Held: 31 Biblical Reflections on God's Comfort and Care in the Sorrow of Miscarriage

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

This is THE BOOK for those recovering from miscarriage! FINALLY, a good, faith-based book to help us navigate grief in a Biblical way. In the toxic “just be positive” culture, Christians are often shut down in their grief and find they can’t turn to the church for proper Biblical counsel because we’re told to “just have joy because a God is good.” While that is true (God IS good), it’s unhelpful to the grieving mother and sets up a wall to where she doesn’t feel safe turning to her church in grief. This book is what is needed! Don’t know what to say to a friend who has lost a baby? Say no more and order this book. I’ve lost 5 babies and can’t recommend this more!

Held is an incredibly special and comforting book. I wish I had it 5 years ago when I experienced a miscarriage. Even now, so much of it resonated with me and how I remember feeling at the time. What I love most about the book is how it's solidly rooted in the Bible. It's a consistent reminder of who God is and the hope we have in Him. I also appreciated reading the personal stories that were weaved throughout the book. Those stories reminded me that everyone’s experience is unique, but God sees us and knows exactly what we’re feeling and going through. I would recommend this book to anyone who has experienced a miscarriage or pregnancy loss. It’s also a great resource for loved ones who would like to have a better understanding of how they can provide support and encouragement.

Abbey puts into words what I had no idea how to explain. We suffered a miscarriage recently and I had been following Abbey on Instagram. I had seen her talk about her book, and decided I would check it out. I highly recommend this book for anyone going through the unthinkable. Abbey does a phenomenal job of pulling in (unexpected) scripture to remind women that they are NOT alone-God heard them, God sees them, He is there, and He is good. Thank you, Abbey, for helping me through the hardest time.

Held is both theologically sound, and deeply personal. Often times it is hard to find both of these elements in a book but Abbey does it well. Making the reader feel seen, Abbey talks about the realities of miscarriage and has other women share their experiences within the book. She does not sweep anything under the rug or sugarcoat the realities of the pain of miscarriage and she consistently affirms the value of life within the womb. The text works through Psalm 139 - reminding the reader that however grievous the situation may be, that Christ is near to the brokenhearted; He is with them in each moment of sorrow, He meets us where we are, and He will never leave us. While reading this book, you will feel reminded of biblical truths, loved by your creator, and seen and understood by women who have been through similar situations of loss. I cannot recommend this book enough as a tool for those not only who have been through / are actively going through miscarriage, but for those who know someone who has gone / is going through miscarriage. Beautifully written, and deeply encouraging book. Well done, Abbey.

Held is such a gift to the woman walking through the loss of miscarriage. Abbey writes of her own experience with with vulnerability and care, and puts into words what I've so often felt on my own journey with loss. The Gospel is clear throughout each day's content and Abbey continually points to Jesus and the hope we have in him. (But she goes so far beyond simply throwing verses at the pain of miscarriage and wishing readers well.) There are opportunities to respond and reflect at the end of each day's reading, and it gives readers a chance to work through and process their grief. In the time since its release I've purchased two copies of the book and immediately handed each one to a friend walking through loss. What a neat thing to be able to hand a woman a book in confidence that it WILL encourage her heart.

I cannot say how grateful I am for this resource that released just a couple of weeks after my husband and I had a miscarriage with out first child. I would recommend this to anyone who has been affected by a miscarriage in any way or to someone looking to learn more about how miscarriage affects those who go through it. Abby goes through Psalm 139 and talks about different aspects of God's character than can be especially hopeful when experiencing the pain of miscarriage. She also speaks to the importance of letting ourselves feel the wave of emotions by asking prompting questions. I am still working my way through the book, but I am truly grateful for how the Lord is using it to draw me nearer to Him during this time. I have already had the chance to share the book with someone else going through the pain of miscarriage and I plan to keep an extra one on hand. If you have been through this or know someone who has, please check out this book!

This book takes an extremely personal experience and points you in a loving and kind way, toward an extremely personal God. It is full of truth and helps shed insight into a topic that is hard to articulate or often hidden in the hearts of those who are currently, or have in the past, experienced miscarriage. It is an excellent resource to learn how to encourage and love those who may be grieving, as a friend, spouse, or family member, if you haven't experienced loss through miscarriage yourself. So thankful for this book and how it shows that God can take pain, hurt and grief and use it to guide our hearts towards true comfort, which is in Himself alone. So thankful for this book and I love that it gives you small daily doses of words that are exploding with truth to help process loss in an extremely challenging time.

This devotional is the best gift to you or a loved one who is experiencing miscarriage. It navigates the early stages of grief beautifully while always pointing you back to the gospel and the character of God. Abbey somehow takes all of the jumbled, ugly, confused thoughts you may be having and writes them down succinctly and eloquently. Buy the book, start your healing.

