is a story of God's transforming power.

Michele Harmon

A must read! Wendy's story is so beautifully woven with truth and grace. This book shows intimately how totally dependant we are on God. I can not wait to dig deeper into the scriptures through the study guide that is given in the back of the book. Her journey is so inspiring. I can't imagine not being a better person because of this book.

This book makes it easy to see the Bible as a living document

As a busy mom I have been a "Bible study dropout." I have not been able to complete the homework required of most Bible studies. I mean to get to sunday school, but sports or being up all night with my son's asthma gets in the way. This book allowed me to feel the power of God, prayer, and His word at my own pace.

I'm doing the Bible study with this book

Ordered the Kindle version since the paperback copy was sold out! I thought it was a very good book. I'll probably recommend it to a few friends. I ended up ordering the paperback book from P31 ministries, so I can do the Bible study. I loaned the book to someone when I got it, since I read the Kindle version quickly.

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