Abbey’s writing has been a blessing to me for several years as I’ve followed her on Instagram. When my husband and I lost our first child to miscarriage earlier this year her writing became even more near and dear to me. This book and the accompanying podcast have been a huge encouragement to my heart. Abbey is like a trustworthy friend or older sister, taking you by the hand and walking with you through your grief. As someone who is currently walking through healing after miscarriage I can personally say that her words have been extremely helpful in meeting me where I’m at and pointing me to my Father for the hope and healing I need.

The best Christian resource I’ve come across for women experiencing the grief of pregnancy loss. This book takes the reader through Psalm 139 and addresses so many of the questions grieving mothers ask, think, or wonder to themselves about God when they are in the midst of such loss. Abbey points the reader to the Word to find the gentle, loving, and wise Savior who empathizes with our loss and truly sees. I have felt encouraged each day of this devotional to lament the death of our children, while also remembering the character of God. I can’t recommend it enough. I plan to order another copy to give away as needed.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

November 3 will mark nine years since we lost our daughter, Zoe. This is a book I didn’t realize I needed. Abbey has a true gift with words...she voices things straight from my heart. I loved how she’s not afraid to say hard things, like having another baby won’t solve your problems, but she also speaks with great love and compassion. Her desire for bereaved mommas to lean into Jesus is evident! I loved how she weaved in other womens’ stories without distracting from the main aim of the study of Psalm 139. I will be buying many copies for friends!!

"Held" is compassionate and honest. You won't find fluffy sentimental statements. Your pain won't be minimized, as miscarriage often is. "Held" leans into the reality that miscarriage is a deep and often lonely grief. It matters to you, and it matters to God. By walking the reader through Psalm 139 (and suggesting other passages), Abbey reminds the reader that God's love both big and near enough to be trusted with your heartbreak. The goal of these devotionals is not to make sense of your loss or find meaning in it (which is probably not possible for a grieving mom), but to focus on what is true about God in midst of this deeply personal grief.

After my miscarriage I was floating, and this book was extremely helpful to ground me again. I’m not very religious, but Abbey was so good about taking scripture and explaining it in a way that made sense that now I feel like I am closer to God and want to continue to be close with him. I can’t describe how this book gave me peace, despite hurting as I worked my way through it. Definitely recommend for anyone grieving after pregnancy loss.

Abbey's articulation of the gospel and words of comfort/encouragement have been a balm to my soul during our two losses. Written like a sister sitting beside you weeping and journeying with you, she writes with compassion, gentleness, and love, while the other testimonials of miscarriage were a gift that left me feeling surrounded by people who understood. A true kindness from the Lord to hold this resource.

After recently losing our first baby at 11 weeks to miscarriage, this book couldn't have been more timely for my aching heart. Though I have been in community and church for numerous years, I have never heard miscarriage talked about- nor did I know how common and difficult it was. This book has given me words when I felt I didn't have them, but most importantly, this book pointed me to the truths of our God and the scripture to meditate on. I have recommended this to several friends, and have purchased for others as well. Such a ministry to my heart- thank you!

I am deeply grateful that this resource exists. After losing a baby to miscarriage last year, reading through these testimonies brought a balm to my soul. I also found that the grief of the women who contributed to this book resonated with other grief and loss I have experienced in my life in addition to losing a baby in the womb. For anyone who has walked the painful and lonely road of miscarriage, and for those wanting to better understand and love others in this category, I heartily recommend this book.

I can’t say enough good things about this book! I wish this was available when I was grieving the loss of our baby two years ago, but I am so thankful I have something to gift women experiencing loss in the womb now. A resource like this that points you to the One who created life is vital to properly grieve. I highly recommend reading this book even if you have never personally experienced miscarriage. It will help open your eyes to how you can encourage a friend going through loss.

I will purchase this book again and again. It helped me process my grief from my miscarriage two years earlier. I wish I never had to buy another copy, but I’m glad it’s available for when my friends and family need it.

I lost my baby to miscarriage a few years ago, and I wish I had a book like this to remind me of God's comfort and care during some of my darkest days. I've already given away two copies to sisters in Christ who have lost their babies this year. Filled with biblical truth and tender testimonies, it's a great book to keep tucked away for a grieving friend.

As I come up to one year since my miscarriage, this book has been exactly what I needed. Held is filled with God's word and has been a comfort to me. While losing a child in the womb is such a personal and private grief, this book offers the biblical hope that I needed as I think about the pain of the loss and how God works through that pain. Each devotion concludes with verses and space to journal thought and prayers. I am deeply grateful for this special book.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

I can’t recommend this devotional + journal enough if you’re mourning a lost little one who was unseen by the world but known by you and formed by God. The entries by Abbey and other authors remind you that your grief and loss are unique but you are not alone in having questions, struggling with shame, and wondering if the pain will ever end. There is hope in the presence and power of Jesus, and this is an excellent resource for turning your hurting heart and tearful eyes towards Him.

Such a deeply needed resource. Abbey’s writing has such a tender personal touch while remaining concretely grounded in biblical and theological truth. It feels like a best friend seeing your pain, affirming your feelings of loss, and then ultimately, gently, pointing you the Lord who sees, cares, and heals. I’m so grateful to have this on the shelf to offer to friends walking this tough road. I wish it had been available to me years ago.

Loved how this touches on all those internal struggles - like wrestling with the phrase “should be” versus “would be,” - that I didn’t think other people wrestled with. After our first loss last year, I was searching for something to remind me of truth while I was struggling with moving forward after our loss. I intend to get another copy to have on hand for others walking this same path.

Excellent, excellent, excellent!!!! Every Christian woman should have this book in her library. It is so good for every believer because it applies, in many ways, to EVERY kind of loss. Abbey writes in the reflection for Day 22: “...Our miscarriage forced me to develop a theology of suffering and to learn to see God’s goodness within it.”

I can’t recommend this book enough. What a ministry to be able to offer this to a friend who is grieving. The gospel truths in the book blessed me so greatly, and I have a few extra copies on my shelf to have ready for share when I hear of a loss. Thank you Abbey for this resource!!

This devotional is such a great resource for someone who just had a miscarriage or someone who had one years ago. Reading through the book, it gave me encouragement even years after a miscarriage. God has great plans for this amazing book. It is a Devotional that is wonderful to have on hand to share.

This book is an excellent resource for people who are suffering. Although written specifically for women going through the loss of a baby, it speaks of God’s comfort and care for us and challenges its readers to seek truth .

A very thoughtful and helpful book for not only those facing miscarriage, but for those who around them.

This book could not have been written and released at a more poignant time. We experienced our first miscarriage earlier this spring and this book has offered hope, truth, and companionship in our grief and suffering. I can not recommend it enough to people walking through the grief of miscarriage and looking for the hope Jesus offers us in our suffering.

This book was so helpful in helping me understand the pain many of my friends have walked through during a miscarriage. It gave me so much more compassion, and tools to love them better. Even though I have not personally experienced the pain of miscarriage, the book was totally relatable for a broad biblical understanding of suffering. Highly recommend.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

After our miscarriage I found comfort in Psalm 139, in the sovereignty of God and his kindness. This is a 31-day devotional on Psalm 139. It is an encouragement to me 5 years later and wish I would have had it then. I recommend this book for anyone who has experienced miscarriage or knows someone who has or has experienced any loss at all.

Good gift for any mom going through a hard time.

This book is a treasure for a hurting mama. Abbey uses the truth of Word to be a balm to hurting hearts. Very helpful, encouraging and truth filled — points mamas to Christ our ultimate source of hope and help.

Tender, personal stories come together with God's own heart in these reflections on loss through the lens of Psalm 139. Anyone who picks up this book will soon feel known, loved, and comforted. Abbey brings ministry of the Word to a new level in this honest, yet Biblical resource.

Through her writing, Abbey reminds us that we serve a God who knows us intimately, loves us deeply, and is with us in the midst of our suffering. I would recommend this book to anyone who has lost a child form miscarriage or to support those you love who may be grieving a loss of their own.

What a gift to grieving moms. This devotional is filled with hope, truth, and community. It provides space for moms to be heard, to feel known, and- as the title states- HELD by our Sovereign Creator. This devo will definitely be a gift I share with other moms!

A unique and thoughtful resources for mamas walking the painful and lonely road of miscarriage. These words are sure to be a comfort.

This is a wonderful resource for anyone experiencing loss. Also amazing for those going on this journey with a friend to help understand some of the emotions they are going through.

This book is excellent! It offered Biblical comfort and hope for anyone who has experienced child loss.

This is a fantastic resource for anyone who has suffered pregnancy loss. I wish I had it years ago!

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

This book has been the most healing and comforting to me after my loss. Highly recommend!

This book has been such a comfort during a hard season. I couldn’t recommend it enough.

In this gentle, life-affirming book, Abbey Wedgeworth shares biblical comfort and hope with other mothers who have experienced miscarriage. She designed this book as a devotional, organizing it around Psalm 139 and going through that chapter verse by verse, with personal reflections about how its comforting messages apply to miscarriage. Each day also includes other Scriptures to read, journaling prompts, and a quotation from a different hymn. She also includes testimonies from other Christians who have experienced miscarriage, spacing these stories throughout the book. These personal stories cover a variety of different experiences and life situations, and also include one testimony from a father's perspective. Wedgeworth writes with great sensitivity and empathy, and her theological reflections can help women take hold of what they know to be true in Christ, even when their world is collapsing around them. Because of this book's basis in shared beliefs, it is specifically for Christian women, but it is accessible to women who are at different points in their faith, and does not presume a particular level of background with church or the Bible. She writes clearly and well about spiritual and emotional issues, and explores our beliefs about God through the lens of living as a bereaved mother. This book never falls back on meaningless platitudes, sentimentality, or fluffy inspiration, but helps women wrestle through their pain before God. I appreciate the level of thought and care that went into every element of this book. The devotions are short and simple, remaining accessible no matter a reader's exhaustion or cognitive range at the moment, and a woman can also read the devotions out of order if she wants to, based on whatever topic she most needs at a particular moment. The book is also attractive in its design, with a silky smooth cover, high quality paper, and a lightweight feel that would be perfect for curling up to read this on the couch or in bed. This book reflects the needs of its audience in a unique way, and also provides journaling space for those who want to put their reflections in writing. This book is a gift to Christian woman who are grieving pregnancy loss. This book is incredibly sensitive and reassuring, sending a message of God's compassionate love without resorting to platitudes or dismissing the reality of suffering. I would recommend this to mothers who have lost babies, and to friends, family members, pastors, and counselors who would benefit from the biblical and personal perspectives that it offers. This is a high-quality resource that will help and encourage Christian women right now and in years to come.

For many of my family and friends, miscarriage is a situation that I have often found myself at a loss for words. What can you say to those who have suffered so much? In Held, Abbey Wedgeworth guides us through 31 Biblical reflections on God’s comfort and care in the sorrow of miscarriage. Psalm 139 Centered around Psalm 139, this book of just over 200 pages consists of short chapters from various contributors. Kristie Anyabwile, Courtney Reissig, and Lore Ferguson Wilbert are familiar names. Each author writes with purposeful sensitivity and personal care. Feelings of grief and guilt are acknowledged and apprehended by grace. The chapters consistently point to Christ and the comfort of his words. And the book does not stay in Psalm 139, but shows us other portions of Scripture for support. Reading, Reflecting, and Responding The book reads like a devotional, and each chapter ends with ideas for reading, reflecting, and responding. There is ample space to journal in the margins of the pages. And because this is a hardback book with a built-in ribbon bookmark, you can take it outside and really work through the words. What moved me the most were the personal stories and feelings shared. These women are vulnerable, but their hope in God is strong. It made me think through my own attitudes and actions, and how I need to be more like Jesus in weeping with those who weep. Our Savior and Shepherd There are certain sorrows that I will never understand. But as a husband and father, I want to be prepared to lead my family in the happy as well as the sad times. As a Christian, I want to have the words to give hope to the hopeless. To bind up the brokenhearted. This book is a perfect help, pointing us to the comfort and care of our Savior and Shepherd. He sees. He knows. He understands. And he holds us. I received a media copy of Held and this is my honest review.

After a successful pregnancy with our son, my husband and I had a miscarriage. As you know if you have been through it, it was a hard time for us and a difficult thing to go through. I wondered where God was in all of that. I wish I had had a book like Held by Abbey Wedgeworth when I went through that time in my life. When I went through a miscarriage, I received some comments from well-meaning people that were just sort of fluffy and meaningless platitudes. Wedgeworth shares in the introduction that this book is based on contents that you can cling to, "something steady and unchanging:the character and word of God." She also recommends that readers go through this book at their own pace and read the readings as you are ready. Wedgeworth has included pieces of her story and the stories of other women who have faced similar situations along with the reflections on Scripture. Each chapter includes the personalized reading, Bible verses to read that relate, questions to ask yourself and some thoughts in response to the reading. There is also space to journal your thoughts as you go through the book. At the back of the book, she also includes a list of books that she recommends reading. Held has 31 Biblical Reflections on the sorrow and God's comfort of miscarriage. I think this book would be a meaningful gift for anyone who has gone through a miscarriage or lost a baby. Wedgeworth clearly writes as someone who has been there and understands the sort of comforting words that are helpful. The readings are a good length to reflect on. I think I would rather write in another journal than use the space in this book but there is journaling space for those who would like to use it. There is also an elastic band on the book that could be used as a page marker. I received a copy of this book from The Good Book Company. All opinions within this review are my own.

HELD is a collection of reflections based on Psalm 139 that are to be read as a comfort during the grief of miscarriage. while I’ve not experienced miscarriage myself, I am so thankful to have a resource I can place in the hands of those I love who have experienced miscarriage. this book is filled with Scripture and reminders of who God is, allowing that truth to help us respond to and move through our grief. although I am not the intended audience of this book, I found it to be incredibly helpful for the griefs I have experienced in other loss. there’s a great balance of personal stories and Biblical truth in the book, and it’s clear that Abbey Wedgeworth knows the Bible as she uses the truth of it to both comfort and encourage. other writers contributed their stories of miscarriage to the book, and I think the wide range of personal experiences really helps to make women reading this book feel seen and understood in their grief. if you’ve experienced the sorrow of miscarriage, I highly recommend this book. 5/5⭐️ ▫️ thank you to the publisher TGBC for the gifted copy of this book for me to review!

This book was gifted to me after my pregnancy loss and I am so grateful it was. It has been a tremendous comfort and validation to me as I wrestle with all of the thoughts and emotions through this loss. Lots of Biblical references that are well used and applicable to a myriad of pregnancy loss situations. I first read it through completely in a matter of days and now am re-reading it in the one day at a time style it is written. Both have been beneficial and I will be saving this as a gift/recommendation to pass on to others in similar situations.

If you are experiencing a miscarriage now, have gone through one (or more) in the past, or even if you have had or could possibly have the opportunity to walk alongside someone who is going through this kind of loss, then this book is for you. It is a much needed resource for Christian women who are grieving the loss of life that was never known to others. Even years after the losses of our babies, this book was an encouragement and balm to my soul. Abbey comes alongside in the moment of grief and provides much needed empathy while gently, trustingly and persistently still pointing back to the gospel through every emotion, thought, or feeling you may experience through the grieving process. It’s as if a friend is in the dark hole of grief with you—listening to you, hearing your heart, crying with you—and yet continually pointing you to the Light, the only One who can truly comfort during these moments. Each reflection is short enough to process during such a heavy time but so meaningful and full of encouragement and challenging Scripture. She addresses the many feelings so many of us face and even gives biblical perspective and thoughts as how to handle words that are not fitly spoken or face the friend who is enjoying their healthy pregnancy or newborn baby. The practical approach and the opportunity to reflect and journal at the end of each chapter make this book a journey that you will want to revisit as you see the goodness of God again and again, even years later as you reflect back. I wish I had had something like this from each of our babies. Each journey is unique, and Abbey does a wonderful job of recognizing that no two people walk through the same circumstances, and yet we can all be encouraged and find biblical perspective as we continually look to Christ. It’s a timely read for someone who is experiencing loss now, has gone through loss in the past, or for anyone who desires to walk alongside those who are experiencing this kind of grief. I also greatly appreciate that she addresses something I have been crying out for years—that the church cannot lightly dismiss miscarriage and yet condemn abortion at the same time. Both are grievous losses, and life should be valued, no matter how long it lasted or how it ended. I’m so thankful for this resource and for the journey that Abbey was willing to share in order to minister to others. This is a book I will read again and will share over and over with others. I’m certain it will encourage you and lift your heart and eyes to Christ, our only Hope.

I usually don't usually like devotional books, but my sister bought this for me right after I lost my baby. It's just what I needed. It's easy to read and the chapters aren't very long, but it's packed full of comforting and convicting thoughts. It's so good that when a friend lost her baby about a month after mine, I knew immediately what to send her. I highly recommend this if you or someone you know has faced the pain of miscarriage!

This rich book is a beautiful and palatable companion for the grieving. Abbey is a compassionate and clear writer whose words will gently lift the reader's gaze upward. It's clear that every detail of the book was carefully considered, and I believe women who read this will feel cared for by the tone of the writing, the design, the testimonies, and most of all, the truth the words proclaim. Pastors, ministry leaders, and friends who aren't sure how to meaningfully come alongside someone in their grief over the loss of life in the womb -- this is a must-have. We are planning to keep several on our shelves at home and at church so that they are easily gifted to those who walk this unexpected road.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

This book is a gift- for you if you’ve experienced pregnancy loss or for you to give when someone you love does. Abbey Wedgeworth doesn’t do platitudes- this is real comfort, from God’s Word. She doesn’t tell you how to feel or what to do, just walks through the sorrow and pain with you, pointing you to Jesus who is the source of all comfort and who is with you through this suffering. I highly recommend this book.

In this beyond amazing book, Abbey thoughtfully and carefully puts into words what is difficult to put into words when going through a miscarriage. While tenderly sharing portions of her own story and the complex emotions that she experienced, she beautifully goes back to Scripture over and over again to encourage and reassure the reader of God’s never-ending perfect presence, nearness, faithfulness, sympathy and love. She applies biblical truth to the hard realities of having a miscarriage, and how the beauty of the gospel can soothe the heart of any grieving woman who is going through this or has in the past. The devotionals are short, sweet and rich in truth. If there is any miscarriage resource to have on your shelf, Abbey’s book is a must have!

Excited to finally be able to have a hard copy of this book. It validated some really hard and tricky emotions while simultaneously pointing my heart back to Christ each and every time. I recommend this for any woman looking to seek the Lord while grieving.

At a time when nothing makes sense, Held is there to bring comfort to your grieving heart. We may never know the answers to some of our questions but Held shows us that we are not alone. My husband found it really helpful and comforting as well!

Abbey beautifully highlights Psalm 139 and relates the text to grief and God's good purpose for us all. She writes in a compassionate and truthful way. She encourages us to look heavenward to make sense out of our lives. I bought this as a gift for a friend who recently had a miscarriage and I'm so glad I did. It has a good deal of solid guidance for anyone going through any type of grief.

Such a helpful guide to walk along side the Lord in the hardest season of my life. This devotional has given me a thirst for God’s word and to be wrapped in His presence because of the true words of Holy Scripture that Abbey reminds us of.

This book was exactly what I needed to hear while I was walking through having a miscarriage. This part of my journey felt very lonely and was hard to talk about with people. The book offered me so much comfort and it was if Christ was speaking to my heart. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has gone through a miscarriage!

Someone sent this to me and I am so grateful! It’s a perfect gift to send to someone, when you don’t know what to say or do. It’s perfectly and carefully written with compassion to guide through grief & healing.

Incredible resource! Abbey does a great job of guiding the reader through a Spirit-filled view of such tragic loss. Her words felt so relatable, and the questions in each section were thought-provoking and really allowed me to explore my feelings on our loss. I will absolutely be purchasing this for any women in my life who walk this path.

This book was so important during my grief of miscarriage. It was easy to read and brought me closer to the Lord. So thankful for this resource as I navigate loss in my own life and with the women around me. This is a MUST READ for all women who have experienced miscarriage or know someone who has.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.

Held is a tender and compassionate resource for those who experience pregnancy loss. It is deeply biblical and theologically thoughtful. As a woman in local church ministry, I cannot emphasize the value of having this resource on hand should the need unfortunately arise.

This is a fantastic resources for walking through miscarriage. It puts into words so many of the feelings and doubts that can surround losing a child in the womb and meets them with truth in the Word!

Held was a really helpful book to read in the days and weeks after our loss. It pointed me to Christ , encouraged me to press on and press in, and reminded me that our suffering has a purpose. I would highly recommend this book to friends who has suffered a loss.

This book is one of the most helpful resources that I have had on my journey of healing after miscarriages. It is honest, vulnerable, and filled with truth. It consistently put to words the feelings I was having. Can not recommend it enough.

Great resource for coping with miscarriage loss as well as other personal loss and how god offers comfort and truth in a time of need and sorrow. Has great space for journaling and reflection throughout the book as well.

Experiencing a miscarriage personally, this book helps provide comfort during this troubling time.

This lovely book is a wonderful resource for anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or wants to support those who have. I loved the focus on biblical truth while remaining loving and genital. I’m so thankful this book has been written.

While miscarriages are very common, they are rarely fully processed or discussed. Praise the Lord for Abbey and for this book, which will help so many women know the hope of Christ in the midst of their grief, pain, and loneliness. Abbey writes with humility and compassion, coming alongside a mother experiencing miscarriage and holding space for grief, reminding her of God's grace, care, and comfort, and being a friend in a time of need. The devotionals are just enough at a time, small bites of truth to process, providing opportunity for honest reflection and asking questions that don't just gloss over the loss but really encourage a person to process their feelings and lean into the Lord. I'm also so thankful for the stories from other women (and men!) in the book that helped provide perspective and a reminder that women experiencing miscarriage are not alone. Over and over, I was pointed to the truth of the gospel and to the God who loves our babies and loves us. Don't hesitate to buy this for yourself or for a loved one... It'll be such a help. Well done, Abbey. This is a beautiful, much-needed resource.

I was given the gracious gift of an advanced digital copy of “Held” when I was experiencing my miscarriage in June. It was exactly the book that I needed to read during that extremely difficult season. After finishing the last devotional in “Held” I sent Abbey this message: “I finished reading Held today and I don’t even know if I have the words to explain how amazing and perfect it is! I can’t imagine a book (other than the Bible, of course) that could speak more to me and fill me with more hope, comfort and love during this trial than your book. God has truly worked in a mighty way through you, your story, and your words! That last devotional was just so amazing, the perfect ending to a book packed full of God’s truth! Thank you, Abbey, thank you so much!” “Held” is packed full of truth about God’s promises and character traits and how they provide an abundance of comfort and hope during and after pregnancy loss. I believe this book will help any woman process and grieve with hope through the awful experience of miscarriage. I also think it’s a book that is so valuable for anyone to read in order to gain a little bit of an understanding of miscarriage and the many different emotions and experiences a woman who loses a child goes through. This is the first book I will recommend to any one I know who has to walk the path of miscarriage.

Abbey is a beautiful writer. I love how she uses scripture to remind us of who God is and to encourage healing. She is empathetic and compassionate, I am so thankful for all the women who shared their stories in this book.

I bought this book with my friends who have suffered the pain of a miscarriage in mind. I wanted a resource to share with them as well as to draw from in learning how to comfort them. I was surprised at how often this book spoke into my own pain and suffering (not from miscarriage). It reminded me of how the character of God and the suffering of Christ can be applied to all of our afflictions, no matter how insignificant or all-encompassing they may seem. I loved that most of the chapters ended with a section of scripture readings, reflection questions and responses. It was helpful for me flesh out the content and apply it to my own heart. Overall, this book was very helpful in unpacking the pains that can come with miscarriage and providing a Biblical and hopeful response. It was warm, pastoral, and practical. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has suffered a miscarriage or who wants to support someone else who has.

This book was what I needed to read 10 years ago when I lost our baby. It was such a traumatic, unexpected loss that I felt completely lost at sea. I'm thankful for friends and family who pointed me to God's Word through those months. 'Held' takes those truths from the Bible and gently and lovingly points the reader to real hope, found only in Christ. The short chapters aren't overwhelming or difficult to process but wonderfully suited to someone grieving. The stories of many others who have suffered miscarriage reminded me I'm not alone in the special kind of grief miscarriage can bring but God has met others in that same pain. Each chapter walks you through part of Psalm 139 with other passages of the Bible woven throughout. The chapters end with other passages to read and consider, questions for reflection, a response in a prayer or song, and section to journal any thoughts. The quality of the book is beautiful and would make a lovely gift to someone walking the trial of miscarriage. I'm so thankful for God's Word and for people, like Abbey, who are faithfully sharing it. I highly recommend this book.

What an amazing resource. I was on the launch team for this book through The Good Book Company. Some background info (TL;DR at the bottom) : I am a happily married 27 year old woman with two daughters and a son. My husband is a lay pastor and also a businessman. He and I both serve as community group leaders at our local church. I served as the Deacon of Women's Ministry for a season, as well as serving the ladies in our church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry currently. We were blessed with two daughters pretty quickly into marriage with no problems getting pregnant. It was beautiful and wonderful. After my 2nd daughter was born, we struggled through infertility for almost 2 years. Then we got pregnant! It was such a sweet time -- we waited to tell family until I was 11 weeks along. Two days later, there was no heartbeat. Miscarriage is awful all around. The most painful time of our life. Throw that in the mix of infertility and things were just plain HARD. I wished so badly to have a resource to read (even if I could not admit it at the time) to comfort me with truth; to remind me of the promises of Jesus and who He is, and who He is in the darkness of heartache. I followed Abbey Wedgeworth for a while from her Gentle Leading page, and she was my favorite writer (even if I was only reading her writing on Instagram). Her words are well-thought out and beautifully written. She is incredibly intentional with her words. So this book is GOOD. She (and other contributors) walk through Psalm 139 and share their stories and the truth of the Gospel and Jesus in less than 1,000 words per chapter/day (quick for those who don't have a lot of time, or are simply struggling through miscarriage and can't handle much more), but also includes scripture to read, as well as reflection and response sections before another section dedicated for journaling (for those who want to dig deeper and dive into prayer). Praise God for this. It's HUGE -- the reflections helped me work through three-year-old wounds/heartache that I didn't even know were there -- things I couldn't put into words were suddenly brought to light and understood. Not perfectly, but boy, am I thankful for the assistance in processing all that happened (even 3 years later) and recognizing my own issues with my miscarriage, and bringing it all to the Lord. She also has a section written from the perspective of a husband and how he struggled through the loss of his child. This was very helpful. My husband struggled hard, as well, and honestly it's such a good reminder that miscarriage isn't only painful to the women that experience them -- men also feel that emotional pain and struggle during and afterwards. This man's perspective is greatly appreciated. And if you are a man wondering about reading this book, you can (and I would argue that you should) read it. It may help you better understand what your wife is experiencing, and it may help you wrestle through your own feelings of suffering. Please know that if you have NOT experienced miscarriage, this is STILL a great resource that you should read! Prior to my own miscarriage I had no idea what all happened during a miscarriage or how to respond to someone who experienced one. I did not love others well before I experienced it on my own. Had I read this, I would've responded so much better to friends of mine that went through this, and simply would've had a better understanding and would've served them well. Growing in our understanding of the hardships others go through helps us to be more empathetic and learn how to serve them well. ALSO, having this book on hand to give to a friend who is experiencing a miscarriage can also be incredibly loving. Another sweet thing about this book is the included list of recommended books at the end. What a gift. I'm incredibly thankful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book. No matter how long ago you miscarried (whether it's right now, a year ago, or 20 years ago), please know how much of a helpful resource this is to draw you nearer to Christ through the suffering you've endured. I definitely recommend this. Spend time with your Savior today -- bring to Him your heart and all the struggles you're wrestling through, and know that I am praying for you. Miscarriage is painful, but our Father is Good. TL;DR : -- my husband is a lay pastor and businessman; we are community group leaders and disciplers. I also serve with our local church through our pregnancy/postpartum ministry -- experienced my own miscarriage in 2017 after having two daughters and struggling through infertility for almost 2 years -- this book helped me recognize my own issues with miscarriage -- helpful reflection. -- it covers: blaming my body, feeling like a failure -- there is perspective of husband, and men should read this, too! -- helpful no matter how long ago your miscarriage happened, or if you are walking through miscarriage right now -- words per day/chapter less than 1,000 -- walking through Psalm 139 -- reflection, response, and journaling sections after devotion - so very helpful even years later -- helpful even if you haven't miscarried. Helps build your understanding and empathy, and helpful to have on hand for friends in need. -- list of recommended books at the end -- I am grateful for the Lord putting it on Abbey's heart to write this book -- I included one day/chapter from Held for y'all Also, go follow Abbey Wedgeworth on Instagram. She's a gift.

This is the book I wish I had last year when we experienced miscarriage, when my emotions were so raw and my grief overwhelming. It would’ve been so helpful for guiding my heart along those early days of grief and anger. Even still, I find much encouragement in this book now. Abby’s words are kind, gentle, and honest, allowing room for all the grief, emotions, and questions you go through. It was an encouragement to me even now to be reminded of the gospel truths in this book, and reminded that others have walked similar journeys. It was refreshing to know I wasn’t alone in some of the feelings and thoughts I’ve had, especially as this topic is not always publicly discussed. I appreciate the format of this book, a devotional companion for walking through this pain. It has Scripture, a devotional, further reading, reflection questions, and a space for journaling. There’s also a few stories contributed from others between weeks. I highly recommend this resource.

I love this book! Whether you have experienced a miscarriage or someone you know has, this resource helps you to know how to deal with the secret pain and grief of loss in the womb. This book points to healing through the God who creates and cherishes every life. My copy will be kept for the days when I need reminding that God holds both me and my lost little one. And this will be the first resource I share when I hear of someone else that has lost. 1 in 4 women will or have suffered miscarriage. This book is vital. I'm so grateful to have found it.

𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘥 is the book I wish I would have had two years ago when I miscarried our second baby and was grieving and feeling so alone. The loss of life in the womb is a personal and private grief, not often talked about or fully understood by others. Abbey Wedgeworth writes from her own personal experience with loss, validating the sorrow that is miscarriage and pointing the reader to the truth of the scriptures and the hope we can have in Jesus Christ. The book also includes several personal stories from other women and a man who have experienced loss, as well as space for journaling. This devotional is a must read for those who have personally experienced a miscarriage. It has been so helpful to me, even though my miscarriage was a couple of years ago. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this beautifully designed book to give as gifts to other mothers who have experienced this kind of loss. I am so grateful to Abbey for writing this needed book!!

This book is a gospel-centered resource offering real hope to those suffering the pain of miscarriage. Abbey approaches this difficult topic with openness, gentleness, and a steadfast commitment to God's word. In sharing much of her own story, she connects with the reader in a personal way that lends credibility to the message offered. Working through Psalm 139, Abbey shares Biblical wisdom and offers real hope for healing and growth. While I haven't personally suffered the pain of miscarriage, I have walked alongside many who have. It is heartbreaking and, sadly, it affects 1 in 4 women. I'm grateful to have this resource to share! It opened my eyes even more than before to the pain involved in grieving a miscarriage, as well as to God's presence and goodness in any suffering we face. We have two copies on our shelf at home, ready to share with those in need. Thank you, Abbey, for faithfully serving God by writing this book!

God has given Abbey a gift for writing gentle words that have touched the most tender places in my grieving heart. Just like Abbey prayed it would be, I testify that her book, Held, is the best tangible companion for a mother who has recently miscarried -as she needs time before she feels comfortable sharing her pain with others, yet at the same time also needs validation that her grief is real and affirmation of who God is even in affliction. Reading through the pages of this book and meditating on the Bible verses/questions at the end of each chapter is truly like having a sister in Christ sit with you and listen to your hurting heart. You are able to process through your pain at your own pace and anchor your broken heart to the hope in Jesus Christ. After my miscarriages, I kept quiet and held my pain inward for more than a year. Four months ago, I gave birth to a little girl. While it has been a joyous season, my heart has continued to ache as the pains of my previous losses have also resurfaced. This book has come at such perfect timing in my life! It will be the first resource I share with others who experience miscarriage!

I wish I’d have had a book like Held to process my miscarriage experience. I am thankful to have this resource now, and have an extra on hand to give to another woman when the need presents itself. Held helps make sense of the miscarriage and loss; holds truth and reminders of Biblical evidence that God knit us together in our mother’s womb, and that He does not forsake us in our pain. Each devotion is short enough to make it a reasonable read for even the busiest women, but comes packed with substance that will leave your cup and heart full.

Every woman needs this book on her shelf. If not for herself, for a friend, a sister, an acquaintance. Abbey beautifully guides you through the sorrow of miscarriage and loss, all the while grounding you in faith and scripture. She validates rarely talked about feelings, provides a safe space for questions and reflection, and encourages you to sink into your relationship with God to find solace, love, and unending support. As a woman currently pursuing her RN to work with women through their pregnancy, postpartum, and fertility journeys this resource has been far more tangible, enlightening, and supportive to the grieving mother than any medical educational pamphlet available. I will be carrying this resource in my nursing ‘toolbox’ for any mother experiencing loss. This resource isn’t just for the grieving mother - I encourage anyone surrounding the mother to read this as well. You will have a profound look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual trials of miscarriage.